chris brown at the BET awards

archangel said:
This is a double standard. Everyone has the right to defend themselves. While I agree that Chris brown went too far, He has the right to defend himself against anyone. Here is the thing. Is it ok for one person to hit another? Should the person defend them self if attacked? There are no conditions to these question. Equality can not survive in chivalry. A society without equality will not survive for long. My sister, mother or any other woman in my family would never attack someone unless attacked. I can not say the same for this lady who attacked chris first. She needs to be put in the same program as Chris. Remember the Golden rule. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

Keep you hands to yourself and everything will be all right.
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If by defending youself you mean restraining a women, or better yet, walking away, then you are absolutly correct. Although I completely believe in equality, a womens physical strengh is not equal to a mans. Therefore the harm a man can do to a woman, in most cases, surpasses the harm a woman can do to him. Because of this it is unfair to beat a woman. With that said I agree no one should hit anyone for any reason, but it is still a bitch move to hit on someone weaker then yourself.
 
karmacoma. said:
LOL you black chicks always screamin' about thugs and roughnecks then when one beats your ass you wanna cry foul.

If women are equal in 2010 they can get what anybody would get if they provoke somebody as far as I'm concerned. Act like a lady and you won't have anything to worry about.
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Act like a lady? What is a lady suppose to act like? Is there only one way for us to act? Like letting a man do or say whatever and just keeping our mouths shut and staying pretty? I don't know what kind of women you are use to dealing with, but woman like myself don't take shit.

And by the way, I'm white, I'm just not a push over.
 
ms kourtney said:
If by defending youself you mean restraining a women, or better yet, walking away, then you are absolutly correct. Although I completely believe in equality, a womens physical strengh is not equal to a mans. Therefore the harm a man can do to a woman, in most cases, surpasses the harm a woman can do to him. Because of this it is unfair to beat a woman. With that said I agree no one should hit anyone for any reason, but it is still a bitch move to hit on someone weaker then yourself.
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If you are weaker than a person, you shouldn't attack them first. The sad part is this thought is done by everyone. Go punch an elephant or a bear in the eye and tell it that I am weaker than you. You shouldn't hit me. They will mess you up so fast. It is about respect. You simply do not attack anything(especially if it is bigger than you). If you do, prepare to be attacked. We all seek to defend ourselves. LIke I said before, Golden rule! Do unto other as you would have them do unto you.
 
ms kourtney said:
Act like a lady? What is a lady suppose to act like? Is there only one way for us to act? Like letting a man do or say whatever and just keeping our mouths shut and staying pretty? I don't know what kind of women you are use to dealing with, but woman like myself don't take shit.

And by the way, I'm white, I'm just not a push over.
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what is that suppose to mean ? are you saying that BM date ww because you guys are docile ?
 
Liquid Swords said:
CO SIGN.

Fight like a man, get your ass beat like a man.

I'm ACTUALLY for female equality. It pisses me off when some women want to be treated equally but then act all weak and pathetic when it comes to something like this.
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Who said anyone was fighting like a man? Where are Chris Browns brusies? Yep she really fucked his ass up didn't she? Did you see pictures of his busted face? I think not. She did not have that coming to her. If he just hit her once, maybe I could understand, but that wasnt just a cheap shot. He hit her multiple times and that was not neccessary. Pick on someone or something your own size.
 
ms kourtney said:
Who said anyone was fighting like a man? Where are Chris Browns brusies? Yep she really fucked his ass up didn't she? Did you see pictures of his busted face? I think not. She did not have that coming to her. If he just hit her once, maybe I could understand, but that wasnt just a cheap shot. He hit her multiple times and that was not neccessary. Pick on someone or something your own size.
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I think she wasn't talking about the chris/rihanna incident but in general. I think we all agree that he went too far in defense even if she attacked him while he was driving and could have crashed the car and killed both of them because she attacked him(if memory serves me right).
 
archangel said:
If you are weaker than a person, you shouldn't attack them first. The sad part is this thought is done by everyone. Go punch an elephant or a bear in the eye and tell it that I am weaker than you. You shouldn't hit me. They will mess you up so fast. It is about respect. You simply do not attack anything(especially if it is bigger than you). If you do, prepare to be attacked. We all seek to defend ourselves. LIke I said before, Golden rule! Do unto other as you would have them do unto you.
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to add on is this. even if you think the person is weaker than you dont fuck with em because they probably know they are weaker than you thus they will bring an equalizer like a brick and bust your ass. so the weaker person is really more dangerous and my get stupid and do something crazy.

