desreveRsIgnitirW
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This seems like its going in the wrong direction. Lets all hold hands and sing we are the world and remember we came here to unite.
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I think perhaps people who think that should go to Europe and check it out for themselves, then they can report back. Comments in the absence of fact or direct experience are purely conjecture. If you can't pull an American woman, I don't think your chances are going to be much better anywhere else in the world, unless you happen to be somewhere that the male to female ratio is 1:200 in which case you might have some luck even if you happen to be a complete dick.
Making assessments about someone's life based upon a couple posts is really not wise. One could derive from your posts that you are a bitter, rude, lonely guy with no play... but I'm sure you would think that an unfair and/or incorrect assessment as you likely prefer to think yourself to be more than the sum of a few jaded comments.
The Dark King
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Esp I'll be totally honest. I've dated a few girs from Sweden England Austrailia and Canada and from Switzerland. The girls were far more agreeable than the American women I've dated and race never once came up in conversation. Racist sentiment is ingrained in the American fabric with those who look like me getting the short end of the stick. Public perception of black people sucks especially for a group who's been here as long as we have. Every other type of "foreigner" who comes here gets way better treatment socially. So to say that one can see themselves being treated better by women who didn't grow up in that enviornment isn't far fetched babe.
No, as I said I have no idea about the dating habits of famous WW, because I don't follow famous people. I just don't care what anyone else does, or why they do or don't do it. I believe you are implying that they don't date BM because it would negatively impact their career? All I have to say about that is why would you care about someone that stupid and self-centered anyway? If I were you I'd be thinking 'thank goodness they go for the WM, it makes it easier to find the normal ones'.
If that's been your experience, then fine, at least you have something to base your opinion on besides hearsay and the rumors spread by jaded men. However, that is just not my experience with American women, and I grew up in a rural Kansas, redneck central. I think with the exception of two women in my family, all have dated IR at some point, some exclusively. I just never experienced this 'don't date BM' or 'BM are not as good as WM' attitude. Like your opinion is based upon your experience, mine is based upon my experience. We don't even need to agree to disagree on this one, I will happily concede that your experiences with American women haven't been great, and I know you realize that's not how all of us are.
desreveRsIgnitirW
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I'd never say that all European WW are better than all American WW cause that's simply not true. One would only have to take a look at German model Heidi Klum for a perfect example. She only got with a black man after her white baby's daddy left her for a black woman.
Fred, they've never lived a single day in their lives as a black man so they could never relate.
I never said ALL American WW are like that,I said "More white women in America would be more appealing to me and most other black American men, if more would drop the racist/prejudice mindsets they have."
I know things are already getting a little better, I simply stated they would get much better if much more WW started to change. I didn't generalize or say all,nor did I bash American WW at any point.
If I were to bring up the FACT that many American WW wait till they're older or out of shape to get with brothas, I'd be the bad guy. I've seen it happen many of times but the people on this site would only try to label me as unrealistic.
I never generalized or bashed,I simply stated it applies to many...which it does...
Question if I may Frederick? If you think so little of the women here, why are you here? I'm gonna go ahead and assume it's not the men who drew you, so that leaves something like similar interest or interesting topics, but again you seem to show disdain for both... which begs the question why be here? I'm not saying you shouldn't be here, I'm just curious why someone would persist in participating in a forum where pretty much every topic they comment on is offensive or irritating to them, and who has such a low opinion of the other members... seems like a waste of time and energy.
Someone's view of reality is typically based upon their individual reality. My reality and yours are likely to be vastly different. You trying to tell someone else what their reality should be is ridiculous.
desreveRsIgnitirW
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I've never come to this site throwing around profanities directly at people. I've disagreed with many people on this site but I've kept it purely comical because things have indeed been funny. I know people secretly laugh at some of my stuff (like the other day with SmoothDaddy) because I have a friend who comes on this site and she texted me to say she saw it and found it funny.
I could understand her sentiments if I stereotyped American WW but I never did that. I simply said things would get better if more WW changed. In her bitter anger she did not see that part,she only saw the opening for an argument.
I'm not in the business of generalizations, all I do is note the facts.I like some American ww ALOT,I wouldn't be on this site now if I didn't. With that said, anyone who took what I said as an insult or a bash needs to reread my comment.
fromrussiawithlove
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Instead you say I'm bitter and angry and my life is sad. Well done you, you hero.
Did it occur to you that your friend happens to share your sense of humor, but not everyone does? I personally didn't find you amusing at all, going after another member personally like that isn't a debate, or a conversation, it's an inappropriate attack. You're 'Mr Unite & Sing Kumbayah', yet you often post divisive comments, I find it difficult to reconcile the two opposing agendas.
desreveRsIgnitirW
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Just because some ww get with bm for bad reasons,doesn't mean they all do.Dont get me wrong,I STILL wanna sing. I'm assuming english is your first language so I'm sure you wont have a problem understanding my actual point.
