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Iam saying that she IS open minded to the brothas right at this moment, but prefer white guys, just because a ww dates mostly brothas doesn't always mean they have a preference to brothas. What makes a preference is the finishing touch so to speak and that is to go with her mostly bm that her most of her crushes and main celebrity crush is a brotha, a celebrity she would pick over the rest to be with is a brotha. Come on now fnnysmrtprtty look at most of the celebrities that we pick and post on this forum that we like&love. Even though some of ya'll love george clooney, matt damon I hear alot on here too, I would think being into bm and being part of a online communtiy that is for interracial for ww and bm they are not the first&only celebrities that would pop up in your head, you wouldn't and ya'll have not post only pics and have forums only about them. In her way she did that when she told them she was picking george clooney no matter what.

I know she has the privileges Im not saying she doesn't, I know she has privileges Im not sayin she doesn't (I said it twice to make that known :lol: ) Im saying she is into brothas at the time, she likes the brothas, but loves wm. Come on now fnny we all know if she was into brothas she should have no problem answering the other question with a yes she only said race doesn't matter to me when she saw where he was finally going with that. Don't know if you know this or ot but alot of times say that as the safe answer and she was late with going with that. And she didn't, she denied that she was into the brothas.
So ask you what do you think about her denial that she is EVEN into brothas? She called most of them her friends. OUCH!! for the ones that wasn't her friends.

 

Well, the first place you are going wrong, my dear sweet kenny_g, is to compare Kim to any of the poster here. Kim is different for the reasons I pointed out and that you acknowledged. That difference is what makes her past experiences such proof of what she truly prefers. She is the type of woman who gets what she wants. It's not the same for the posters on this forum, so comparing our answers to Kim's actions doesn't compute. If she TRULY wanted a white guy - she would have 100 by now.

Next, is her motivation. She is getting a reality show and is trying to not alienate mainstream white women and men. So she is trying to show how she is mainstream by throwing out an insincere George Clooney comment. So now she is getting some points from mainstream white America b/c the women now have something in common with her and the guys can fantasize they actually have a chance. She still has the love of the brothas b/c they know what she really wants. And the sistas hate her and will never like her no matter what she says so it doesn't matter.

As for the flat out denial? Well, for one thing it goes directly to the answer above. But also, calling those men she screwed and now has no use for 'friends' is a put down in a sly way. She is dissing them by saying she has no interest in them without stirring up gossip that there is any kind of tension.

I can't beleive you are buying into the sincerity of her statements!!! I think the high from watching her sex tape (done with her preferred type, gorgeous and daaaark) is making you loopy! :wink: :lol:

 

I get where you going now I feel you. But Im not comparing her with any posters here. Its just that joliemarie only answered what wm celebrity she would choose over a bm celebrity, but she never answered what black male celebrity she would choose over a white one. The point I was trying to make on this forum that the ww and bm here although we have a preference towards each other that it doesn't mean we don't find the sistas or wm still sexy, just what we are attracted to sexier so to speak. I didn't think I had to ask people on here if they are attracted to black men and white women on a site that represents that. (LOL) :lol:

So I guess you sayin kim kardashian a sure enough playa

 

Word, mugshot! :wink:

 

Are you mocking me :lol: :lol: :lol:



Thats too funny.

 

In the nicest way possible!! :smt059 You know I'm crazy about you...!

 

I got that because you didn't answer the other part of the question which made it not shallow and that is who is the black celebrity you would pick over Jean Reno. I don't know if you didn't answer the other part because JR is your number one pick or you just forgot too, maybe I should asked you why you didn't answer the other part of the question instead of trying to read you my fault right there if you forgot to answer but if you didn't and JR is your number one pick then Im right.

Im not trying to brew shallowness, Im trying to expose the negatives & positives open mindedness and preferences, because so many people because like I have said before in this world it is politically incorrect if you have a personal preference. The only time preferences is wrong is if it comes with prejudice or if it is non-personal as in business, economically, etc.

I was also trying to find reasons behind kim kardashian's response on interracial dating in her life, me and fnny discuss that out and her saw her point on some of the things and we got our answer on the kim k. situation.


P.S.
I know preference isn't easy to define and one of the reasons is because some try to be politically correct and others don't know feeling wise what it means.
The celebrity factor alot falls into people's choices in dating life.
I have girls liked me before because of some rappers' features and style that I have.

 

Or, "It's just as easy to fall in love with a rich man as it is a poor man!" :lol: :lol:

 

I never said anything about being shallow once again. Iam not speaking about you if none of what Iam saying relates to you, Iam speaking on those that are related too what Iam speaking about. It sounds to me like your saying having a preference is shallow, but yet you quote a term that basically says it only matters what class the man is in.

I can speak in preferential terms because we are on a preferential website geared towards ww&bm but we are also not haters. If you didn't have a strong preference towards bm then why didn't you when saw this website say "Thats kind of a shallow website."? Since you think a preference is shallow.

But like I said the first time I'll ask is that what you meant? when you said:
"it's not about being afraid to have preferences in terms of race, but what's the point in being shallow?"

 

Er first question. I do fancy quite a few white guys. I fancy quite a few black guys too. They actually tend to be similarly featured, I like the same characteristics in men more generally. But anyway...Rufus Sewell is someone I find attractive (an English actor). He is very intelligent and moody looking, an older man, and has beautiful wild curly dark hair. Black guy? I don't really know who is my favourite... there are lots who are chosen on the basis of looks alone. And I don't think I'd choose someone over Rufus who only had looks to offer. But assuming that Rufus and one of the black guys (you can look over my past posts to see who I like! ) had the same to offer in terms of intelligence, humour, kindness...then who knows who I'd choose?

Features: curly hair, definitely. Obviously black men have curly afro hair, and I like that equally, but only a white or a mixed race guy would have proper, curly hair, with lovely ringlets to run your fingers through. Again though, I can take it or leave it. That's the only thing I'd feel I was missing out on. Incidentally, all my white boyfriends have had extremely curly hair, and some of them I suspect probably actually had black heritage. One was 1/4 black, which I know for a fact.

I'm not even sure about the third question. I guess I do get more black guys than white hitting on me, but actually, they are people I know through studying or through friends, they aren't random people. One thing I really go for is intelligence. Most of the people I have my eye on at the moment are in the same or a related profession to me. I do see white guys I find attractive, occasionally. I've never made a conscious decision to stick to black guys or white guys...am waiting to see who will come along in the future and have that character, personality, pizaz that will make me say WOW! I'm open minded... Have been hurt in the past by both black and white guys, but you can't live in the past, can you?

 

Oh that was kind of hard to tell.

 

Umm can you sum that up shorter wise :lol:
I got nothing out of that, I don't know where you was getting at.

 

I dunno, I found the questions really hard to answer!

I still go for black and white guys and can't tell which I'd prefer in any situation unless I have the guys in front of me. Intelligence and other qualities are really important to me too. I guess if there was a really, really attractive black man and a really, really attractive white man, I would probably go for the black man. But that's because I don't notice white guys very often, I have a really specific type in white guys (olive skin, black curly hair) - all the others don't really do anything for me!

 

You have a physical attraction to bm, or is it bm as a whole?
Thats an easier one.

 

It's anyone as a whole, white or black.

But I would ONLY go for a white or a black guy - don't find any other races sexually attractive.

 

I meant whole as in everything, sexually, culturally, physically, personality, ethnically, mind, body and soul not just sexually.

You wouldn't date someone based solely on their ride 'em skillz :lol: