Cheaters

Cherok33 said:
Perfectly normal and I think most can say they "emotionally cheat"

For me personally, as long as you aren't crossing the line of physically cheating I'm good. I would also venture to say that in communications w the other sex one should keep everything on the up and up. Basically, if you wouldn't want your other half to do it to you then don't do those same things to make them have any doubts.
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You're stronger than I :) For me, I think emotional cheating would be very hurtful. I couldn't put up with either level of cheating. I don't just want my mans body, I want his heart too. All of it. If he's emotionally not 100% with me, that's not something I could ever be alright with. IMO if he's able to give himself emotionally, he could be persuaded to give himself physically. I think it's human nature to flirt...nothing wrong with that...but giving yourself emotionally (even just partially) to someone other than your SO could be as damaging to a relationship as physical infidelity.
 
RaiderLL said:
You're stronger than I :) For me, I think emotional cheating would be very hurtful. I couldn't put up with either level of cheating. I don't just want my mans body, I want his heart too. All of it. If he's emotionally not 100% with me, that's not something I could ever be alright with. IMO if he's able to give himself emotionally, he could be persuaded to give himself physically. I think it's human nature to flirt...nothing wrong with that...but giving yourself emotionally (even just partially) to someone other than your SO could be as damaging to a relationship as physical infidelity.
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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to RaiderLL again
 
Women are funny, they will sit there and eat knuckle sandwiches, be verbally stripped of their dignity, put down like lowly species of animals and stick around day in and day out with dudes.... but soon as he cheats, thats when they walk out of the door immediately.

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4north1side2 said:
Women are funny, they will sit there and eat knuckle sandwiches, be verbally stripped of their dignity, put down like lowly species of animals and stick around day in and day out with dudes.... but soon as he cheats, thats when they walk out of the door immediately.

:smt036
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To me cheating is anything you would do that you won't do in front of your spouse, or wouldn't want them to know about.

What some of you described I don't think is "emotional" cheating. I think it's mental cheating. To me, emotional cheating is when someone becomes emotionally involved with someone, falls in love with someone else, etc.

Cheating ends a relationship for me. I've never cheated, never will. I expect the same.
 
4north1side2 said:
Women are funny, they will sit there and eat knuckle sandwiches, be verbally stripped of their dignity, put down like lowly species of animals and stick around day in and day out with dudes.... but soon as he cheats, thats when they walk out of the door immediately.

:smt036
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What you are describing is not women, it's females. There's a difference.
 
RaiderLL said:
You're stronger than I :) For me, I think emotional cheating would be very hurtful. I couldn't put up with either level of cheating. I don't just want my mans body, I want his heart too. All of it. If he's emotionally not 100% with me, that's not something I could ever be alright with. IMO if he's able to give himself emotionally, he could be persuaded to give himself physically. I think it's human nature to flirt...nothing wrong with that...but giving yourself emotionally (even just partially) to someone other than your SO could be as damaging to a relationship as physical infidelity.
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I have to agree with this.
 
I wouldn't know. IF, and I do mean IF, a woman I was in a serious relationship with cheated on me, she would be gone after we had the talk about why she did it in the first place. i mean, she had a weak moment and chose to act on it than talk to me about her desires. But, so far, in my life that hasn't happened, thank God. But, I guess I would detect that something is wrong if I were in a close, physical relationship with a woman.
 
KinCA said:
emotional cheating can be more destructive than having sex with someone else
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true its selfishness bottom line but how its justified differs among genders


heres one article....others to come.

http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/6502892

Tamstrong said:
Gender has nothing to do with that crap. A lot of cheaters, regardless of gender, try to justify their cheating by blaming it on someone or something else. Most cheaters aren't willing to admit to being the selfish, disrespectful assholes they are. It's not a gender issue, yet for some reason some people tend to try to turn it into one. Gender doesn't make one cheater any worse than another, and there are just as many sorry individuals in one group as there are in the other.
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I could if there was a lot riding on the marriage as an entity, provided I knew what I was getting myself into and had my eyes open.
 
KinCA said:
To me cheating is anything you would do that you won't do in front of your spouse, or wouldn't want them to know about.

What some of you described I don't think is "emotional" cheating. I think it's mental cheating. To me, emotional cheating is when someone becomes emotionally involved with someone, falls in love with someone else, etc.

Cheating ends a relationship for me. I've never cheated, never will. I expect the same.
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How are you able to justify staying in an abusive relationship for so long but be able to end an relationship on a dime when it comes to cheating? In that sense, it's like you welcomed the abuse because shows you always had the power to leave whenever.
 
4north1side2 said:
How are you able to justify staying in an abusive relationship for so long but be able to end an relationship on a dime when it comes to cheating? In that sense, it's like you welcomed the abuse because shows you always had the power to leave whenever.
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Excuse me? I've never justified anyone staying in an abusive relationship, nor have I ever been or stayed in one. I grew up in an abusive environment, the cycle stopped with them.
 
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