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Tamstrong · May 7, 2011

GQ Brotha said: ↑

And then when you are getting divorced and taken for everything you have worked for your whole life and ruin your family, then what.

Its all in the moment and shortsighted, after the fun comes the pain.

The most powerful thing a man can do is turn down pussy, it takes greater strength to do that as a man in our society. It's the weak man that gives in to every temptation.

Note I am speaking for men who are married or in committed relationships, a single dude can do whatever he wants.
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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to GQ Brotha again. Excellent post, GQ! :smt023

Be-you-tiful86 said: ↑

One reason why so many try could be as pointed out before wanting what you can't have,the forbidden fruit.
With females there's another aspect playing in though sometimes.Many females are extremely competitive and "getting with another woman's man" seems to give some an ego boost.They think they must have something the man's significant other or wife doesn't have for him to mess with her.That isn't necessarily the case though.Some who take such an opportunity often just think 2 are better than 1.
Some are also just plain selfish and don't care that they may wreck a relationship,marriage or entire family if the guy has any kids with his girlfriend/wife. Maybe they don't consider that if the guy so easily leaves his partner or family for them that the same could happen to them as soon as another woman comes by trying to get with him.
This isn't race or skin color related but generally talking.

It is annoying when a clear No isn't taken serious and someone just keeps going and trying. In that case it's best to avoid the person whenever possible.
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There are without a doubt skanky women who go after married men on purpose. Whether it's jealousy, competitiveness, wanting to hurt the people involved, wanting him for herself, she's throwed off, etc...the reasons are all due to selfishness & ego IMO. It doesn't make sense when someone won't take NO for an answer.

GQ Brotha · May 8, 2011

Blacktiger2005 said: ↑

Bro I like the way you think. You are a critical thinker. When I see what others from golfer Tiger Woods to Senator John Edwards have done to the women in their personal lives I have to sit back and wonder what in the hell were they thinking to bring so much pain to themselves and their families. Lessons of life are learned by myself. Unfortunately, many who want to blame others for their own problems should for once stare in a mirror at themselves.
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Eye of Ra said: ↑

Since I am unable to give you rep at the moment I will salute you brother. Well said.
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Tamstrong said: ↑

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to GQ Brotha again. Excellent post, GQ! :smt023
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Thanks guys, it would seem pretty straightforward and obvious, but if a dude is thinking with his dick only then you will eventually get burned.

Aspe4 · Aug 29, 2011

Blacktiger2005 said: ↑

I do not know if it is because I'm in an IR marriage, but it seems that I have to fight off advances from other white women who see me in an IR marriage. I'm one who do not like to be rude or hurt feelings because I generally like the white women in my world whether it's at work, in the classroom, at martial arts, or in professional relationships. When I say "NO" I want it to mean "NO". When I say "I'm married" or that "you cannot have it" why do ladies not take the hint. Do I have to be nasty? Any of you guys having this problem?
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Wow, what a great problem to have!

Blacktiger2005 · Aug 30, 2011

Aspe4 said: ↑

Wow, what a great problem to have!
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Life is full of temptations. The trick is to have the discipline to resist them. Some temptations can be extremely costly. Just ask Tiger Woods, Senator John Edwards, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Congressman Anthony Weiner etc............................................................................

Aspe4 · Aug 30, 2011

Blacktiger2005 said: ↑

Life is full of temptations. The trick is to have the discipline to resist them. Some temptations can be extremely costly. Just ask Tiger Woods, Senator John Edwards, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Congressman Anthony Weiner etc............................................................................
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This is true but it's still nice to know you're in demand even though you're not going to cheat.

qnet · Aug 30, 2011

Blacktiger2005 said: ↑

Life is full of temptations. The trick is to have the discipline to resist them. Some temptations can be extremely costly. Just ask Tiger Woods, Senator John Edwards, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Congressman Anthony Weiner etc............................................................................
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I don't know why some of these famous guys ever got married especially Tiger Woods

Aspe4 said: ↑

This is true but it's still nice to know you're in demand even though you're not going to cheat.
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I agree.

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