Going "back" to my race

Um, WHY am I reading more and more posts in here about racist white male douche bags who think that " a white girl goin' black makes her off limits because of her turning into a diseased whore" or whatever?

 

well that is the lowest blow a WM might think he can say to a WW...

 

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Im fully aware of that. I think i remember this but if i didn't, i am now. Sometime in 2001, i dated this girl (white) who was considered amongst the hottest cheerleaders on campus. She was blonde, petite, slim waist and firm breasts with hazel eyes. [I went to the U (University of Miami) by the way]. And in college, i was kind of a jock; i played basketball, volleyball, soccer and ping pong. And was good at it. 8) Anyways, i am sure you guys are aware of the whole myth about girls liking jock. Yeah, that.

Anyways, i liked this girl so much but initially i was very reluctant to even speak to her as i heard numerous reports about her being extremely snobby. And i was not very sure if she liked black men so i felt i would not embarass myself. But then again, i thought i will not just go out to her flat out about my attraction. So one day, i was at the gym and she happened to be there. So i asked for for something and then we struck off a conversation there. I noticed a few things we shared in common( art for example) so i asked her if she'd like to come with my to one of the art galleries in Biscayne Bay and she said yes.

Now, for the record, she told me that she was in a relationship with her boyfriend (white of course) but it was kinda rocky and she was considering breaking up with him. So i thought i should not go out with her since she was with someone but then she called me one day and asked me if i'd like to go out with her. I told her that she was with someone but she told me she'd broken up with her boyfriend. (IN MY MIND, I WAS LIKE "YES". :lol: So we went out on dates and on one date, she asked me out, which you know my answer.

Anyway, her former boyfriend saw that she was with me know and well, you know he was mad. He thought she dumped him for me, which might have been the case but i would not be inclined to think so given the situation. So the guy told all his friends about it and then for some time, myself and the girl were the buzz of the clique. But me being me, i made it clear that my personal issues remain my personal issues and i would not be talked about in my presence. You wanna talk about me, fine. But around me, shut the fuck up and mind your own.

But unfortunately, we broke up after some time (around May 2002) due to the fact that she had inferiority complex. She was the type of person who you walk all over and she lacked confidence in herself, which irritated me a lot. So i felt that to prevent anyone to get hurt, let's break this damn thing. Of course, she went back to white men which did not hurt me one bit (i say this from the bottom of my heart) but here's the thing. We remained friends and called each other a lot and she kept telling me that a lot of white guys were saying nasty things about her, calling her a "hoe" and "slutty". Also, she tried to get with one guy and she said that he refused to date her because when it's time to have sex, he knows that he won't be able to satisfy her as much as i did and so she might come back to me or sleep with another black man.

Idiotic? I do not know what to call it.

 

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That was a very interesting story Chris. Very interesting indeed.

 

It is a reality that once you have a black boyfriend and solely because of that, you become overnight some new invented type of hoe to some white men and even white women. :evil: I was aware of that one coming when i fell in love with my black boyfriend, but it obviously didn't stop me because i don't live my life to please racist ignorant people. Sad though.

 

It's too bad that a lot of white women out there don't think or feel this way.

 

Yes Sey, it is very true...but like Laydeezmancris and Qsassy said, most of these WM or WW who judge WW that have been with BM do that bcoz they feel either intimidated or jealous!

The WM bcoz they think (wrongfully) that they might not be good enough sexually, the WW bcoz they usually feel they lack the "courage" or open-mindedness to freely express their own attraction to BM!!

So often the only way we find to deal with our own shortcomings is to put other ppl down! Damn human nature!!

 

Long live the open-minded, mature and intelligent women like Seychelles everywhere!!!

 

Hmm well giving my personality and how much I love white women I'd probably never date a black chick although I haven't dated one before anyway. As for my the white men saying stuff about white women who date black men being nasty and all that I think there losers and just need to shut up.

 

For some reason the motivations behind intra-racial relationships are NEVER scrutinized or called into question. Hmmm ...

Me, I have a motherly/sisterly love for black women. Sisters roll their eyes at that as if it's superficial, but I don't care. I could never really commit to a black woman because she'll likely figure out how hopelessly enraptured I am with white females.

 

LOL!
So true for me as well!

(BTW, nice to meet you Sassy! )

 

Nice to meet you too Marie

 

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Which is why many are turning to Asian women.

 

Is this the future - WW with BM, and WM with asian women?
Thats OK.

 

The former is the future, sweetie. 8)

 

It may be possible in a country with a racial mix, but many countries are not so mixed. Though this is changing with immigration - at least in Europe.

 

...........and as more and more WM are living with asian women, it seems logical that WW are looking to BM as their mate. Its my experience that this "void" is being filled by Africans coming to Europe.

 

I certainly wouldn't blame anyone. Im not blaming white guys if they might prefer asian women. But I think there is a tendency for us younger wm to be with bm from Africa. sure the foreign man is alwys the flavour of the month. Nothing wrong with that. Life is there to be enjoyed.

 

I suppose what im saying is that as well as being attracted to BM, it was also a popular thing among white girls at college.

 

And you beautiful white girls are popular with us too. 8)