Halle Berry claims ex called her the N word

[MissWacy]

Black women have a serious insecurity issue about black men with white women, to them its like black men are slapping them in the face by being with a white woman especially. When its a white woman they go nuts in tone, even moreso given the rise in interracial in this day and age.

I have heard black women who pat each other on the back when one is with a white man, but as soon as a black man is with a white woman they turn obnoxious in tone.

It is testament to a deep insecurity within them.

Let the situation be reverse and Halle Berry was a black man they would have been ripping him to shreds and saying good for being with the white devil. With Halle, they're like aww, that poor sista.

Sheer madness I tell you. They will say some of the most ignorant, bigoted comments and no one calls them out on it. If a white man or woman was to say the things some of these black women say they would be tarred and feathered as racists of the highest order.

its just a twisted backwards double standard i have never understood, i have seen it so many times, i do sense deep insecurity from those comments too, lol if it was a black guy who said what she did i can just imagine the outcry there would be, they were even calling reggie a white supremicist lmao, that crys problems, these women only talk that shit when shes white, they seem to go off big time

 

[The Dark King]

Black women that live by the principles they say they believe in are standing by silently watching the sideshow while the rest of black women are co-signing and go-girlin' each other over the filth we just read above.

I think it will take those silent black women to speak up for any of the others to start engaging in a bit of self evaluation for the first time in their lives.

That's like when bm speak out against the dominate thug culture that's killing the black community and idiots like Al Sharpton who capitalize off of it. You're seen as a soft ass Uncle Tom nigga who needs to go home to his white girl.

 

[GQ Brotha]

its just a twisted backwards double standard i have never understood, i have seen it so many times, i do sense deep insecurity from those comments too, lol if it was a black guy who said what she did i can just imagine the outcry there would be, they were even calling reggie a white supremicist lmao, that crys problems, these women only talk that shit when shes white, they seem to go off big time

That's the thing, all the talking in the world won't change anything. Black men will keep loving white women if that is what they desire.

A black man certainly can't tell black women what to do with their life or he wouldn't hear the end of it, so they sure as hell can't be trying to tell black men what to do when it comes to personal relations.

I think its all part of the self entitlement that you mentioned.

They're strong, they're independent, they don't need a man, that was the tag line for generations.

So what are they mad about now when black men said fuck it, deuces, I like me a white girl.

Some black women talk a talk about dating interracially, like its up to them, when it takes two in a relationship last time I checked. More of their ego on display, black men just do it, if that is what they want.

Serves them right for listening to Oprah and Whoop Goldberg, yeah those are the women you want advice from about men.

 

[goodlove]

Hello Pot.


Seriously, where do you get off accusing various BM on this site that IF they don't find certain BW women attractive, it automatically equates to hating their Blackness.
Do WM who date BW yet wont date WW...hate their 'Whiteness'? Do we WW on here who prefer Black men, hate ourselves?? Because that's what you are saying.

Using my own example, I am Greek, and I can tell you the MAJORITY of Greek men are spoiled, sexist and hardheaded - because they are raised that way by their doting Greek mothers!(encouraged no less by a Greek society that perpetuates this arrogance.)
Yet, I could never be MORE proud of BEING Greek, but BEING Greek isn't defined by my 'loving Greek men' and if I don't happen to, well then I must be a sellout, traitor, self hating Greek woman. Jesus Goodlove, I can LOVE BLACK MEN, and NOT want a Greek man (ie: be mainly attracted to them or their behavior)....and STILL be a Proud Greek.

Do you really think that when a BM expresses personal disdain or a non-preference for BW, that it means he obviously must hate EVERY BLACK WOMAN?? Or by default, himself?? GTFOH. Don't be an idiot.

There are certain black men that have demonstrated a disdain for BW.....
One particular individual said as such in a convo about a thread about BW beauty. the bm were having fun posting BW and fawning over them like we fawn over WW. then a couple of BM came in and stated we shouldnt be participating in a thread about Bw in a wwbm site.then they made adversarial remarks about BM participating in it. then I and another group of guys pointed out that there has been no problem when AW thread is up BUT BW get the ax.

then a person stated "Bullshit. I bitched about the Indian women thread too. More bitches you mfers pump up but will never get. As for Asian women, they're closer to white women than any of these chicks you keep drooling over"

If you analyze that statement you will see what Im talking about. Alot of bro's in that room also stated that they love BW as well as WW they just have a thing for WW just like I do but to degrade BW just because they are black is fucked up. then it is ironic that they get mad at halle for doing the samething BM in here are doing. also I stated in another thread " how can you hate a BW and then say you love WW. it is impossible. you come from black women thus you are hating yourself. If you hate yourself then how can you love someone else."

