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betterthesecondtime

betterthesecondtime

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Hi! have been a member of the forum for awhile, hidden in the background, loving your insights and perspectives......but divorce is now final,:smt038 and time for me to rediscover who I am, out loud - lol!

"Dated" a BM online for 3 months - turned out he had some major control issues and things blew up last week - need someone prove to me all guys aren't the same..............
 
betterthesecondtime said:
Hi! have been a member of the forum for awhile, hidden in the background, loving your insights and perspectives......but divorce is now final,:smt038 and time for me to rediscover who I am, out loud - lol!

"Dated" a BM online for 3 months - turned out he had some major control issues and things blew up last week - need someone prove to me all guys aren't the same..............
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Welcome!

I'm not a man, but I have to say not all men are alike. You have your good guys and your assholes and some in between.

For the sake of men, please don't project your ill feelings from the last guy onto to the next one.
 
Inner Beauty said:
Majority of the guys here are indeed, nice, down-to-earth, respectful and intelligent men. They're a good bunch!

Enjoy your stay....
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oh, i'm soooooo CO-SIGNING that ib...!!!

welcome to the site btst...and as ib has mentioned, there are some phenomenal men on the board which i'm sure you've already discovered...!!!
 
betterthesecondtime said:
Hi! have been a member of the forum for awhile, hidden in the background, loving your insights and perspectives......but divorce is now final,:smt038 and time for me to rediscover who I am, out loud - lol!

"Dated" a BM online for 3 months - turned out he had some major control issues and things blew up last week - need someone prove to me all guys aren't the same..............
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welcome and no we arent all the same but you have to choose wisely and not go with stereotypes or whats popular or what is shown in the media

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Thanks for all your sweet welcomes - I apologize if my initial post came across wrong. My comments weren't directed to BM as a generalization at all....just a bad taste in my mouth from my poor choices............I'm a huge fan of variety and would never want to be accused of categorization....or whatever the appropriate term is - :confused:
 
Wilkommen, Luv.

When yo say "Heartland" by tghe way, do ya mebbe mean Omaha, Nebraska?

During my visits there...I can tell ya that the White Femme Fatales have, for the most part, SERIOUS adoration for the *darker* fellas...

IF the job opportunities in my field had been available then....it would be a rather different story than it is to-day..wonderful storyb that it *is*..I most likely would *not* be living & working in England with My Beautiful Red by my side......

If you know what I mean............................................



















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