Is being a thickgirl a race thing?

[7Seven]

Oh my god 7seven man, okay you are not attracted to women with
an ass, but lets not put them down man. You can be big and still
healthy if that was the case then football players that are over 300
wouldn't be running around for 60 minutes before falling out. If beyonce
is overweight and need to go on a diet plan then she wouldn't be able
dance and move like that man. Your not thinking with an open mind here
man. How are you going to be open enough to date outside your race
but do what alot of white men do and that is put their size down. What if
you run into a beautiful thin woman and fall in love with her and all that.
Then come to find out she does not believe in putting people down like
that and walk out on ya. The point I was making in the first place was that
most black men is more accepting of difference that is why we mostly date
outside our race, that is why even though this site is for ww&bm the brothas on here mentions italians, blacks, hispanics, asians. And the
women who come here vary in sizes. You remember ClssySthrnBBW.
There are women of size here man the only people that puts anyone
on this site down is those damn trolls.

Now me I like skinny women too, but I also like it big. My girl is a thin
with a fat ass so I don't see it as having no choice. I see it as...
HEY TWO FOR THE PRICE OF ONE, WHATS UP!!

There we go again. Insinuating more rubbish? I never stated that I did not like women with more arse. Where did you get that? I said I like fit, athletic women. Being "thick" is subjective at best, and makes no damn sense what so ever. I never said Beyonce was overweight. I did say she was heading that way. But I know, you do not agree with me. Overweight, is overweight, is overweight. No matter how you tag with fancy phrases.

Jennifer Lopez and Hallie Berry are two women who are fit and athletic. They work out and keep their bodies tight. They have hit their target weight and work at to keep it there, and they look great.

 

[lainarain]

I tend to agree with 7. There's a difference between overweight and having some titties and ass. If you're a size 2 or 24, if you have these - it's gonna show. Some women have fat and think that that gives them curves.

However, some of the super skinny-ass white girls that are getting breast and butt implants may just need to eat a couple of cheeseburgers.

 

[SardonicGenie]

I tend to agree with 7. There's a difference between overweight and having some titties and ass. If you're a size 2 or 24, if you have these - it's gonna show. Some women have fat and think that that gives them curves.

However, some of the super skinny-ass white girls that are getting breast and butt implants may just need to eat a couple of cheeseburgers.

Agreed.

 

[kenny_g]

That is exactly what I am talking about 7seven, you are sayin
beyonce is headed that way and she is no where near it.....what are you
looking at.


The fact of the matter is the choice to work out makes you healthy or unhealthy. Not your size! If that was true as I said all big people wouldn't make it to age 40 before falling out and dying.

I brought up this post because it is true most black men preference
in women is not as high as white men's preference. Thats why alot
of us date alot of big girls, whitegirls, asian girls, latin girls, skinny girls,
etc. You get 100 white men together with their woman, most of them
are going to be similar as oppose to 100 black men....Think about it.

 

[7Seven]

That is exactly what I am talking about 7seven, you are sayin
beyonce is headed that way and she is no where near it.....what are you
looking at.


The fact of the matter is the choice to work out makes you healthy or unhealthy. Not your size! If that was true as I said all big people wouldn't make it to age 40 before falling out and dying.

I brought up this post because it is true most black men preference
in women is not as high as white men's preference. Thats why alot
of us date alot of big girls, whitegirls, asian girls, latin girls, skinny girls,
etc. You get 100 white men together with their woman, most of them
are going to be similar as oppose to 100 black men....Think about it.

THAT IS THE PROBLEM RIGHT THERE. You do not demand better from your women, so you have no right to complain about 'sistas.' Yes, black men in States are easily oppressed mentally by their women, YES DAMNIT, I SAID IT. Beyonce is getting fat, if she marries Jay-Z she will get fat, I GUARANTEE IT, she has poor eating habits. Just remember what I said Kenny.

 

[lainarain]

I brought up this post because it is true most black men preference
in women is not as high as white men's preference. Thats why alot
of us date alot of big girls, whitegirls, asian girls, latin girls, skinny girls,
etc. You get 100 white men together with their woman, most of them
are going to be similar as oppose to 100 black men....Think about it.

I did "think about it." I do wonder why I often see ugly-ass, beat-up, nasty, trashy ww with (some) bm. (okay, they could be beautiful on the inside.) Unfortunately, these bm are w/ these ww simply because they are white. Just because you like white ladies, why do you have to lower your standards. Your choices may not be as diverse, but (if I was a man) I'd rather be picky and wake up alone rather than waking up to some fat, not thick, pasty-skinned, white girl with greasy, stringy hair.

Why shouldn't 7 hold out for his choice of beauty? (never thought I'd be your ally)

 

[SardonicGenie]

That is exactly what I am talking about 7seven, you are sayin
beyonce is headed that way and she is no where near it.....what are you
looking at.


The fact of the matter is the choice to work out makes you healthy or unhealthy. Not your size! If that was true as I said all big people wouldn't make it to age 40 before falling out and dying.

I brought up this post because it is true most black men preference
in women is not as high as white men's preference. Thats why alot
of us date alot of big girls, whitegirls, asian girls, latin girls, skinny girls,
etc. You get 100 white men together with their woman, most of them
are going to be similar as oppose to 100 black men....Think about it.

THAT IS THE PROBLEM RIGHT THERE. You do not demand better from your women, so you have no right to complain about 'sistas.' Yes, black men in States are easily oppressed mentally by their women, YES DAMNIT, I SAID IT. Beyonce is getting fat, if she marries Jay-Z she will get fat, I GUARANTEE IT, she has poor eating habits. Just remember what I said Kenny.