Now explain to me how can a dude hate BW and be able to love ANYONE properly ?

I asked this question before and no one answered.

also are you OK with people putting down another race because of their color ?

Are WW better than BW ?

are WM better than BM ?

are BM better than WM ?

Is another race better than another ?

are you threatened by the fact that BM find BW attractive ?

Those are the issues I and others were pointing out .

 

[GQ Brotha]

That's like when bm speak out against the dominate thug culture that's killing the black community and idiots like Al Sharpton who capitalize off of it. You're seen as a soft ass Uncle Tom nigga who needs to go home to his white girl.

Bingo, ding, ding, ding, ding.

That's when you just say fuck it. Why bother.

 

[goodlove]

That's the thing, all the talking in the world won't change anything. Black men will keep loving white women if that is what they desire.

A black man certainly can't tell black women what to do with their life or he wouldn't hear the end of it, so they sure as hell can't be trying to tell black men what to do when it comes to personal relations.

I think its all part of the self entitlement that you mentioned.

They're strong, they're independent, they don't need a man, that was the tag line for generations.

So what are they mad about now when black men said fuck it, deuces, I like me a white girl.

Some black women talk a talk about dating interracially, like its up to them, when it takes two in a relationship last time I checked. More of their ego on display, black men just do it, if that is what they want.

Serves them right for listening to Oprah and Whoop Goldberg, yeah those are the women you want advice from about men.

have you heard " do as I say not as I do " principle. that is how people of no principles act

 

[MissWacy]

That's the thing, all the talking in the world won't change anything. Black men will keep loving white women if that is what they desire.

A black man certainly can't tell black women what to do with their life or he wouldn't hear the end of it, so they sure as hell can't be trying to tell black men what to do when it comes to personal relations.

I think its all part of the self entitlement that you mentioned.

They're strong, they're independent, they don't need a man, that was the tag line for generations.

So what are they mad about now when black men said fuck it, deuces, I like me a white girl.

Some black women talk a talk about dating interracially, like its up to them, when it takes two in a relationship last time I checked. More of their ego on display, black men just do it, if that is what they want.

Serves them right for listening to Oprah and Whoop Goldberg, yeah those are the women you want advice from about men.

and you get some bw with the "successful black men turning their backs on bw" etc, god forbid the environment such men are in have white women in, environment plays a part, all it comes down too is "the white girl is getting the nice house etc" thats what these kinda bw cant take and it burns them,
and these are the same bw that always accuse white women of being the biggest gold diggers, hell ive even seen white men say to black guys white women only go with you for the money, what makes these people think the white woman dosent have her own money?

 

[GQ Brotha]

Now explain to me how can a dude hate BW and be able to love ANYONE properly ?

I asked this question before and no one answered.

also are you OK with people putting down another race because of their color ?

Are WW better than BW ?

are WM better than BM ?

are BM better than WM ?

Is another race better than another ?

are you threatened by the fact that BM find BW attractive ?

Those are the issues I and others were pointing out .

The thing about this goodlove is that these are very generalized concepts about better or worse. These things can be influenced by personal experience, interests, attraction, environment, etc.

Too many of these young black women today have next to no kind of behavior like my mother. My mom set an example in my life by the way she conducted herself. I knew right from wrong and how to conduct myself with respect. How many of these young women today seem lost in their mindset and values of right and wrong.

The issue of whether WW are better than BW or BM are better than WM is not the issue, the issue is core values, interests, compatibility when it comes to seeking out a partner in life.

Surely there are black women that share good morals and values, am I attracted to them though, surely there are attractive black women but do they have good morals and values.

The way I feel about some black women is the way I would feel about white women if they behaved the same way as well. Any woman that is loud, rude, aggressive, argumentative, poor moral compass is unattractive to me no matter what race.

Not every black woman is unattractive, not every white woman is attractive, one still has to be compatible however to form a successful relationship.

 

[The Dark King]

and you get some bw with the "successful black men turning their backs on bw" etc, god forbid the environment such men are in have white women in, environment plays a part, all it comes down too is "the white girl is getting the nice house etc" thats what these kinda bw cant take and it burns them,
and these are the same bw that always accuse white women of being the biggest gold diggers, hell ive even seen white men say to black guys white women only go with you for the money, what makes these people think the white woman dosent have her own money?

