How Can A White Woman Not From North America Get a North American Black Man?
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luvattractivewomen
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Where does a white woman who may not be from North America start when it comes to finding and getting a black man from North America?
Start with yourself. Unless you are looking for "pookie, mookie, and trey" slinging dope on the side, you should make sure you have your life and personality in order. As with any relationship, bitterness is a no no to any man or woman. So, if you have suffered any heartbreak or relationship setbacks, make sure you are over it before attempting to date.
Where would she have to begin or start?
Begin looking in places you would actually like to go. They say Opposites attract, but they don't say that they stay together. Finding a man in places that you enjoy ensures the possibility of common interests. I would also suggest utilizing demographic information as a means of finding which area you might actually find more BM.
What does she have to do?
She should probably do what she feels comfortable with.
What places would she have to go?
If you are an introvert you might prefer to find someone on facebook. If you are outgoing you might find someone when shopping or at the cinema (Or even the Opera). During Holidays you might find more BM possibly getting gifts for family and or friends. Just a thought.
What states or territories would she have to visit?
I mentioned that earlier
I would also like to add that you shouldn't get discouraged if you get rejected. Not all BM are in to dating white women. However, many are open to it even if they have other preferences (Mine are Indian/Pakistani, Arab, Persian, and Mediterranean Women, however I have dated WW). The Truth is you can find a BM almost anywhere in America, but with any relationship, you may have to do some extra work if you are looking for a specific kind of man and relationship. Also, keep in mind that a woman "Traveling for BM" can put many BM off (I know it would put me off). But, I am sure if your intentions are sincere you will find someone. This is just the opinion of one Black Man. My opinions are limited to my personal feelings although my superpowers are endless.
Signed,
BLACKMAN
Start with yourself. Unless you are looking for "pookie, mookie, and trey" slinging dope on the side, you should make sure you have your life and personality in order. As with any relationship, bitterness is a no no to any man or woman. So, if you have suffered any heartbreak or relationship setbacks, make sure you are over it before attempting to date.
Where would she have to begin or start?
Begin looking in places you would actually like to go. They say Opposites attract, but they don't say that they stay together. Finding a man in places that you enjoy ensures the possibility of common interests. I would also suggest utilizing demographic information as a means of finding which area you might actually find more BM.
What does she have to do?
She should probably do what she feels comfortable with.
What places would she have to go?
If you are an introvert you might prefer to find someone on facebook. If you are outgoing you might find someone when shopping or at the cinema (Or even the Opera). During Holidays you might find more BM possibly getting gifts for family and or friends. Just a thought.
What states or territories would she have to visit?
I mentioned that earlier
I would also like to add that you shouldn't get discouraged if you get rejected. Not all BM are in to dating white women. However, many are open to it even if they have other preferences (Mine are Indian/Pakistani, Arab, Persian, and Mediterranean Women, however I have dated WW). The Truth is you can find a BM almost anywhere in America, but with any relationship, you may have to do some extra work if you are looking for a specific kind of man and relationship. Also, keep in mind that a woman "Traveling for BM" can put many BM off (I know it would put me off). But, I am sure if your intentions are sincere you will find someone. This is just the opinion of one Black Man. My opinions are limited to my personal feelings although my superpowers are endless.
Signed,
BLACKMAN
orejon4
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I have a question to ask especially the men who belong to North America:
Where does a white woman who may not be from North America start when it comes to finding and getting a black man from North America?
Where would she have to begin or start?
What does she have to do?
What places would she have to go?
What states or territories would she have to visit?
I am curious about the answers that you all will give and looking forward to them.
Tarsh, I have a feeling you already know the answers to all of these questions, but just for shits and giggles:
1) Go to North America
2) What does she have to do?
Ans: Just be herself, without any exaggerated stereotyped speaking style
3) What places would she have to go?
Ans: Go wherever the type of guy she's looking for congregates
4) What states or territories would she have to visit?
Ans: Canada - I'm assuming Toronto or Montreal, but I have limited
experience with the Great White North
Mexico - Mexico City, the Yucatan, Mexican Riviera, Cancun
USA - Any major city is more likely to have guys who are more
cosmopolitan and not wedded to the US-born only paradigm.
Soulthinker
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Tarshi,you may had to find the brother who has your interests and is able to travel to Oz to see you.