My point is MANY American WW harbor prejudice in their hearts,but not all. Things would get better if more of them dropped the prejudice.
Even though I want to sing we are the world,I still stand by the statement that American WW harbor alot of prejudice.
Please can we all hold hands and sing? Why does the union of a wonderful couple bring such discord? I'm officially done with this discussion,I just want to celebrate.
** Sings ** We are the world...
LoL, this reminds me of a question that I read the other day, name a successful black american celebrity who is involved with a successful intelligent smashing A list celebrity white american woman?
The answer was, NONE, lol.
I thought about for a minute I said Seal and Heidi, but he aint American and she is German.
Then I thought about Carmen Electra, but she was not really an A- lister and was around blks b4 she got famous.
Then I thought about that chick from Gray's Anatomy, she is very cute and an actress on a hit show but Not an A-lister
I think the closest we have is Dennis Rodman with Madona, LoL.
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I try to refrain from making comments when I don't actually know what I'm talking about, so the MANY American WW harbor prejudice comment is something I cannot definitively agree or disagree with. Yes some WW harbor prejudice against BM, as do some AW, and some BW, etc. Some people harbor prejudice against everyone who isn't like them. But I don't honestly know if it qualifies as MANY American WW, because that's not representative of the American WW I know. I do know that's not the case with the WW here, and that making statements like that tends to turn people off and make them think you're bitter... I know of no one who has bitter on the list of qualities they look for in another person.
You do make small jabs here and there, like the Heidi Klum comment and the older, out of shape WW comment. So to say you are here to spread unity is a bit hard to buy... but I'll leave you to your singing.
desreveRsIgnitirW
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Lmaoooo but they try to call you crazy when you point it out lol.
wait there was Nicole Kidman with that rapper once and with that Black rocker.... nevaha mind, it did not last long and she is Australian and was married to Tom Cruise for so many years prior to that
I responded by saying wait, how about Sharon Stone and her black body guard, then someone responded Sharon was over her prime and has became a has been, lol.
The Dark King
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Real talk kid.
Hmm, maybe I can put this in gentler terms so thereby alleviate the tension.
Here goes. The person who made that post about going to Europe to find a caucasian woman, I do not think was making a negative attack upon European women, instead, he was pointing at the difficulty of what a successful black man has to go through in order to obtain a successful white women, meaning he would have to go to a different country just to find one.
While I'm not entirely sure the accuracy of this post, it is interesting to note once to think about it. While I can name plenty of successful black men who has married caucasian women who weren't famous in the states, I can't think of a single caucasian woman who became successful and married a non successful black male. In fact, I can't even think of one whose dating. (But dating has most likely happen, and is more probably linked to my innocence and naivety than actual knowledge.)
Yet here Jason is, as someone mention whose on the top of the charts, and he has to go to Europe to find someone whose as successful as he is.
But I'm slowly starting to believe that European are perhaps less prejudice than American women. The highest number of Interracial couples come from Britain. Britain also has shows and movies that has no problem showcasing a
black men with a white women. When I was in the navy, I hear tons of fantastic things about australia from black sailors and how the women there loved us. And my friend who I've met from norway whose a freakin model called me hot. Hot!! I've never been called hot by an American woman in my life and yet my Norwegian friend whose drop dead gorgeous and a freakin model said I was hot and invited me to norway.
So in the end, in my opinion, I definitely do not think it was an attack on European women. I just think the poster was noticing that European women appear more accepting of us than American women.
Here goes. The person who made that post about going to Europe to find a caucasian woman, I do not think was making a negative attack upon European women, instead, he was pointing at the difficulty of what a successful black man has to go through in order to obtain a successful white women, meaning he would have to go to a different country just to find one.
While I'm not entirely sure the accuracy of this post, it is interesting to note once to think about it. While I can name plenty of successful black men who has married caucasian women who weren't famous in the states, I can't think of a single caucasian woman who became successful and married a non successful black male. In fact, I can't even think of one whose dating. (But dating has most likely happen, and is more probably linked to my innocence and naivety than actual knowledge.)
Yet here Jason is, as someone mention whose on the top of the charts, and he has to go to Europe to find someone whose as successful as he is.
But I'm slowly starting to believe that European are perhaps less prejudice than American women. The highest number of Interracial couples come from Britain. Britain also has shows and movies that has no problem showcasing a
black men with a white women. When I was in the navy, I hear tons of fantastic things about australia from black sailors and how the women there loved us. And my friend who I've met from norway whose a freakin model called me hot. Hot!! I've never been called hot by an American woman in my life and yet my Norwegian friend whose drop dead gorgeous and a freakin model said I was hot and invited me to norway.
So in the end, in my opinion, I definitely do not think it was an attack on European women. I just think the poster was noticing that European women appear more accepting of us than American women.
desreveRsIgnitirW
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Alaina Huffman is a gorgeous Canadian woman who was on a popular show called Stargate,married a no name black man.