In that world I actually agree with that statement. But its not only ww its also non ww too. I find it extremely hard to believe any woman dating this high profile rich celebrities aren't being seduced by the money and fam. Its part of the lifestyle. That's why its rare to see any of them married for more than ten years.
But they should be allowed to live as the choose to.

 

[goodlove]

The thing about this goodlove is that these are very generalized concepts about better or worse. These things can be influenced by personal experience, interests, attraction, environment, etc.

Too many of these young black women today have next to no kind of behavior like my mother. My mom set an example in my life by the way she conducted herself. I knew right from wrong and how to conduct myself with respect. How many of these young women today seem lost in their mindset and values of right and wrong.

The issue of whether WW are better than BW or BM are better than WM is not the issue, the issue is core values, interests, compatibility when it comes to seeking out a partner in life.

Surely there are black women that share good morals and values, am I attracted to them though, surely there are attractive black women but do they have good morals and values.

The way I feel about some black women is the way I would feel about white women if they behaved the same way as well. Any woman that is loud, rude, aggressive, argumentative, poor moral compass is unattractive to me no matter what race.

Not every black woman is unattractive, not every white woman is attractive, one still has to be compatible however to form a successful relationship.[/QUOTE]

exactly. the thing i was pointing also how can a dude hate like that and women in here love it when soon or later getting with a dude like that is going to bite em in the ass but the women in here are cosigning the shit

now think and comment on the statement dude made "As for Asian women, they're closer to white women than any of these chicks you keep drooling over"

 

[SmoothDaddy101]

Black women that live by the principles they say they believe in are standing by silently watching the sideshow while the rest of black women are co-signing and go-girlin' each other over the filth we just read above.

I think it will take those silent black women to speak up for any of the others to start engaging in a bit of self evaluation for the first time in their lives.

BINGO!!!

If it will shut some of them up then I can only hope white dudes are queuing up to deal with their sista soulja mindsets. Good luck.

I would love to know if they are a strong, black independent woman with white men or they tone that down because he will send their ass packing.

Asian women got the white man dating out of his race preference on lock, so these delusional get a white man sistas must be in a parallel universe.

When a white dude dates interracially he usually goes Asian, because he wants what he deems to be more feminine women. Sorry but these black chicks today don't scream femininity with their loud mouths.

White men have had free access to black women for the history of America, so what has stopped him from gobbling them up in huge numbers, after all he did start this whole interracial thing in America with female slaves.

There was a point in time where sistas had their shit together. Today, a huge majority of them are loud, obnoxious, busted up and don't take care of
themselves. I'm not trying to be mean, I'm telling the truth and I know most of the men will agree with me.

 

[goodlove]

Im pretty sure that a lot of bw are saying the same thing. I have my complaints about BW. hell, for one they get on TV saying slick shit and think that WW arent going thru the same thing suchas BM are on the downlow . hell WM are on the dl but they dont call it the DL they call bisexual and then WW arent all on TV having specials about it.

Bm have their pants hang down showing the cracks of their asses and have then have TV special about that but you dont see white people on TV dogging out WP about those damn big ass holes in the kids ear so big I can see down the street through but they dont have specials about it. Only on BM.

do BM have specials about BW on how they do slick shit on BM. Do we have specials on BW on where are the BW at ?

hell naw.

Like I stated before every demographic can complain about themselves or the other GOT DAMN !!!!! you dont have to hate em.

 

[goodlove]

as one dude said earlier....
http://www.whitewomenblackmen.com/forum/showthread.php?p=428473#post428473

 

[GQ Brotha]

exactly. the thing i was pointing also how can a dude hate like that and women in here love it when soon or later getting with a dude like that is going to bite em in the ass but the women in here are cosigning the shit

In my personal life I don't even speak about black women, I choose to keep my opinions to myself and let it be. No good comes out of it anyway.

However within a general environment I see too many things today from young black women that completely turns me off. Its like the notion of a strong, independent woman has been handed down without any guidance in the home.

Maybe I'm too much of a stickler for personal accountability in one's actions and attitude in dealing with others.

 

[karmacoma.]

Hello Pot.


Seriously, where do you get off accusing various BM on this site that IF they don't find certain BW women attractive, it automatically equates to hating their Blackness.
Do WM who date BW yet wont date WW...hate their 'Whiteness'? Do we WW on here who prefer Black men, hate ourselves?? Because that's what you are saying.

