karmacoma. said:
Injera, these brothas screamin about European chicks being so much better can't even get American ones if you notice. :lol:
What in the world are you talking about?
I get "discovered" on web sites, I hardly do any messages first.
I rather have it that way actually, so I can kick those that don't measure up to the curb.
I spent 9 years going out constantly 4-6 days a week. I have limited success because I like it easy, I rather not GUESS. As I told Kid, I have a problem with being told NO. I don't like bars, I don't drink; what the fuck am I doing there??? You people throw that nonsense out there like parks, beaches, museums (okay I'm not that cultured, I don't go to those), but the main "drag" on my social life is living at home. Might be okay in this culture if I was still 21, but at 37 its not. Even if do have a plan (and its working) its still not acceptable to major portion of the dating pool.
As I said before, you can either work with the system or cheat it.
In your mind Karma, you suggestion would for me to move out of the house (like I have been here the whole time anyway :roll: ). Okay if I did that, I would have nosey ass women over my apartment, is that some how better? If after a year I'm still not dating anybody, can I have a refund? Since I can't get my lease payments back, I want a pre-dated check from you for $13,000 or roughly the cost of an apartment for one year.
Here's my basic problem with that notion...
As you can see, we can't even get involved in a general conservation about race in this country without some American White Woman coming to the defense of her race.
Did you miss the post where I said I actually had a White Woman from a 95% White Area of Ventura County actually SAY I was "White Washed"??? "
I will NOT TOLERATE that from ANY Caucasian woman!
Since when are White American women that date Black men automatically are experts on Black Men and Black Culture?
How many have actually taken African-American studies in college? I actually know ONE woman that has and even SHE doesn't have OPINIONS like that and I got that BS coming out of the mouth of a high school educated single white mother from Simi Valley? Holy Shiet and you think that's acceptable????
Okay those are extreme examples but frankly I'm not "thrilled" to run into that again.
I find Europeans better informed about "our" issues because their media isn't involved in the gigantic Propaganda machine that our Mass "Liberal" media is involved in.
In part because everybody the world over finds our country where its free and all that BS fascinating that we constantly speak out of both sides of our mouths.
Frankly I have explained myself more than a few times and its generally what's inside American heads I have a problem with. I can no longer deal with people that say "I'm not political", knows what 50 Cent had for breakfast, that are anti-woman and don't know it, desires a big sedan, suv or some other visual object that says how much money they have.
Women from the middle part of the country are generally untainted. But I am not traveling around "Iowa" to find a woman, that's ridiculous.
This is not a traditional world anymore, why use traditional tactics???