Halle Berry claims ex called her the N word

I've got a couple clarifications and questions for you based on this post.

1 - They were never really talking "slick" about black women. Their preference is for white girls (from the male perspective) or black guys (from the female perspective). Now, I would elaborate that you are correct to a degree, I never said every kind of IR. show me where I saidf every kind of IR. My whole thing was ajnd still has been it is wrong to hate Black women and to condone dating IR. where did I say it is wrong to date IR and where did I say that everyone that date IR hate their skin.but not for every kind of IR relationship that's specifically a WW with a BM. My mom's co-worker at her old job (Kevin Beale) was a black person that preferred white women and didn't like black women. This included my mom and her co-workers. He really liked the white female co-workers and disliked the black female co-workers. Ever since then, he's been fired (either in 2009 or 2010) and Tonya has taken over that site and is the manager of it. My mom manages a different facility now. Now, he fits your stereotype of a guy that likes WW and hates BM, but you can't assume that every black male or white female who wants to engage in this kind of relationship hates himself or has an identity crisis. I would say that you're probably 15 to 20% correct, and 80 to 85% wrong. Someone else could make the argument against you saying "Love has no racial boundary, it is just love." This goes for all IRs in general, not just the one that this website promotes. There is a fine line between dating outside of your race and still appreciating your race (majority of IR relationships), and doing it and being an asshole to everyone else who has the same skin complexion as you do (minority of IR relationships).

2 - If I say that a few white males throw a rock at someone's property, does that make me racist or prejudice against white males/the white race? No, it doesn't and the same thing would apply if black males committed the act instead of white males. You also mentioned about ridiculous things that happen in same-union relationships (black man/black women). What is so unique about it? These "things" that you talk about could happen within any type of relationship, regardless if it's an interracial one or not. where did I say that. LInk it so I can properly respond to that

3 - In response to what the moderator was saying, please view post #178 on the same thread.

http://www.whitewomenblackmen.com/forum/showpost.php?p=416623&postcount=178

here is a link where 2 black women came in the hottest black women women thread and addressed the socalled "we are offended " statements and you address what they are saying.

http://www.whitewomenblackmen.com/forum/showthread.php?p=416581#post416581

The statement ' Love your neighbour as yourself ' underlines God's desire for man to live harmoniously with the rest of humanity. (Daniel Onyago)

http://www.helium.com/items/1562549-explain-the-verse-love-your-neighbor-as-yourself

Humanity is not restricted to interaction with only one race. That's what you tried to imply when you used that phrase from the bible. Therefore, you haven't even defined that term correctly and used it in the correct context to support your examples. Dude where are you getting your logic. If you hate white women or black women then how are you able to love yourself. that is what the bible talks about. also how are you able to properly love someone else hating on other folks. It doesnt matter what race it is. are you that narrow-minded. I was saying the samething in what that guy was saying. getting along with everyone (the rest of humanity)

4 - You referred to some people on here as being "cats"? Does this mean Tamstrong and Kunoichi are the "cats", and Karmacoma and Xoxo are the "dogs" on the forum? :smt043 yeah if you want to go there.

5 - Quit arguing with us, now. Just throw in the towel.

In other words in summation : how can you sit there and say One race is below you and love another ? explain that.

also according to that link you put up how are the WW offended if we still find bw attractive ?

also how is not offensive to put up an Asian womens thread versus a Black womens thread ?
 
Last edited:
halle wants her to be considered black now

http://theurbandaily.com/gossip-new...ebony-abandoned-black-people/?omcamp=EMC-CVNL

............In the cover story she answers questions about interracial dating and her daughter Nahla’s ethnicity.

“I think is that that’s something she’s going to have to decide,” Berry says of her daughter’s race. “I’m not going to put a label on it. I had to decide for myself and that’s what she’s going to have to decide-how she identifies herself in the world. And I think, largely, that will be based on how the world identifies her. That’s how I identified myself. But I feel like she’s Black. I’m Black and I’m her mother, and I believe in the one-drop theory.”

