Do You Prefer Being Single or Being in a Relationship?

At the moment, single. I have a great guy in my life right now who's better than any boyfriend I've had, he's my son. Right now, I don't need to sleep next to someone every night to be fufilled. I'm the happiest I've been in a long time and I don't plan to be in another relationship or long for the companionship, maybe one day I'll change my mind.

 

Very beautifully put!

 

I prefer being single. I don't know relationships after a while, for me, tend to make me a bit claustrophobic, I start feeling stifled and I bore easy, short attention span - LOL .. honestly, I like having my space and time for myself / to myself. I like doing things when I want to without checking with another person or giving my itinerary. I like having my freedom. I think being single has made me very set in my ways which I suppose is a negative because its more difficult to allow the other person into my life; that and being hurt in past relationships. I don't carry the baggage into the new relationship by any means but its made me more weary and cautious to just jump into another one.

Would I like to be in a relationship ? Maybe, all depends on the man. If he can give me enough space and freedom then it could work. I'm weird in that I don't really want to see the guy too often or if the guy gets too clingy, ie. too many phone calls/ texts etc ... I run for the hills - LOL

 

Amen to that !!! I agree with everything you said, I feel the same exact way but I especially agree with that last part, that's one thing I hate about relationships -- leaving myself vulnerable.

 

Relationship, being single bores me.

I agree with the vulnerability, It took me like 5 months and only now i'm starting to feel better, if I get burnt again it will really suck