chicity, if its not too personal to discuss why did your parents get divorced? And was it a mutal descision or one of your parents descision? If you dont wish to talk about it no worries.
My Mom felt my Dad had changed. He had. They lost a number of children in miscarriage and stillbirth and SIDS, and it changed them both. That stuff brings you together or tears you apart, and it tore them apart. They already had my brother, and still wanted one more, so they had me even tho they knew the marriage was ending. They also didn't really expect me to live, but I did.
The divorce was very amicable at first. They were really dedicated to the idea of remaining respectful, even friendly. But the divorce was very hard on them both.
Then, when my brother and later I hit puberty, they stopped being respectful and started hating each other. Now that we're both adults, they aren't friendly but they are distantly respectful. In their defense, raising two very smart teenagers, neither of whom had any respect for authority whatsoever, is probably enough to make anyone grumpy.
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