You can do what you do bro but big girls just aren't for me. I'm not saying that a big woman can't be nice looking but I like my women on the thin/slightly thick side.
They aren't for anybody, some people are just ridiculous and buy into FA rhetoric (Fat Acceptance).
There is no reason for your thighs to be as big as Grizzly Bears and your ass to be wider than my own. When I bang from behind I don't want to imagine I need to stick a "WIDE LOAD" sticker on that ass.
As I have said before, been there, done that, trying to quit.

