Do white women prefer black men when they are older?

That's the thing perception means so much to (most) girls in the teen years. It's embedded in how girls view themselves most of the time.
 
samson1701 said:
I give women in that age group a pass. I grew up in working class, mostly white area. Went to an all white high school back in the early to mid 80's. Let me tell you, the pressure these girls faced for dating a black guy was crazy.

One girl went against her father and dated my boy. Her family actually had her committed. Lots of girs wanted to, but just couldn't take the chance.

Think about it, you're a teenager who never gets into trouble, makes good grades but you know for a fact that your family will totally disown you for dating outside of your race. What are you going to do?

Things were changing back then, but it was nowhere near as tolorant as it is today.

So, if they want to wait until later in life, welcome aboard.
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According to some this doesn't happen
 
Rochiebabes86 said:
End of college Soph yr college once I realized my high school relationship was ending.but I've met my share of 30-40+ women/mothers/divorcees in IR relationships in the 8-10 years since at family parties social outings double dates and whatever else. Been with 2 guys since one for 2.5 hrs the other been going strong for almost 5.

I've met a lot who were stuck in bad relationships and the experience makes them realize happiness is the main thing. None of them say they purposely avoided black men but they admit that they considered the feelings and approval of parents, family, and those close to them when pursuing relationships was younger women. I wish I could provide empirical evidence and not anecdotal but this is just my personal experiences. Out of 12-15 women I'd say 8-10 felt that way.
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I definitely see this. Actually it's been my only personal experience no woman's family has ever supported me being with their daughter and that's coming from as safe as you can get black guy. Good schools good solid nuclear family never been in trouble total opposite of the thug they envision when they think of their daughter with a black guy. So the threat of disapproval is real as hell but to me it's sort of like being gay, you gotta live your life and be happy for you. Anyone who truly loves you won't hold this shit shot against you.
They'll celebrate and support it even if they don't agree with it.
 
The Dark King said:
I definitely see this. Actually it's been my only personal experience no woman's family has ever supported me being with their daughter and that's coming from as safe as you can get black guy. Good schools good solid nuclear family never been in trouble total opposite of the thug they envision when they think of their daughter with a black guy. So the threat of disapproval is real as hell but to me it's sort of like being gay, you gotta live your life and be happy for you. Anyone who truly loves you won't hold this shit shot against you.
They'll celebrate and support it even if they don't agree with it.
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You would hope so
 
samson1701 said:
I give women in that age group a pass. I grew up in working class, mostly white area. Went to an all white high school back in the early to mid 80's. Let me tell you, the pressure these girls faced for dating a black guy was crazy.

One girl went against her father and dated my boy. Her family actually had her committed. Lots of girs wanted to, but just couldn't take the chance.

Think about it, you're a teenager who never gets into trouble, makes good grades but you know for a fact that your family will totally disown you for dating outside of your race. What are you going to do?

Things were changing back then, but it was nowhere near as tolorant as it is today.

So, if they want to wait until later in life, welcome aboard.
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Not only that but the reality is that for those girls who grew up in an all white area, they didn't have the opportunities to date black guys even if they wanted to and were willing to go against their parents. There was one black guy in my high school. He dated a friend of mine for a bit during the summer and after they split up no other guy would go out with her.

My first "bf" was in 6th grade and he was biracial but no one new it. We would just talk on the phone.

Some of the girls would go to games just to be able to see black guys.

It was a different world.
 
K said:
Not only that but the reality is that for those girls who grew up in an all white area, they didn't have the opportunities to date black guys even if they wanted to and were willing to go against their parents. There was one black guy in my high school. He dated a friend of mine for a bit during the summer and after they split up no other guy would go out with her.

My first "bf" was in 6th grade and he was biracial but no one new it. We would just talk on the phone.

Some of the girls would go to games just to be able to see black guys.

It was a different world.
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Was it because of that whole "tainted" mentality?
 