again WOMEN stop doing slick shit. men will take a slap or even two but when you go over that PT you best man up because its coming.
 
archangel said:
If you are weaker than a person, you shouldn't attack them first. The sad part is this thought is done by everyone. Go punch an elephant or a bear in the eye and tell it that I am weaker than you. You shouldn't hit me. They will mess you up so fast. It is about respect. You simply do not attack anything(especially if it is bigger than you). If you do, prepare to be attacked. We all seek to defend ourselves. LIke I said before, Golden rule! Do unto other as you would have them do unto you.
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First of all animal can not be compared to a human because they act purley on instinct. Humans can reason. I agree if she hit him she should not have, but it still does not make it right. If a 10 year old hit a grown man is it okay for that man to beat the shit out of the kid? In your world of thinking I guess that's cool right?
 
archangel said:
I think she wasn't talking about the chris/rihanna incident but in general. I think we all agree that he went too far in defense even if she attacked him while he was driving and could have crashed the car and killed both of them because she attacked him(if memory serves me right).
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you are rite. she jumped on him while he was driving. she should have gotten a back hand for that but he should have held his peace after that
 
ms kourtney said:
Act like a lady? What is a lady suppose to act like? Is there only one way for us to act? Like letting a man do or say whatever and just keeping our mouths shut and staying pretty? I don't know what kind of women you are use to dealing with, but woman like myself don't take shit.

And by the way, I'm white, I'm just not a push over.
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are you saying BM think WW are docile and that is why we date you ladies because of the stereotype of being docile ? is that what you are saying ?
 
archangel said:
I think she wasn't talking about the chris/rihanna incident but in general. I think we all agree that he went too far in defense even if she attacked him while he was driving and could have crashed the car and killed both of them because she attacked him(if memory serves me right).
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thank you. agreed.
 
ms kourtney said:
First of all animal can not be compared to a human because they act purley on instinct. Humans can reason. I agree if she hit him she should not have, but it still does not make it right. If a 10 year old hit a grown man is it okay for that man to beat the shit out of the kid? In your world of thinking I guess that's cool right?
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we are mammals. we are the cousins of apes .
 
ms kourtney said:
I'm not saying we are docile. I'm asking if this what you expect us to be.
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no one stated that or ever mentioned that ever . I never ever seen anyone state that on this website ever. JUST YOU. Im offended.

we do however would like for a WOMAN white or black to be a team player.
 
goodlove said:
we are mammals. we are the cousins of apes .
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I know. Our frontal lobes are much bigger which is the part of the brain that controls planning, reasoning, ext...

Proportionality, this part of our brain is larger then any other animal, including our cousin Curious George.
 
ms kourtney said:
I know. Our frontal lobes are much bigger which is the part of the brain that controls planning, reasoning, ext...

Proportionality, this part of our brain is larger then any other animal, including our cousin Curious George.
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one common thread between us is survival. if we are threaten we will react. dont start something it will be nothing
 
ms kourtney said:
I know. Our frontal lobes are much bigger which is the part of the brain that controls planning, reasoning, ext...

Proportionality, this part of our brain is larger then any other animal, including our cousin Curious George.
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With all of this debate, I'd like to say welcome to the boards. :smt006 We have a welcome section so that people can say hi to you. 8)
 
goodlove said:
no one stated that or ever mentioned that ever . I never ever seen anyone state that on this website ever. JUST YOU. Im offended.

we do however would like for a WOMAN white or black to be a team player.
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"Act like a lady and you won't have anything to worry about."-karmacoma

I then asked what a lady acts like? Docile? I was posing the question to him.
 
ms kourtney said:
Act like a lady? What is a lady suppose to act like? Is there only one way for us to act? Like letting a man do or say whatever and just keeping our mouths shut and staying pretty? I don't know what kind of women you are use to dealing with, but woman like myself don't take shit.

And by the way, I'm white, I'm just not a push over.
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I saw your pics in the other thread and apologized. But I can see your neck popping from side to side as I read your post. You must be an "urban" white chick. LOL.
 
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