I will admit I have and will continue to chubby chase

lipstick said:
:smt023love the pics of all the gorgeous women...it amazes me that we can't just appreciate beauty in all forms...

you don't see me or any of the other curvy girls hanging out in the anorexic threads saying:
omg, when is the last time she ate...
bony ass couldn't even take a spanking like a full figured girl...
have fun bumping that from behind...
hang on to the bones...
don't roll over on her or you might crush her

need i go on...i have seen plenty of undernourished starving themselves to be thin women that think being all skin/bones is sexy

lay off the big girls with your nutritional guidance and go find someone that actually gives a rat's ass what you have to say about...people who think they know everything are really annoying...
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brilliant post lippy & completely agree with you (as usual)...!!! :D
 
SmoothDaddy101 said:
Some of us would like something to hold on to. One would have to question if some of these men actually like women.
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haaa!!! yea, i have wondered that myself. or if they like the women they get. it's totally possible that they don't get their hearts desires. cause if they did, they wouldn't be haters.
 
lipstick said:
:smt023love the pics of all the gorgeous women...it amazes me that we can't just appreciate beauty in all forms...

you don't see me or any of the other curvy girls hanging out in the anorexic threads saying:
omg, when is the last time she ate...
bony ass couldn't even take a spanking like a full figured girl...
have fun bumping that from behind...
hang on to the bones...
don't roll over on her or you might crush her

need i go on...i have seen plenty of undernourished starving themselves to be thin women that think being all skin/bones is sexy

lay off the big girls with your nutritional guidance and go find someone that actually gives a rat's ass what you have to say about...people who think they know everything are really annoying...
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lippy, I think YOU are MY new girl crush! :)
 
lipstick said:
:smt023love the pics of all the gorgeous women...it amazes me that we can't just appreciate beauty in all forms...

you don't see me or any of the other curvy girls hanging out in the anorexic threads saying:
omg, when is the last time she ate...
bony ass couldn't even take a spanking like a full figured girl...
have fun bumping that from behind...
hang on to the bones...
don't roll over on her or you might crush her

need i go on...i have seen plenty of undernourished starving themselves to be thin women that think being all skin/bones is sexy

lay off the big girls with your nutritional guidance and go find someone that actually gives a rat's ass what you have to say about...people who think they know everything are really annoying...
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Just because I spoke on it doesn't mean I necessarily care, I just have an opinion. I mean, at the end of the day I really don't care about issues that have nothing to do with cool creamy milk baths lol:mrgreen:
 
Frederick said:
Why the fuck do you have to question my sexuality because I'm more attracted to slender women? Just because I don't find big guts and cellulite sexy doesn't mean that I'd rather sleep with other men.
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You're entitled to like who you like, I think he was referring to ones who tend to diss women who carry weight, yet no one talks shit about slender girls.

Skinny chicks can have cellulite too.
 
Frederick said:
I co-sign this. I've definitely noticed a double standard on this issue. Most of the women who go for black men expect guys who are in excellent shape. I've seen countless women who are obese on dating and networking sites talking about how they only want good looking brothers with huge muscles. Hell, they are women here making fun of fat guys at the beginning of this thread and not a peep from any of the whiners.

No one cuts fat guys any slack, and no one likes it when the preferences of a woman are questioned. The same standard should apply on the other side of the coin.
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Point well made. I think the beef is this suppose to be an appreciation thread and they don't like it when the thread goes off course even though every thread on here goes off course but they want the freedom to love big women in peace. Even though I agree with you about the double standard part.
 
andrae09 said:
Point well made. I think the beef is this suppose to be an appreciation thread and they don't like it when the thread goes off course even though every thread on here goes off course but they want the freedom to love big women in peace. Even though I agree with you about the double standard part.
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But there's a double standard on this side too. Like Lippy said, no one is dissing thin chicks. Only when it comes to girls with meat on their bones - then the insults come flying out tenfold.

I mean we all have our preferences that we're attracted to, but in regards to what you just said, everyone wants to be able to appreciate in peace.
 
Inner Beauty said:
But there's a double standard on this side too. Like Lippy said, no one is dissing thin chicks. Only when it comes to girls with meat on their bones - then the insults come flying out tenfold.

I mean we all have our preferences that we're attracted to, but in regards to what you just said, everyone wants to be able to appreciate in peace.
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And that's why I went silent love. No willing to burn bridges over one thread. After a little introspection I think it bugs me a little because this is the stereotype about bm dating ww that urkes me. That we just go after big women, the same big women who are considered rejects else where but like I said that's my issue. So carry on and have fun guys.
 
andrae09 said:
And that's why I went silent love. No willing to burn bridges over one thread. After a little introspection I think it bugs me a little because this is the stereotype about bm dating ww that urkes me. That we just go after big women, the same big women who are considered rejects else where but like I said that's my issue. So carry on and have fun guys.
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Everyone has their own preferences as we can see and when it isn't the norm, people are either not comfortable with it, they attack or they don't say shit and have a "to each his/her own" attitude about it (which I think is the best way to be personally).

