FELLAS WHAT DO YOU THINK?

So you're only allowed to post in here if you agree? Come on now...

 

Thank you Tammystrong!!! I really appreciate it coming from someone as awesome as you!!

Tell me how I benefit from it, please.

I agree with that much.

I did want to ask you why did you post it? Out of curiousity. What point were you trying to make? What were you hoping to get out of it? What were your motives? What are you trying to tell us? Why does this matter so much to you that you felt so compelled to share it? Just curious about you Andrae.

Okay, I think it's hypocritical because most people of wwbm.com want their relationships to be accepted regardless of their partner's physical characteristics/appearance (race).
But it seems like a lot of men here refuse to accept relationships if they think one person is uglier or fatter (appearance/physical characteristics) than the other.

I'm not saying you're not allowed to post what you posted or that you can't discuss it. I'm just posting my own little opinion on it.

I guess it could be interesting. So, most black men don't know what is actually beautiful because they get the least out of everyone else in this country?
I wonder how you would feel if someone told you that about a woman you love and believe is beautiful. If they told you you're wrong about her looks because you're race is black and your race thinks anything is beautiful.

Currency/wealth exerts no influence on who I'm with, so I wouldn't know anything about that because I'm not a whore and money doesn't decide who I'm intimate with.

That's always good. I do think people should take care of themselves and have a natural desire to provide the most they can for their loved ones.

I think because it feels like stereotyping and people don't like that.

Right, no one is saying not to do what you want, but to say that because a bm's race is treated like crap so he's going to get with a woman of a different race who looks like crap is rediculous and offensive to bm with nonwhite women who don't look like super models and what collective society deems beautiful. I feel it's an insult to both of them. As well as demeaning to try to assume they are together for any other reason than love.

I can't know I don't like it until after I've read it.
And I'm not going to censor myself for the sake of someone's silly version of being an adult.

 

:smt023what she said...women don't talk about dating up or down...we talk about how happy we are that we met him...lippy just had an lightbulb moment

 

rayer:rayer:rayer:rayer:rayer: Your name should be Outstanding Tammy!!!!
I'd rep you if I could, but I have to spread some. :smt022

 

Thank you again!

I don't know why Andrae wants to say I'm part of some butt hurt club. I love these threads because whatever I say in them always gets me gathering the most rep I've ever received in a single day! *knocks on wood* LoL, yes I am a rep whore, don't judge me. :smt045

 

The "bottom of the barrel" theory.........wasnt there an infamous member tied to that ideology?

 

What are you talking about? Malikom?

 

Aw shucks!! Stop it, you're going to make my head look fat! Then they're all going to tell my man he shouldn't be with me because he's making them all look bad! LoL ;-)

 

That's absolute horseshit people always mind other's business where do you think the term gossip came from? Happy or not people find entertainment in observing other's lives. It's human nature.
And what I got from the video wasn't bashing big women for dating not so big men but an interesting correlation between race and available options.
Making observations like these doesn't benefit me as a black man what so ever.
If I say black men tend to date down when dating outside their race how am I not dragging myself into the equation?
So stop acting like I'm attacking anyone. It's no secret we live in a country riddled with racial inequalities and you think it stops at coupling just because you want it to? Get a grip sister.

 

I never said anyone had to agree but don't come in here with your biased ass hurt opinions. You don't add to the conversation you just make it emotional.

 

I never said sensor yourself but if you're going to comment in this thread don't be so sensative. There's no direct shots being taken at you. And again I never said anyone should look like a supermodel but there's a huge gap between supermodels and obese women. Those aren't the only two body types in existence but many of you insist on that. Once again women don't fall into two categories either women below 100 or women over 200 there's a hundred lbs in between to work with geesh.

 

I don't directly question other people's relationships. I just know what I'm attracted to and focus on that. Not on criticizing other people's successful relationships. It's hard to believe that there are people out there that will "interfere", especially with IR relationships.

If someone likes bigger girls, that's cool, I won't interfere and ask questions. I don't have that kind of personality.

Also to your third point, you need to view the Hottest Black Women thread, where some people thought Ann Coulter was decent looking, while TerraStar called her a horse faced broad. You also need to look at the thread that Bhayes created as well in the conversations section, titled "More confusion and self-hate within the black race!"

 

Why is this sissy always putting BM in a negative light??

You really are one bitch-ass dude.

I see White...Asian...and Latino men with more mutts than the dog whisperer when they date IR.

 

i see the same combos that bm and ww get bashed for in other races together and you wont hear a peep

 

You sure won't hear a peep about it from feminized Black males like Mrfantastic.