Using my own example, I am Greek, and I can tell you the MAJORITY of Greek men are spoiled, sexist and hardheaded - because they are raised that way by their doting Greek mothers!(encouraged no less by a Greek society that perpetuates this arrogance.)
Yet, I could never be MORE proud of BEING Greek, but BEING Greek isn't defined by my 'loving Greek men' and if I don't happen to, well then I must be a sellout, traitor, self hating Greek woman. Jesus Goodlove, I can LOVE BLACK MEN, and NOT want a Greek man (ie: be mainly attracted to them or their behavior)....and STILL be a Proud Greek.

Do you really think that when a BM expresses personal disdain or a non-preference for BW, that it means he obviously must hate EVERY BLACK WOMAN?? Or by default, himself?? GTFOH. Don't be an idiot.

 

[GQ Brotha]

and you get some bw with the "successful black men turning their backs on bw" etc, god forbid the environment such men are in have white women in, environment plays a part, all it comes down too is "the white girl is getting the nice house etc" thats what these kinda bw cant take and it burns them,
and these are the same bw that always accuse white women of being the biggest gold diggers, hell ive even seen white men say to black guys white women only go with you for the money, what makes these people think the white woman dosent have her own money?

Without a doubt, that plays a pivotal role as well. They all loved Taye Diggs, the moment they found out he had a "Becky" as they call white girls, Taye Diggs was persona non grata.

That is only part of what they say. White women also become, pale, pasty, ugly, fat, slutty, white man's castoff, slave master's daughter, and a litany of other ignorant rants that makes those type of black women even more unattractive. Just a nasty personality.

 

[LA]

and you get some bw with the "successful black men turning their backs on bw" etc, god forbid the environment such men are in have white women in, environment plays a part, all it comes down too is "the white girl is getting the nice house etc" thats what these kinda bw cant take and it burns them,
and these are the same bw that always accuse white women of being the biggest gold diggers, hell ive even seen white men say to black guys white women only go with you for the money, what makes these people think the white woman dosent have her own money?

Also, BW will gold dig BM just as much as any other ethnicity. No one is immune from gold digging.

 

[GQ Brotha]

There was a point in time where sistas had their shit together. Today, a huge majority of them are loud, obnoxious, busted up and don't take care of
themselves. I'm not trying to be mean, I'm telling the truth and I know most of the men will agree with me.

+ infinity on that bro, some always talk about such and such brotha with a fat white girl, when they themselves are no picture of physical refinement.

I think some of them have just gone off the deep end with the diva attitude. The fact that for generations black men called them queens and mothers of the earth must have gassed up too many in the head to where we are today.

You will have some straight busted chicks acting like their shit don't stink and they are a prize.

 

[GQ Brotha]

Im pretty sure that a lot of bw are saying the same thing. I have my complaints about BW. hell, for one they get on TV saying slick shit and think that WW arent going thru the same thing suchas BM are on the downlow . hell WM are on the dl but they dont call it the DL they call bisexual and then WW arent all on TV having specials about it.

Bm have their pants hang down showing the cracks of their asses and have then have TV special about that but you dont see white people on TV dogging out WP about those damn big ass holes in the kids ear so big I can see down the street through but they dont have specials about it. Only on BM.

do BM have specials about BW on how they do slick shit on BM. Do we have specials on BW on where are the BW at ?

hell naw.

Like I stated before every demographic can complain about themselves or the other GOT DAMN !!!!! you dont have to hate em.

As was mentioned here earlier, I think by SmoothDaddy101, black women for a long time have been tearing into black men, they had free reign for decades to tear us a new one.

I have seen where Black feminists say that the black man is their oppressor as much as the white man if not more. W.T.F.

How many black men do you know can tell a black woman what to do, they make it sound like they live in the Middle East (Saudi Arabia, Iran to be exact)

All the while they were shouting about their independent selves. So I see it as go on with your bad selves and be Ms. Independent, I don't need a man, some brothas heard you loud and clear.

Some of these young black girls today think a relationship is arguing with a man and endless drama, because that means he cares about you to bother in the first place.

Who has time for that, I'll be damned if I spend time as a man arguing with a woman, isn't like she is going to give up, women keep shit deep for a long time.

 

[SmoothDaddy101]

+ infinity on that bro, some always talk about such and such brotha with a fat white girl, when they themselves are no picture of physical refinement.

I think some of them have just gone off the deep end with the diva attitude. The fact that for generations black men called them queens and mothers of the earth must have gassed up too many in the head to where we are today.

You will have some straight busted chicks acting like their shit don't stink and they are a prize.

Thank you! The piss poor choices in men (due to them raising their sons to be gangbangers and moist dudes) and the diva attitudes are why they're alone.