I don't like that stereotype either, but there are dudes who appreciate a bigger woman.
 
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Frederick said:
Being overweight or obese is an abnormal state for human beings. Sorry, it's just the truth. It adversely affects health and shortens your lifespan. That's why people with weight problems will always be viewed in a negative light.

And while big women may get more heat that skinny girls, they're still getting more love than fat guys. I see "thick"/overweight women appreciation threads and pictures posted all over this forum. Where are the fat men appreciation threads? It seems to me that bigger women are getting plenty of positive attention. All of this complaining is ridiculous.
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I don't think anyone is arguing about the health factors, cause that's just common sense, but a lot of the women in this thread are just meatier, not necessarily fat slobs. There might have been some obese ones thrown in the mix too, but the overall thread is focusing on the bodies that are that of plus size models and around those sizes.

There's a lot of pressure on women and our bodies. Men don't have the same issues. A lot of men can sit there and be fat and happy and no one gives a shit and the man himself doesn't either. Let that be a woman. Not the same thing. I also think it's a lot easier for men to lose weight than it is for women. That's another topic for another day.
 
By the way, not every dude on this forum is a chiseled model body type and who ever has posted their pic, all the women have given them props. NO WOMAN has ever dissed a dude on here. Can't say that for the men.

These are not celebs, athletes or models, but our everyday posters.
 
Frederick said:
Being overweight or obese is an abnormal state for human beings. Sorry, it's just the truth. It adversely affects health and shortens your lifespan. That's why people with weight problems will always be viewed in a negative light.

And while big women may get more heat that skinny girls, they're still getting more love than fat guys. I see "thick"/overweight women appreciation threads and pictures posted all over this forum. Where are the fat men appreciation threads? You don't see any because even big women don't like them. It seems to me that bigger women are getting plenty of positive attention. All of this complaining is ridiculous.
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hey hang on a second...i love me some black lavender...!!!

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Inner Beauty said:
By the way, not every dude on this forum is a chiseled model body type and who ever has posted their pic, all the women have given them props. NO WOMAN has ever dissed a dude on here. Can't say that for the men.

These are not celebs, athletes or models, but our everyday posters.
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exactly right ib, because i think that women can see the beauty of a man from the inside as well as the out.
 
Tarshibear said:
exactly right ib, because i think that women can see the beauty of a man from the inside as well as the out.
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Absolutely!!

Men are more visual, women are visual and mental, but more mental than anything else.

I have dated men of all sizes, and I prefer men with a little meat on their bones... even though I dated a man who was 150lbs soaking wet for a little while. Too bad he was such a jerk. lol

Anyway... as beautiful as many of the men posting their pics are to me, skinny muscular men don't do quite as much as bigger men with muscle. I just like big guys, which may have something to do with the fact that I'm not a beanpole, but whatever. It works for me. You all do what works for you...but don't come in here friggin' lecturing about obesity. You don't know each person's situation, and to come in here getting on your soapbox about how it's unhealthy and whatever is just insensitive and ridiculous. You put people like me and suprchic off in the sidelines, nervous to show ourselves, simply because of some of the attitudes.

You are skinny? Great. You have a great skinny lover? Fantastic. Happy for you. Rock that out. Keep your thick woman hatred to yourselves and have a nice day.
 
Tarshibear said:
exactly right ib, because i think that women can see the beauty of a man from the inside as well as the out.
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Tarshi as much as I luv you and IB I call shenanigans. This thread is a chubby chasers appreciation thread not just chubby women. I have yet to see one pic on here showing love for big dudes. The only pic I saw was IB making fun of the guy from D12. So apparently girls are just as superficial. I'm just saying.....
Truth bomb!!!
 
andrae09 said:
Tarshi as much as I luv you and IB I call shenanigans. This thread is a chubby chasers appreciation thread not just chubby women. I have yet to see one pic on here showing love for big dudes. The only pic I saw was IB making fun of the guy from D12. So apparently girls are just as superficial. I'm just saying.....
Truth bomb!!!
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Of course it's true. When women fantasize about men, Fat Joe is hardly at the top of the list.
I think this goes for both men and women, a lot of people like to talk about how it's all down to personality but lets be honest, it's not. Personality is more important than looks in my opinion but attraction has to be there, otherwise you can't build a sexual relationship which is just as important as an emotional connection in a romantic relationship.
 
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