WW dating Black Men when their older

In my experience older WW dating black men stems from: 1. Concerns about what her parents would think when young-(Seriously would your white parents move into your bedroom when you and a black husband get married?) 2. Financial challenges due to being in an interracial relationship-losing your job/business relationships,being harassed on the job because of an WW/BM interracial relationship. 3. WW are no longer appealing to white males for whatever reason-Little on the thicker,voluptuous side and/or not skinny as a toothpick,not aging well,etc. Most women (of all colors) want to be loved and get attention. 4. Being told by white parents or other white family members/friends that black men are beneath them and you shouldn't marry them, only tolerate them if neccessary.
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The Dark King said:
I definitely see this. Actually it's been my only personal experience no woman's family has ever supported me being with their daughter and that's coming from as safe as you can get black guy. Good schools good solid nuclear family never been in trouble total opposite of the thug they envision when they think of their daughter with a black guy. So the threat of disapproval is real as hell but to me it's sort of like being gay, you gotta live your life and be happy for you. Anyone who truly loves you won't hold this shit shot against you.
They'll celebrate and support it even if they don't agree with it.
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Yeah but their mentality is different. I said this beforeww, catch hell for dating BM. People got mad at that but as you see , it is the truth
 
goodlove8 said:
Yeah but their mentality is different. I said this beforeww, catch hell for dating BM. People got mad at that but as you see , it is the truth
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Every time you say that I gotta roll my eyes. From who? The truth is the majority of ww dating bm do it because they either have the kind of support system that doesn't care or they don't so they don't care. Daddy's little girl needing family approval stay clear of bm. Those who might catch hell experiment in college and then keep it moving.

What I am beginning to see more and more as I get older is people rarely step outside their comfort zone, most women seek external validation and won't deviate from the path of least resistance. So that fringe of ww dating black men who catch hell are incredibly small
 
The Dark King said:
Every time you say that I gotta roll my eyes. From who? The truth is the majority of ww dating bm do it because they either have the kind of support system that doesn't care or they don't so they don't care. Daddy's little girl needing family approval stay clear of bm. Those who might catch hell experiment in college and then keep it moving.

What I am beginning to see more and more as I get older is people rarely step outside their comfort zone, most women seek external validation and won't deviate from the path of least resistance. So that fringe of ww dating black men who catch hell are incredibly small
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So what these people just posted is a lie huh?

So it bs that a kid would listen to her father or be afraid of getting thrown out the house for dating black?


Is it wrong for ww to date a BM for the first time after the age of thirty ? How about 40 or 50? You have inferred that ww dating in that age range did cause they were rejects.
 
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goodlove8 said:
So what these people just posted is a lie huh?

So it bs that a kid would listen to her father or be afraid of getting thrown out the house for dating black?


Is it wrong for ww to date a BM for the first time after the age of thirty ? How about 40 or 50? You have inferred that ww dating in that age range did cause they were rejects.
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Sure did and stand by it. Its definitely not all but quite a few. And seriously please re-read what I wrote.
 
The Dark King said:
Sure did and stand by it. Its definitely not all but quite a few. And seriously please re-read what I wrote.
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I'm just want to make sure I'm understanding you correctly so I'm going to go one question at a time.


Are you saying what the women posted about what they and their friends (ww) was a lie? Yes or no.
 
The Dark King said:
Sure did and stand by it. Its definitely not all but quite a few. And seriously please re-read what I wrote.
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It amazes me that 2 (or more) people can read the same things and get something totally different.

I think he grabs onto one thing and twists it and runs with it.
 
K said:
It amazes me that 2 (or more) people can read the same things and get something totally different.

I think he grabs onto one thing and twists it and runs with it.
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I'm telling you. It's hard to converse with someone who has an obvious agenda.
 
goodlove8 said:
I'm just want to make sure I'm understanding you correctly so I'm going to go one question at a time.


Are you saying what the women posted about what they and their friends (ww) was a lie? Yes or no.
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Nope not saying that I'm saying ww as a whole don't catch hell because won't date someone where that's a possibility. The type that would catch hell just won't date us at all.
 
The Dark King said:
Every time you say that I gotta roll my eyes. From who? The truth is the majority of ww dating bm do it because they either have the kind of support system that doesn't care or they don't so they don't care. Daddy's little girl needing family approval stay clear of bm. Those who might catch hell experiment in college and then keep it moving.

What I am beginning to see more and more as I get older is people rarely step outside their comfort zone, most women seek external validation and won't deviate from the path of least resistance. So that fringe of ww dating black men who catch hell are incredibly small
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The Dark King said:
To paint pictures that reflect your bias. Women are in need of constant defense unless we're talking about child support then they're actual people not a cause.
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What's my bias?

If you are going to say something be on point.

Maybe you are the one that's bias. Maybe you are a misogynist?


As far as child support ...explain your position and mine since you know.
 
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