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Beasty said:
LOL. You just need a home made recipe for ice cream then add some cashew milk butter pecan is the shizzle....lol But seriously,being a parent means it's not about you anymore so you would want the mother to be around for the child.
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I prefer not to use nut milk. And I am not making ice cream from scratch due to pure laziness, lol.
 
Beasty said:
You said not to make her orgasm. duh lol
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Yeah, so skip the sex in the first place and have a solid interview with her instead in order to be able to make a logical decision. You are big on logic so am just giving you your options.:)
 
Madeleine said:
Yeah no, I meant before. To avoid being deceived by the hormones in the decision making, don’t make her orgasm lol. When married of course it’s very important, that’s when the bonding effect comes in handy. I think a lot of marriages could be saved if people didn’t stop (or almost stop) having sex.
Remember what we said in the other thread about premarital sex being negatively correlated with marital stability. People need to have less sex when they supposed to make a good decision and more afterwards. But they are doing it the other way round lol.
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Lol, then there is no point in having sex. I don’t orgasm from sex, so if the time isn’t spent giving her orgasms then it is kind of pointless to even have sex. It is understandable that there is more to the satisfaction of sex than just climax, but if no one is ever going to get there, just seems like a waste of time.
 
meowkittenmeow said:
Untrue, as it assumes that all mothers are good for the child. Sometimes, not having the mother around is the safest bet. I think having positive women around is a more solid option.
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Bruh I'm so glad my mother was the shizzle. Father not so much. I would have went down a very dark path if it were not for her.
 
meowkittenmeow said:
Lol, then there is no point in having sex. I don’t orgasm from sex, so if the time isn’t spent giving her orgasms then it is kind of pointless to even have sex. It is understandable that there is more to the satisfaction of sex than just climax, but if no one is ever going to get there, just seems like a waste of time.
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Lol, I’m just giving the logic oriented people the information they need!
If all your time is spent giving HER orgasms your lovers must be quite happy though.
 
Madeleine said:
Yeah, so skip the sex in the first place and have a solid interview with her instead in order to be able to make a logical decision. You are big on logic so am just giving you your options.:)
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Beasty said:
I have already....lol. Logic comes into play because I'm all about balance.
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In India many people (even we’ll educated ones) still marry based on a few formal meetings (set up by parents) where they quiz each other on the important things in life. Based on that they decide whether to marry or not. I know quite a few that seem to be happy with the outcome. At least they have a high level of compatibility. Love develops afterwards, they believe. I think it could work (even though I wouldn’t wanna try it).
 
Madeleine said:
In India many people (even we’ll educated ones) still marry based on a few formal meetings (set up by parents) where they quiz each other on the important things in life. Based on that they decide whether to marry or not. I know quite a few that seem to be happy with the outcome. At least they have a high level of compatibility. Love develops afterwards, they believe. I think it could work (even though I wouldn’t wanna try it).
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Societal pressures and status is what keeps them together.
 
Madeleine said:
Lol, I’m just giving the logic oriented people the information they need!
If all your time is spent giving HER orgasms your lovers must be quite happy though.
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I dated a chef once. One of the only women I was ever happy with. She was bothered by the fact that I really only wanted her for her culinary talents.
 
Madeleine said:
In India many people (even we’ll educated ones) still marry based on a few formal meetings (set up by parents) where they quiz each other on the important things in life. Based on that they decide whether to marry or not. I know quite a few that seem to be happy with the outcome. At least they have a high level of compatibility. Love develops afterwards, they believe. I think it could work (even though I wouldn’t wanna try it).
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I wanna swap love for friendship. Love can come later or never, makes me no difference.
 
meowkittenmeow said:
I dated a chef once. One of the only women I was ever happy with. She was bothered by the fact that I really only wanted her for her culinary talents.
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Hahaha... I’d be, too! You didn’t sell it to her well. You’d have told her you are the first woman I have ever truly been happy with... that way you’d still be eating her food:-).
 
Beasty said:
dating a Chef sounds Great!!!!!

Why didn't I think of that?
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Bruh!!! You don’t even know. She was Japanese but living in Korea learning their cuisine. Boooouyuuyy!!!! It was the shiznittle-snack-zap-Zappa! She wasn’t my physical type, but what she “literally brought to the table” made the physical aspect irrelevant. I kept her body and heart fulfilled, and she kept my stomach filled. We were young, So she wanted me to want her for other things. Last time I heard from her was in 2010. She wanted to get back together, but we were on different sides of the planet with different goals.
 
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