Recent reports have said that her ex grew angry when their daughter was referred to as “Black.” As for her dating non-Black men of late she says, “I’m very connected to my community, and I want Black people to know that I haven’t abandoned them because I’ve had a child with a man outside of my race and I’m dating someone now outside my race who is Spanish and French. I have never been more clear about who I am as a Black woman[...] And who I really am is a Black woman who is struggling to make my race proud of me, who is struggling to move Black women forward in the profession I’ve chosen, and those relationships have actually helped me identify more clearly.”

Read more in the latest issue of Ebony Magazine on newsstands now.
 
http://theurbandaily.com/gossip-new...ebony-abandoned-black-people/?omcamp=EMC-CVNL

............In the cover story she answers questions about interracial dating and her daughter Nahla’s ethnicity.

“I think is that that’s something she’s going to have to decide,” Berry says of her daughter’s race. “I’m not going to put a label on it. I had to decide for myself and that’s what she’s going to have to decide-how she identifies herself in the world. And I think, largely, that will be based on how the world identifies her. That’s how I identified myself. But I feel like she’s Black. I’m Black and I’m her mother, and I believe in the one-drop theory.”

Recent reports have said that her ex grew angry when their daughter was referred to as “Black.” As for her dating non-Black men of late she says, “I’m very connected to my community, and I want Black people to know that I haven’t abandoned them because I’ve had a child with a man outside of my race and I’m dating someone now outside my race who is Spanish and French. I have never been more clear about who I am as a Black woman[...] And who I really am is a Black woman who is struggling to make my race proud of me, who is struggling to move Black women forward in the profession I’ve chosen, and those relationships have actually helped me identify more clearly.”

Read more in the latest issue of Ebony Magazine on newsstands now.

I know she considers herself a BW, I find that comment funny considering in reality, she's biracial.
 
I know she considers herself a BW, I find that comment funny considering in reality, she's biracial.

We [black people] actually traded Halle Berry for Jennifer Lopez back in the late-90’s so J-Lo could earn some street-cred. Similar to when we traded away O.J. Simpson for Eminem.
 
I know she considers herself a BW, I find that comment funny considering in reality, she's biracial.

And she stepped over all these black men to have a kid with a white dude, yet her daughter is "black." LOL

My take on Halle is something I said in another thread......


Halle calling her daughter black isn't really the issue. What's disturbing is her reason for it; I think it's a tactic to gain sympathy & support. She's not trying to be pro-black; she's trying to be anti-non-black baby daddy.
 
And she stepped over all these black men to have a kid with a white dude, yet her daughter is "black." LOL

The irony, right? lol

We [black people] actually traded Halle Berry for Jennifer Lopez back in the late-90’s so J-Lo could earn some street-cred. Similar to when we traded away O.J. Simpson for Eminem.

LOL!!!!

My take on Halle is something I said in another thread......

So true about her Baby Daddy....
 
And she stepped over all these black men to have a kid with a white dude, yet her daughter is "black." LOL

....and stating that a Black/biracial man claiming the same thing, all the while hooking up with another white woman, and being plastered on Ebony would never fly is somehow talking slick about Black women.

I've noticed many Black women are not riding with Halle on this one and saw her claims of Black solidarity as false and only pandering for her upcoming custody battle. Why Goodlove would liken her statements to his, in the continuation of his failed argument is confounding, seeing as hers have been thoroughly scrutinized or rejected as false pandering and if she believes them; as a form of "false consciousness", cognitive dissonance, or more colloquially a case of being a tragic mulatto.

All this attributed to her because she is with her second white man in a row and had a baby by one. Black folks who fucks with White people and then go around ascribing pro Black verbiage, affirming their relationship to the Black community and discussing their former Black mates seem quite foolish, defensive, or over compensating; even more so if they are calling others self hating.
 
Last edited:
....and stating that a Black/biracial man claiming the same thing, all the while hooking up with another white woman, and being plastered on Ebony would never fly is somehow talking slick about Black women.

I've noticed many Black women are not riding with Halle on this one and saw her claims of Black solidarity as false and only pandering for her upcoming custody battle. Why Goodlove would liken her statements to his, in the continuation of his failed argument is confounding, seeing as hers have been thoroughly scrutinized or rejected as false pandering and if she believes them; as a form of "false consciousness", cognitive dissonance, or more colloquially a case of being a tragic mulatto.