Unique4ever
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That would work well if the woman is just looking for an ons or an affair but if you are looking for more, that might not be the best idea.
Soldiers who are deployed will go home eventually and maybe they even have someone abroad already.
Plus many of them use their deployment to go wild in an environment they can get away from later (like some people do when they are on vacation in another country).
I dont wanna know how many girls got pregnant from a soldier and went to tell him, only to find out that he is back home in the US already.
I'm not saying that all American soldiers roll that way, but I heard enough sad stories like that.
Not that it would matter for me, since there are no military men around where I live anyway.....
In my hometown most black men are African not American. That's a culture I just can't get comfortable with for some reason.
Hey Santa, give us German girls more American black men to admire! :smt114
@Unique4ever You're absolutly right, thats something to be aware of
hmmm...
Its an injustice I say.
That these white women from across the seas go un loved by the black men that they so desire.
We have to get out there and right some wrongs.
Some of us single American black men will just have to become mail order husbands.
ladies. I'm here if you want me. :wink: :wink:
hmmm...
Its an injustice I say.
That these white women from across the seas go un loved by the black men that they so desire.
We have to get out there and right some wrongs.
Some of us single American black men will just have to become mail order husbands.
ladies. I'm here if you want me. :wink: :wink:
Yep, but evidently the joke is lost on some folks.
The fellas are definitely doing their best to hook her up though.
Alinoa
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Yep, but evidently the joke is lost on some folks.
The fellas are definitely doing their best to hook her up though.
And can you blame them? She is drop dead gorgeous.
Can't blame 'em a bit...Tarshi's got it going on. :smt023
Unique4ever
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Agreed.
And thank you for the nice "hello". I missed all of you just the same...
LOL. You ought to know we miss your feisty self when you're not here. How has life been treating you these days?
There are several of us who haven't been around as much as we used to be, including myself. I've really been missing my WWBM family, too.
Unique4ever
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LOL. You ought to know we miss your feisty self when you're not here. How has life been treating you these days?
There are several of us who haven't been around as much as we used to be, including myself. I've really been missing my WWBM family, too.
As some of you surely know, I have been here every now and then just to see how people are doing.
Didn't know if I should post again or not for a while.
I really can't complain.
Just spent 12 wonderful days on the Florida gulf coast in November.
All of the board members who live there are so damn lucky!
As some of you surely know, I have been here every now and then just to see how people are doing.
Didn't know if I should post again or not for a while.
I really can't complain.
Just spent 12 wonderful days on the Florida gulf coast in November.
All of the board members who live there are so damn lucky!
I know at one point you were talking about leaving for good, and I'm glad you changed your mind.
Sounds like an awesome trip. The only time I've ever been to Florida was as an infant, but one of these days I need to pay a visit now that I'm old enough for it to actually count. lol
Unique4ever
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I know at one point you were talking about leaving for good, and I'm glad you changed your mind.
Sounds like an awesome trip. The only time I've ever been to Florida was as an infant, but one of these days I need to pay a visit now that I'm old enough for it to actually count. lol
Thanks Tammy
Oh, you should definitely go there. There is no other place that puts my mind at ease like those clean non-crowded beaches.
Just me, my mp3 or a book and some sea life. So relaxing.....
Thanks Tammy
Oh, you should definitely go there. There is no other place that puts my mind at ease like those clean non-crowded beaches.
Just me, my mp3 or a book and some sea life. So relaxing.....
You're welcome. *hugs*
Sounds like just the kind of vacation I need. :smt023
wtarshi
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As some of you surely know, I have been here every now and then just to see how people are doing.
Didn't know if I should post again or not for a while.
I really can't complain.
Just spent 12 wonderful days on the Florida gulf coast in November.
All of the board members who live there are so damn lucky!
Good to see you posting again xx
luvattractivewomen
New Member
Tarshi is a nice lady and I think she is a moderator which is why I think most of us thought it was a serious thread. Personally, Tarshi isn't my type, but that is just my opinion (my type doesn't reside in this forum). I am not sure of everyone else's motives but it seems everyone tried to give genuine advice because she seems to be a good person. Just thought I would clarify.
wtarshi
Well-Known Member
Mothapucka, I'm everyone's type
Serial. How am I not everyone's type?
I'd fuck/marry me. I'm that awesome.
Some cray cray folk round here.
Not your type. Pffffftttttttt