chris brown at the BET awards

chicity said:
Yes, but "shawty" isn't her real first name.

It's fairly common for Black Women to be known amongst their friends and peers as Ms or Miss ___[insert first name here]___ because it's a Southern American throwback.

However, that same Southern American throwback takes on a different meaning amongst American White Women when interacting with Black people. Usually, the White Woman known as Ms [insert first name here] was the slavemaster's wife.

It sets off a series of red flags for me. Usually, nice White people will avoid sounding anything like a Southern American throwback. Like, the tendency to not even refer to Black male children as "boys". You just don't like how it sounds, even if it is technically innocent. So to be so eager for Black Men to call you Ms {real first name} seems suspicious.
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right. well that make sense now, thank you for clearing it up for me.
 
chicity said:
Yes, but "shawty" isn't her real first name.

It's fairly common for Black Women to be known amongst their friends and peers as Ms or Miss ___[insert first name here]___ because it's a Southern American throwback.

However, that same Southern American throwback takes on a different meaning amongst American White Women when interacting with Black people. Usually, the White Woman known as Ms [insert first name here] was the slavemaster's wife.

It sets off a series of red flags for me. Usually, nice White people will avoid sounding anything like a Southern American throwback. Like, the tendency to not even refer to Black male children as "boys". You just don't like how it sounds, even if it is technically innocent. So to be so eager for Black Men to call you Ms {real first name} seems suspicious.
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You need to get over yourself. Its a surname it is commonly used everywhere. For example professional settings, teachers, elders, etc. It is not a term specifically used by enslaved black people when talking about there masters. You make no sense and you are just trying to start shit. Talk to me when you have something intelligent to say.
 
Tarshibear said:
right. well that make sense now, thank you for clearing it up for me.
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archangel said:
which is?
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no matter if you are black or white ..... women are going to stick together (most of the time) and do slick sh#t. when it comes to BM they are quick to do that slick sh#t and backstab a bro. especially in public. you live long enough and listen closely you mom is not immune to doing that sh## and/or she has already done it and in some way it will be revealed to you.

is she a horrible person maybe not. she more than likely regret the sh##. but it will come up. just live and listen.
 
ms kourtney said:
You need to get over yourself. Its a surname it is commonly used everywhere. For example professional settings, teachers, elders, etc. It is not a term specifically used by enslaved black people when talking about there masters. You make no sense and you are just trying to start shit. Talk to me when you have something intelligent to say.
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as far as bw coming on this site ... I dont care. I dont care if they have opposing ideas...that is good and is part of life. if a person has an opposing idea and bring it forth in a funny and/or in benign manner cool. there are people here are very bellicose. they cannot handle people with opposing views. they are the internet nazis. they will only allow homogenous thinkers on "their" site. so take it with a grain of salt.

I every once in a while I get e-nazis so I have to watch myself ...do unto others as you want them to do onto you.
 
goodlove said:
no matter if you are black or white ..... women are going to stick together (most of the time) and do slick sh#t. when it comes to BM they are quick to do that slick sh#t and backstab a bro. especially in public. you live long enough and listen closely you mom is not immune to doing that sh## and/or she has already done it and in some way it will be revealed to you.

is she a horrible person maybe not. she more than likely regret the sh##. but it will come up. just live and listen.
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I think this is your perception because you have had bad times. I have had a better time with women. I have seen more of the opposite. They move fast to attack each other. but hey different outlooks, we are different ethnicities and in different locations of the usa.
 
karmacoma. said:
God can we raise up off Chris Brown please? Let a black man breathe. If a hoodrat nigga robbed a liquor store he'd get more respect. We need to be asking what Miss Forehead did to make Mr. Clean Cut go off.
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Good question......

No one truly knows what goes on behind closed doors...

He'd best be lucky that they *weren't* husband-and-wife when all the scufflin' went on...


Then, after the lawyers & such won, he'd *really* have a reason to cry..













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"Ms" in front of name, check
Aggressive and opinionated from jump, check
I am "threatened" by her "attitude" check
Recites litany of "I'm independent, pay my own rent, got my own money, bla bla bla" when nobody asked, check

Be honest. What kind of female does that sound like to you? One could see why I was confused.

Note: please imagine I still have my some not all sig so the PC simps don't start crying again
 
karmacoma. said:
"Ms" in front of name, check
Aggressive and opinionated from jump, check
I am "threatened" by her "attitude" check
Recites litany of "I'm independent, pay my own rent, got my own money, bla bla bla" when nobody asked, check

Be honest. What kind of female does that sound like to you? One could see why I was confused.