All this attributed to her because she is with her second white man in a row and had a baby by one. Black folks who fucks with White people and then go around ascribing pro Black verbiage, affirming their relationship to the Black community and discussing their former Black mates seem quite foolish, defensive, or over compensating; even more so if they are calling others self hating.
OFgnz.jpg
 
And she stepped over all these black men to have a kid with a white dude, yet her daughter is "black." LOL

and she will be pissed when people dont call her daughter black, or shes "too white lookin" etc, but yea i find it funny she did that, didnt she once state that "black men aint shit"? now she has a baby with a white man and wants to label her black, itl back fire on her
 
Good love, it's beyond the person's race of why you don't get along with him/her. This is evident in the American workforce, especially for some of the adults that are posters on this forum that don't really like their co-workers or have problems with them. The workplace is a hit-or-a-miss for many Americans, some people fare off well in their job, while others may have problems with their co-workers. For the people on here that explain why they have issues with the people they work with, it's mainly about their personality and the way they carry themselves, not their skin complexion/race. I have hatred for a few people that I've met of various races. It doesn't mean that I hate everyone of those races, in general. It also doesn't mean that I hate myself.
 
....and stating that a Black/biracial man claiming the same thing, all the while hooking up with another white woman, and being plastered on Ebony would never fly is somehow talking slick about Black women.

I've noticed many Black women are not riding with Halle on this one and saw her claims of Black solidarity as false and only pandering for her upcoming custody battle. Why Goodlove would liken her statements to his, in the continuation of his failed argument is confounding, seeing as hers have been thoroughly scrutinized or rejected as false pandering and if she believes them; as a form of "false consciousness", cognitive dissonance, or more colloquially a case of being a tragic mulatto.

All this attributed to her because she is with her second white man in a row and had a baby by one. Black folks who fucks with White people and then go around ascribing pro Black verbiage, affirming their relationship to the Black community and discussing their former Black mates seem quite foolish, defensive, or over compensating; even more so if they are calling others self hating.

*DEAD*
 
BW don't even like is going with mixed/light skinned BW because the ones we usually go after are actually good looking and its a threat to their control issues and self esteem. In fact any BM who would date Paula Patton is considered uppity.

Colorism issues affect people of color all over the world, not just the Black community. It is just the result of the influence of White supremacy on minority populations. This is why when jokers like Lil Wayne talks negatively about dark skinned women, at least you know where that mentality comes from:

Indians:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=whkIW3vNltQ

Asians (I know Indians are Asians, but this is for the other Asians):

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R7f6tbnvHkI&feature=related

And Latin America. Sammy Sosa just lightened his skin:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V0ZwF5KPu1A


In Jamaica, they call it "browning" and in certain parts of Africa they had to outlaw bleaching creams because people were injuring themselves using it.

This is nothing new within the Black community or in the world. Remember the paper bag tests? Or what about Black film director Oscar Micheaux who cast lights as the good guys/leading ladies and dark skinned actors as the bad guys. This didn't happen overnight and will not end overnight as well.
 
Colorism issues affect people of color all over the world, not just the Black community. It is just the result of the influence of White supremacy on minority populations. This is why when jokers like Lil Wayne talks negatively about dark skinned women, at least you know where that mentality comes from:

Indians:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=whkIW3vNltQ

Asians (I know Indians are Asians, but this is for the other Asians):

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R7f6tbnvHkI&feature=related

And Latin America. Sammy Sosa just lightened his skin:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V0ZwF5KPu1A


In Jamaica, they call it "browning" and in certain parts of Africa they had to outlaw bleaching creams because people were injuring themselves using it.

This is nothing new within the Black community or in the world. Remember the paper bag tests? Or what about Black film director Oscar Micheaux who cast lights as the good guys/leading ladies and dark skinned actors as the bad guys. This didn't happen overnight and will not end overnight as well.
Yes, I like the way you've phrased the issue and I agree with you fully here, Cranberry. That's a brilliant, informative post. Now the question is, will it change in the future or would this always be a reality in the world?
 
