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tuckerreed

tuckerreed

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Webmasters guideline:

Please note: This site is for the enjoyment of WW and BM who are interested in meeting or talking to one another. The site is pro-interracial dating, specifically between WW and BM.

Individuals with an alternate agenda will be banned and post removed.
 
I was actually trying to help, but who would pay attention to me, and why would I bother after all, suggesting
1. if you don't want BW posting here, don't make them post here;
2. if you want more WW posting here, make them post here;
But all I see happening is BW being the main topic of discussion, which of course makes them feel important and post since even on an IR site your main concern is BW, WW leaving the site (you wonder why????) - you havent got much love or interest in WW whatsoever guys, I dont know how many posts are directed at WW and how many are about BW, and recently generalizing and bashing WW also, since this is the fashion on this site, why would they be excluded.
Tuck if you went on other sites and saw BM being bashed, it was your right to speak up for the BM, if you chose not to, its your choice.That doesnt make it right for you to bash BW, and especially since you comment on someone talking about WM in their absence, how can it be right to talk about BW in their absence then? Why cant you just tell your personal experiences, without generalizing, and ONCE, not 10 times?
And, first you say and you quote the guidelines of the site
This site is for the enjoyment of WW and BM who are interested in meeting or talking to one another. The site is pro-interracial dating, specifically between WW and BM.
Individuals with an alternate agenda will be banned and post removed.
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then you say on another thread that BW are welcome if they dont speak BS. Make up your mind, is it for WW and BM interested in talking to each other only or BW who have no comment to make on what is said about them are welcomed ? If so, Asians, and Latinas, and WM are welcomed too, and this is an open forum, and not what the guideline has stated.
I for one am done with this topic.
 
Seychelles said:
I was actually trying to help, but who would pay attention to me, and why would I bother after all, suggesting
1. if you don't want BW posting here, don't make them post here;
2. if you want more WW posting here, make them post here;
But all I see happening is BW being the main topic of discussion, which of course makes them feel important and post since even on an IR site your main concern is BW, WW leaving the site (you wonder why????) - you havent got much love or interest in WW whatsoever guys, I dont know how many posts are directed at WW and how many are about BW, and recently generalizing and bashing WW also, since this is the fashion on this site, why would they be excluded.
Tuck if you went on other sites and saw BM being bashed, it was your right to speak up for the BM, if you chose not to, its your choice.That doesnt make it right for you to bash BW, and especially since you comment on someone talking about WM in their absence, how can it be right to talk about BW in their absence then? Why cant you just tell your personal experiences, without generalizing, and ONCE, not 10 times?
And, first you say and you quote the guidelines of the site
This site is for the enjoyment of WW and BM who are interested in meeting or talking to one another. The site is pro-interracial dating, specifically between WW and BM.
Individuals with an alternate agenda will be banned and post removed.
Click to expand...
then you say on another thread that BW are welcome if they dont speak BS. Make up your mind, is it for WW and BM interested in talking to each other only or BW who have no comment to make on what is said about them are welcomed ? If so, Asians, and Latinas, and WM are welcomed too, and this is an open forum, and not what the guideline has stated.
I for one am done with this topic.
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Boy Seychelles, i really like your honesty. This site has got to improve in more ways than one i think. I hope the webmaster is listening to some of our suggestions. I hate the white woman worshipping (i.e. white woman foot fetish thing) but i also hate the kind of bashing that Jerome29 did. He should know better than to do what he did because every time one black guy does that, it makes us all look bad (because we're always bunched together into the same category anyway). African Americans have two things in common with one another; skin color and slavery. Everything else, we're all different from one person to the next. So it doesn't make any sense to me why he says all white women do this or all white women do that cause not one of them is the same. You know, i think it's actually human nature to want to do that though. I think that real truth actually frustrates the mind for some strange reason, which is why so many people lie, and that could explain why it's so hard trying to refrain from stereotyping people and putting them into little boxes. Believe me, it's very hard.

My mind tries to tell me to do that sorta thing all the time, and sometimes it just gets tiresome fighting it, and i give in and say something that's stupid and that i'll later regret. I'll end up saying black people do this or white people do that, and then later on i'll come to my senses and realize that what i said earlier was nonsense, and that it wasn't true. I just think that it's important for each of us to fight off those stereotypes and remember the truth about people you know.
 
I'm looking into an add-on that will allow easier and faster reporting of problem posts and individuals. Or perhaps an "agree/disagree" feature.

That and a photo-resizer.
 
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