chris brown at the BET awards

[goodlove]

wow, you are still on me!

i am white. i grew up with all white people, in a predominantly white area. for whatever reason i always gravitated toward black people, both men and women. that's not to say i did not have white friends too, i had both. through my life i have learned to see both sides of the story when it comes to race. even though im not black i take offense to how you catagorize and steorotype bw. how would you like it if somone was to prejudge you because you are a bm and automatically think you are the negitive sterotypes associated with them?
just because you may think i sound like a bw does not make me one. a persons color cannot be determind by their opinions. as you have stated, i'm am very opinonated. i just think you should know these opinons of mine have been formed by me and my white self, no one else.

does the way i think make you uncomfortable?

too late !!!!

 

[reggie2k8]

Well you're wrong, but on too many points to argue.

On a side note, you and Ms Kourtney appear to share very similar opinions on this matter, and you're both located on the 'East Coast', how convenient, she indicated she's a WW, you indicated you're a BM... hmmm you might make a good couple? I mean since you're already in the same location, and you share the same opinion... why not?

ESPY how am wrong? Why is that the top men sprinters are always faster than women? Why is that men body builders are always stronger than women? Why do the top basketball athletes always jump higher than women? If women were equals to men why don't they let men and women fight in boxing matches? Obviously women could use there small size to an advantage as you and I believe Chi have said...right. Women are more flexible and from some of the research that I've seen can handle pain better but other than that I can't think of anything a woman is better at than a men from a physical standpoint.

Well I don't really share the same opinion as Ms Kourtney. Only when it comes to men being physical superior to women. From what I have read she believes that men are should never hit a woman under any circumstance. While I don't agree with what Chris did to Rihanna I don't think she is completely innocent in the situation. The East Coast is pretty big so who knows where she is from. I originally didn't want to put down to much info on my profile but I think I have already mentioned that I'm from Baltimore, lived in Philly for school, and worked in Boston. Hence the East Coast reference.

 

[archangel]

ESPY how am wrong? Why is that the top men sprinters are always faster than women? Why is that men body builders are always stronger than women? Why do the top basketball athletes always jump higher than women? If women were equals to men why don't they let men and women fight in boxing matches? Obviously women could use there small size to an advantage as you and I believe Chi have said...right. Women are more flexible and from some of the research that I've seen can handle pain better but other than that I can't think of anything a woman is better at than a men from a physical standpoint.

Well I don't really share the same opinion as Ms Kourtney. Only when it comes to men being physical superior to women. From what I have read she believes that men are should never hit a woman under any circumstance. While I don't agree with what Chris did to Rihanna I don't think she is completely innocent in the situation. The East Coast is pretty big so who knows where she is from. I originally didn't want to put down to much info on my profile but I think I have already mentioned that I'm from Baltimore, lived in Philly for school, and worked in Boston. Hence the East Coast reference.

For the record, I think both of you are right but are fighting two different battles. The average woman could not beat the average man. Espy is also right that a woman with training could beat a man.

You can't expect someone like this.

to beat someone like this

yes that is a woman.

 

[Espy]

For the record, I think both of you are right but are fighting to different battles. The average woman could not beat the average man. Espy is also right that a woman with training could beat a man.

You can't expect someone like this.

to beat someone like this

yes that is a woman.

Yes and I didn't say the average woman could beat the average man, that was not the comment Ms Kourtney made. She stated essentially that a woman could not take a man, that is false. A properly trained woman can, and not all properly trained women look like that female pic you posted either. I've seen small women whup bigger men, there are a lot of variables that play into any fight, and size and strength are only two of them, and sometimes they aren't the most important.

 

[archangel]

Yes and I didn't say the average woman could beat the average man, that was not the comment Ms Kourtney made. She stated essentially that a woman could not take a man, that is false. A properly trained woman can, and not all properly trained women look like that female pic you posted either. I've seen small women whup bigger men, there are a lot of variables that play into any fight, and size and strength are only two of them, and sometimes they aren't the most important.

I think that is where you two were having the problem. I think he thought you meant the average woman could beat the average man while you were defending that a well trained woman could beat the average man. Both are correct views as far as I am concerned.

 

[Espy]

I think that is where you two were having the problem. I think he thought you meant the average woman could beat the average man while you were defending that a well trained woman could beat the average man. Both are correct views as far as I am concerned.

:smt023

 

[reggie2k8]

I think that is where you two were having the problem. I think he thought you meant the average woman could beat the average man while you were defending that a well trained woman could beat the average man. Both are correct views as far as I am concerned.

Well to me it did sound like ESPY was stating that an average women could beat a man. I too think that Chyna would be the hell out of Danny Devito but that goes to show that it has to be somewhat extreme in nature for it to happen. ESPY I don't think Kourtney said no woman could take a man but that most men would take most women. Size and and strength doesn't always guarantee a win in a fight but it does increase the probability especially if it is a man on woman. There are always exceptions to a rule but the few small women that whip up on men are just that, exceptions.

 

[Espy]

Well to me it did sound like ESPY was stating that an average women could beat a man. I too think that Chyna would be the hell out of Danny Devito but that goes to show that it has to be somewhat extreme in nature for it to happen. ESPY I don't think Kourtney said no woman could take a man but that most men would take most women. Size and and strength doesn't always guarantee a win in a fight but it does increase the probability especially if it is a man on woman. There are always exceptions to a rule but the few small women that whip up on men are just that, exceptions.