Note: please imagine I still have my some not all sig so the PC simps don't start crying again
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I swear dude. Here we go with the PC bull crap. When it is right and someone doesn't like it, it is PC. lol Again wasn't simping.
 
archangel said:
I think this is your perception because you have had bad times. I have had a better time with women. I have seen more of the opposite. They move fast to attack each other. but hey different outlooks, we are different ethnicities and in different locations of the usa.
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damn dude. its just my perception. it is a fact. look at C. Brown ( I will give him a half of a pass maybe just a 1/4 of one), listen to other bro's instead of your momma and oprah winfrey. listen to them women walk on water.

AnMDBCartoon said:
Good question......

No one truly knows what goes on behind closed doors...exactly

He'd best be lucky that they *weren't* husband-and-wife when all the scufflin' went on...on point


Then, after the lawyers & such won, he'd *really* have a reason to cry..LOL. Cry me a river.













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karmacoma. said:
"Ms" in front of name, check
Aggressive and opinionated from jump, checkcheck check
I am "threatened" by her "attitude" checknaw you are wrong. its they are threatened by my strength. (I love to argue just to argue because it shows Im a strong BW
Recites litany of "I'm independent, pay my own rent, got my own money, bla bla bla" when nobody asked, checkwell, they will say that but when the rent is due...in a so loving voice "hey baby can you help your boo." If you say no..then "well Im your woman and your the man you are suppose to support me. ( the equal shit goes out the window when the rent is due and they are short because they purchased the weave yesterday)

Be honest. What kind of female does that sound like to you? One could see why I was confused.Doesnt matter what race but the previous phrases are the anthem of black women

Note: please imagine I still have my some not all sig so the PC simps don't start crying again
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Mild mannered simpie who works for the dailey cup cake gazette dont realize he will be putting on his cape real soon and turn into captain save a hoe !!!! he can pay any bill with one strike of a pen. take a rain of tears like a sponge because he will get sponged. work three jobs for somebody elses baby. Its a fool no its an idiot no its captain save a hoe

karmacoma. said:
Did I mention your name?
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yes you did you said its captain save a hoe
 
ms kourtney said:
I agree with what you saying no one should hit anyone. I actually believe in non-violence in all forms. It is not right for a woman to hit a man, but for a man to hit a woman is bringing a knife to a fist fight because a woman can not defend herself against man. Most men are bigger, stronger, faster, etc than women. I hate to say it but it is the truth.
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tell that to the men who've been batterred into a coma by there partners. domestic violence swings both ways hun and not all men are 6 foot and solid dating 5ft petite women. domestic violence is harder on men as its still a massive taboo for them to admit a woman can give them such a hiding

im a victim of domestic violence, ive never raised my hand to anyone. my ex wouldnt have a fight with a man, no he would come home and take it out on me insted. he was 2 inches taller than me but he was very underweight so i should have in theory the advantage on my side but trust me someone looking a fight seems to find that extra damn strength from somewhere weather they are a man or a woman

im with espy on this, if a womans slapping a man she can darn well expect a slap in return
 
robina said:
tell that to the men who've been batterred into a coma by there partners. domestic violence swings both ways hun and not all men are 6 foot and solid dating 5ft petite women. domestic violence is harder on men as its still a massive taboo for them to admit a woman can give them such a hiding

im a victim of domestic violence, ive never raised my hand to anyone. my ex wouldnt have a fight with a man, no he would come home and take it out on me insted. he was 2 inches taller than me but he was very underweight so i should have in theory the advantage on my side but trust me someone looking a fight seems to find that extra damn strength from somewhere weather they are a man or a woman

im with espy on this, if a womans slapping a man she can darn well expect a slap in return
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goodlove said:
damn dude. its just my perception. it is a fact. look at C. Brown ( I will give him a half of a pass maybe just a 1/4 of one), listen to other bro's instead of your momma and oprah winfrey. listen to them women walk on water.
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I could care less about C.Brown. It is an opinion or perception. Listen to other bros? which ones? the ones who don't know that I don't watch oprah or referencing me to captain save a hoe? Your problems with women aren't mines. again different areas and different ethnicities. I have never heard of this talk from my friends that are male in my area. I do listen to my bros that actually know me. They didn't have foul crap to say. Problems with women in your area are not problems with my women in my area.
 
robina said:
tell that to the men who've been batterred into a coma by there partners. domestic violence swings both ways hun and not all men are 6 foot and solid dating 5ft petite women. domestic violence is harder on men as its still a massive taboo for them to admit a woman can give them such a hiding

im a victim of domestic violence, ive never raised my hand to anyone. my ex wouldnt have a fight with a man, no he would come home and take it out on me insted. he was 2 inches taller than me but he was very underweight so i should have in theory the advantage on my side but trust me someone looking a fight seems to find that extra damn strength from somewhere weather they are a man or a woman

im with espy on this, if a womans slapping a man she can darn well expect a slap in return
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