That's a brilliant, informative post.

no it wasn't, in these cases.

Oscar Michaeux's casting wasn't a form of colorism, but a questioning/commentary there of within the context of the color line divide, not the AA community.

and "The Paper Bag Test" has been blown out of it's figurative proportion, to there having been widespread usages of an actual paper bag, which in most cases wasn't needed to determine eligibility within exclusive light-skin circles or gatherings.
 
....and stating that a Black/biracial man claiming the same thing, all the while hooking up with another white woman, and being plastered on Ebony would never fly is somehow talking slick about Black women.

I've noticed many Black women are not riding with Halle on this one and saw her claims of Black solidarity as false and only pandering for her upcoming custody battle. Why Goodlove would liken her statements to his, in the continuation of his failed argument is confounding, seeing as hers have been thoroughly scrutinized or rejected as false pandering and if she believes them; as a form of "false consciousness", cognitive dissonance, or more colloquially a case of being a tragic mulatto.

All this attributed to her because she is with her second white man in a row and had a baby by one. Black folks who fucks with White people and then go around ascribing pro Black verbiage, affirming their relationship to the Black community and discussing their former Black mates seem quite foolish, defensive, or over compensating; even more so if they are calling others self hating.

I did that because you guys got in all of a hissy because she was dissing black men and I stated why get mad there are folks in this forum diss black women all the time....I pointed out all the shit they were doing. Yall cant accept the fact that it is stated do unto others as you want them to do unto you. naw you can do that because you love putting bw down because it is easy.

Yall stated that it is an insult to put bw on this site but yet have no problem putting aw on here. while there were several ww stating they had no problem with BM praising bw. then you refuse to explain why you dont have a problem with aw threads but have a problem with bw threads ... so tell me why is that ?
 
Good love, it's beyond the person's race of why you don't get along with him/her. This is evident in the American workforce, especially for some of the adults that are posters on this forum that don't really like their co-workers or have problems with them. The workplace is a hit-or-a-miss for many Americans, some people fare off well in their job, while others may have problems with their co-workers. For the people on here that explain why they have issues with the people they work with, it's mainly about their personality and the way they carry themselves, not their skin complexion/race. I have hatred for a few people that I've met of various races. It doesn't mean that I hate everyone of those races, in general. It also doesn't mean that I hate myself.

what did the bible say...love your neighbor as you love yourself...but then again christians love to pick and cherry pick the bible as their positions need to be defended.
 
I know she considers herself a BW, I find that comment funny considering in reality, she's biracial.

We [black people] actually traded Halle Berry for Jennifer Lopez back in the late-90’s so J-Lo could earn some street-cred. Similar to when we traded away O.J. Simpson for Eminem.

LOL. I watched B.E.T's ed gordon last nite and they talked about (succintly) what is black. they needed to deeper with that issue. I tried to talk about this on the thread african american lives 2.

so the question is what is black ?

If Im not mistaken JLO is latino.
 
Colorism issues affect people of color all over the world, not just the Black community. It is just the result of the influence of White supremacy on minority populations. This is why when jokers like Lil Wayne talks negatively about dark skinned women, at least you know where that mentality comes from:

Indians:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=whkIW3vNltQ

Asians (I know Indians are Asians, but this is for the other Asians):

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R7f6tbnvHkI&feature=related

And Latin America. Sammy Sosa just lightened his skin:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V0ZwF5KPu1A


In Jamaica, they call it "browning" and in certain parts of Africa they had to outlaw bleaching creams because people were injuring themselves using it.

This is nothing new within the Black community or in the world. Remember the paper bag tests? Or what about Black film director Oscar Micheaux who cast lights as the good guys/leading ladies and dark skinned actors as the bad guys. This didn't happen overnight and will not end overnight as well.

hell there are a few to show their colorism.....to the few if you like bw then you hate ww .. they believe you must hate bw in order to really appreciate dating a ww. they (the stupid few) call you bw loyalist
 
Back
Top Bottom