No, please see below:

I agree with what you saying no one should hit anyone. I actually believe in non-violence in all forms. It is not right for a woman to hit a man, but for a man to hit a woman is bringing a knife to a fist fight because a woman can not defend herself against man. Most men are bigger, stronger, faster, etc than women. I hate to say it but it is the truth.

You know damn well if your daughter came home with a bloody face because a man beat her up you would not think it would okay even if she did hit him first. But if you do think that is okay then you are a shitty ass mother. Chis Brown did not just hit her once, he beat her, and that is not okay.

I read this to mean a woman cannot take a man in a fight, because Ms Kourtney believes that it would always be an unfair fight as the man would always have the advantages. That is what I disagree with.

 

[chicity]

My sister in law is the regional kick boxing champion, and she's a parole officer. She's tiny and adorable, but believe me not a one of those big tough thugs is testing the "men are always stronger than women" theory. It would be a mistake. Girly is terrifying.

All of that is irrelevant of course.

Women fought for generations for the right to fight in the military, to work construction jobs, to compete at sports at all. On behalf of ovary-owners everywhere, let me say this: We ain't giving all this shit up just so that a few idiots can trying punching Men. We fought to be considered equal, and we will be held to equal standards if we want to keep what we fought for.

That means: if you think you are the equivalent of Danny Devito in a world of Chynas, DON'T START FIGHTS YOU CAN'T FINISH.


It's very simple.

 

[chicity]

I leave for a couples days and come back to see how this thread has exploded. This has to be one of the dumbest things that I have seen on this site. You must have been listening to Rev. Jesse Jackson or Al Sharpton to long because they are able to find racism in places where it doesn't exist. First you assume that she is black because she has "Ms" in her name which is ridiculous. Then once you find out she is a WW you call her racist because of the "Ms" in her name.

I think some of the people on here are so paranoid that any person that has a different opinion from the consesus on this website you must be an angry black women, white man, or in "Ms. Kourtney's" case a WW that has been brainwashed by an angry black women. But you are correct when you say eyebrows are raised when a white person(especially a WM) refers to a black male as a "boy".

 

[flaminghetero]

 

[reggie2k8]

My sister in law is the regional kick boxing champion, and she's a parole officer. She's tiny and adorable, but believe me not a one of those big tough thugs is testing the "men are always stronger than women" theory. It would be a mistake. Girly is terrifying.

All of that is irrelevant of course.

Women fought for generations for the right to fight in the military, to work construction jobs, to compete at sports at all. On behalf of ovary-owners everywhere, let me say this: We ain't giving all this shit up just so that a few idiots can trying punching Men. We fought to be considered equal, and we will be held to equal standards if we want to keep what we fought for.

That means: if you think you are the equivalent of Danny Devito in a world of Chynas, DON'T START FIGHTS YOU CAN'T FINISH.


It's very simple.

Your sister in law doesn't challenge any theory. She is the exception. If most women were like this then you would have a case. I'm not saying a woman can't beat a man but in most cases women are not like your sister in law.

 

[reggie2k8]

What does the cute kitten picture mean? I guess it is some type of inside joke that I was not around for the meaning.

 

[chicity]

Your sister in law doesn't challenge any theory. She is the exception. If most women were like this then you would have a case. I'm not saying a woman can't beat a man but in most cases women are not like your sister in law.

If there's an exception, then 'always' does not apply.

You've already conceded this point, so it would make more sense for you to stop arguing it.

It's further utterly fucking idiotic for anyone in 2010 to suggest that there's any meaningful, policy- or society - affecting differences in the dangerousness of Women or Men. Guns and tazers make everyone equal; don't start fights; special rules for Women are stupid and illogical.

Oh, and while I'm at it:

 

[LA]

 

[ms kourtney]

too late !!!!

and i bet its not appreciated.

 

[ms kourtney]

first off please dont call me hun. i'm not your hun and the way you are saying it is condescending. second i have never condoned violence of any kind against anyone. I know woman who have beaten their men, trust me, in no way do I think thats cute. Its wrong from any direction.

i feel empathy for you, no one deserves that. the point i'm trying to make is that if a women was hitting on a man, and he wanted to, 9 times out of 10 he would fuck her up. size is not the only issue, men are stronger, they have more muscle mass and they are quicker. now is this true in every single case, no, but it is factual that on a whole men have more physical might then woman.
with that being said i dont feel its right for a man to hit a women. instead he should just walk away or restrain her. he should be the "bigger" man, because at the end of the day he is capable of doing more damage to her then she is to him.

there is my exception

 

[goodlove]

aaawww shucks I should have gotten my popcorn

 

[robina]

I always sit in books a million and darn near read the whole book . I rarely buy a book I would just sit in barnes and nobles and/or books a million and just read em. they will not stop you. I sometimes buy a book if I really like it but for the most part i will read a chapter ech time I come in there until i finished the book.

Book stores are great places to meet and take women on dates. go check it out and you will see why. i will trade notes with you when you do.

what your looking for hun is a library.

i hate going to buy a new book only to find its dog earred from someone reading it. its a shop. buy something or move along. same goes for folks who read the magazines and newspapers at the newstand. its a buisness. buy it or do one

thank you for your future co operation

 

[karmacoma.]

what your looking for hun is a library.

i hate going to buy a new book only to find its dog earred from someone reading it. its a shop. buy something or move along. same goes for folks who read the magazines and newspapers at the newstand. its a buisness. buy it or do one

thank you for your future co operation

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