Is Attraction...Nature or Nurture?

[LUCIFERMORNINGSTAR]

Well, it is an interesting question? How do you white girls think that black women feel when you take eligible, educated, successful black men away from them? Do you think that it is your right (white female privilege) to date interracially, even though black women are "systematically" prevented from doing the same thing? Due to media images, white women are put up on a pedestal, compared to other races of women. Other races of men do not desire black women like they do white women.

Of course, white girls try to stay away from addressing questions like that. It is more convenient for white girls to blame everything on the white man.

Flaminghetero's the expert on the BW/WM topic.

You might wanna start a new thread to catch his attention.

 

[Persephone]

oh Jesus.

Cowboy, I hope you never get injured/sick ever again, because frankly it seems to turn you into an asshole, though I really get the impression it's a constant problem of yours.

You go on the internet and find an interracial dating site, because you obviously very much dislike the idea of any black men taking away "your" women, even though you argue yourself in circles with contradiction after contradiction and have the uncanny ability to sound like a completely ignorant racist with no regard for anyone who isn't you.

But you're not a racist. No no, you can't be, because everyone automatically assumes you are because you're "Whitey", and thusly are discriminating against you for being born with that privilege.

However, since you only imply all of this shit, you keep denying it.

If you have such a wonderful life, why don't you have a gorgeous 20 year old girlfriend taking care of you while you're recovering from your terrible injury, keeping you occupied instead of leaving you idle and bored enough to harass people on the internet for entertainment?

You hate being attacked, stop asking to be. Why are you even here in the first place, if not to cause problems? When I'm around a lot of people who don't like me, and I don't agree with a lot of their major views, and I have a serious dislike for the type of people they are, I generally go find people better suited to my personality and interests. Even if I feel the people are being assholes I'll just go find friends who are better suited to me, because assholes aren't worth my time. I don't constantly push my way into something that will get me nothing but shit flung at me all because I want them to listen to me about how wrong everything they do is, so I can either inspire them to change or at least piss them off a lot in the process.

I'm just having trouble figuring out why, if you're so victimized here, you're still popping up? If you stick your hand in a fire, do you also keep doing it again so you can cry about it to everyone who'll listen?

 

[Persephone]

The same way you feel about black men taking white women away from you, apparently.

Though how on Earth you can even pretend to sympathize with black women is beyond me.

Are you a black woman, cowboy?

How bout you stick with something you know, because the only thing you know about is being a white man. Same way I can only know how it feels to be a white woman. My boyfriend can only know how it feels to be a black man. No matter how much you wonder, no matter even if you're willing to read about what it's like, you can never know.

Because you are what you are. Quit wasting our time with your babble.

 

[RealDre24]

I've always found women to fall into two categories in my life...

What I find to be attractive...

What I find to not be attractive..

Has severed me well all these years.

 

[BlackMasterJay]

I can honestly say that if I'm looking at a woman from a distance or on a T.V. screen....a white woman will grab my attention faster but if you put me in the same club with a woman (or the same bed...LOL)...it doesn't matter nearly as much....and my preferences might lean slightly towards the black woman (barely). That's probably more of a function of shared values & culture......
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Both- But nurture plays a greater role.

But youre right. if im sharin the same bed wit a woman........i'll let nature take its course......regardless of race

 

[TheChosenOne]

Looks like most people think it's either both or it's nurture.

It probably depends on the person...some people will follow either what they've been taught or how they naturally feel while others conform to certain standards or in rare cases...partner up with someone of a race they aren't typically attracted to as a sign of rebellion.