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i don't mind scrapping at all..in fact some days I look forward to it because I like to fight (obviously)...the problem lies with these silly ass mothafuckas pulling blades or shooting. Every time I hear a young gun talk about buying a piece or whatever, i just SMDH. is that what it's come down to? A generation of brothas afraid to tumble or take a loss?
as barbaric and un-collegiate as it may seem, I encourage guys to pull into a dojo or gym, and just fight a little. Taking a loss and getting worn out isn't as bad as it may seem. I think some people will be surprised at how 'not bad' it is, to lay on the mat after you got handled. Your body will heal eventually and you'll be back to fight again before you know it. You may even find yourself laughing through an ass kicking. Don't know if that's a guy thing or what.
gyms and dojos are controlled environments, but the pain and injuries are still real. bottom line is you'll get over them eventually and fighting won't seem like such a big deal. lose the guns