He's got you here, Kenny. Think about it.

 

[SardonicGenie]

I brought up this post because it is true most black men preference
in women is not as high as white men's preference. Thats why alot
of us date alot of big girls, whitegirls, asian girls, latin girls, skinny girls,
etc. You get 100 white men together with their woman, most of them
are going to be similar as oppose to 100 black men....Think about it.

I did "think about it." I do wonder why I often see ugly-ass, beat-up, nasty, trashy ww with (some) bm. (okay, they could be beautiful on the inside.) Unfortunately, these bm are w/ these ww simply because they are white. Just because you like white ladies, why do you have to lower your standards. Your choices may not be as diverse, but (if I was a man) I'd rather be picky and wake up alone rather than waking up to some fat, not thick, pasty-skinned, white girl with greasy, stringy hair.

Why shouldn't 7 hold out for his choice of beauty? (never thought I'd be your ally)

I bet I'm a lot picker than Seven, even if it doesn't seem that way.

But, if being a picky prick means maintaining dignity, then I'll take it.

 

[Iffy'swifey]

I don't think anybody should ever lower their standards or settle for second best (I certainly wouldn't), but I think we should all assess why we have these standards.

Sometimes we get an idea in our head and we just stick with it, even though things have changed, including ourselves. I think it's good to review ourselves and what we want out of life and the people in our lives.

 

[SardonicGenie]

I don't think anybody should ever lower their standards or settle for second best (I certainly wouldn't), but I think we should all assess why we have these standards.

Sometimes we get an idea in our head and we just stick with it, even though things have changed, including ourselves. I think it's good to review ourselves and what we want out of life and the people in our lives.

Noted.

 

[fly girl]

I did "think about it." I do wonder why I often see ugly-ass, beat-up, nasty, trashy ww with (some) bm. (okay, they could be beautiful on the inside.) Unfortunately, these bm are w/ these ww simply because they are white. Just because you like white ladies, why do you have to lower your standards. Your choices may not be as diverse, but (if I was a man) I'd rather be picky and wake up alone rather than waking up to some fat, not thick, pasty-skinned, white girl with greasy, stringy hair.

Oh....My....Fucking....Gawd!

That has got to be some of the most judgemental, ignorant, misogynistic bulllshit I ever heard out of a woman on this board.

 

[fly girl]

I bet I'm a lot picker than Seven, even if it doesn't seem that way.

But, if being a picky prick means maintaining dignity, then I'll take it.

You can maintain standards and be picky without being a prick. I have never gotten that vibe out of you.

 

[kenny_g]

Does anybody get what Iam saying here...From some of your responses
I don't see that you are getting what Iam saying and what Im tellin 7seven. Please (not to be ignorant.) go back and take a look at my posts
on this subject, and read more carefully what Iam saying because right
now I don't have a response to your responses.

 

[SardonicGenie]

Does anybody get what Iam saying here...From some of your responses
I don't see that you are getting what Iam saying and what Im tellin 7seven. Please (not to be ignorant.) go back and take a look at my posts
on this subject, and read more carefully what Iam saying because right
now I don't have a response to your responses.

Yeah, we got it. Plenty of us have gave our opinions on thickness in regards to race already.

 

[SardonicGenie]

I did "think about it." I do wonder why I often see ugly-ass, beat-up, nasty, trashy ww with (some) bm. (okay, they could be beautiful on the inside.) Unfortunately, these bm are w/ these ww simply because they are white. Just because you like white ladies, why do you have to lower your standards. Your choices may not be as diverse, but (if I was a man) I'd rather be picky and wake up alone rather than waking up to some fat, not thick, pasty-skinned, white girl with greasy, stringy hair.

Oh....My....Fucking....Gawd!

That has got to be some of the most judgemental, ignorant, misogynistic bulllshit I ever heard out of a woman on this board.

It's still true, whether you like it or not.

 

[SardonicGenie]

I bet I'm a lot picker than Seven, even if it doesn't seem that way.

But, if being a picky prick means maintaining dignity, then I'll take it.

You can maintain standards and be picky without being a prick. I have never gotten that vibe out of you.

Your responses to me and others would make me assume otherwise.

 

[fly girl]

I bet I'm a lot picker than Seven, even if it doesn't seem that way.

But, if being a picky prick means maintaining dignity, then I'll take it.

You can maintain standards and be picky without being a prick. I have never gotten that vibe out of you.

Your responses to me and others would make me assume otherwise.

It is called mirroring. I like to use it on people. I mirror back to them what they give off to me.

 

[fly girl]

I did "think about it." I do wonder why I often see ugly-ass, beat-up, nasty, trashy ww with (some) bm. (okay, they could be beautiful on the inside.) Unfortunately, these bm are w/ these ww simply because they are white. Just because you like white ladies, why do you have to lower your standards. Your choices may not be as diverse, but (if I was a man) I'd rather be picky and wake up alone rather than waking up to some fat, not thick, pasty-skinned, white girl with greasy, stringy hair.

Oh....My....Fucking....Gawd!

That has got to be some of the most judgemental, ignorant, misogynistic bulllshit I ever heard out of a woman on this board.

It's still true, whether you like it or not.

Bullshit. You have no idea why anyone else dates the people they do by looking at them. You are making assumptions based on your own beliefs.

 

[7Seven]

Do you wish for me to speak in proper English tongue? I guarantee, it will confound you beyond comprehension.

 

[Iffy'swifey]

Steady on old bean what what!

I have a simply spiffing and wizard idea, lets all be fine and dandy!