just a thought

This is an interesting comment. I agree with the idea that one should not limit ones choices when looking for the perfect mate, however, one usually has to accept that he/she is attracted to a certain type of person.
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Fair enough. So some of you actually belief ww are inherently more attractive then black women. I guess it's natural of you to come to worship that which has historically been denied to you. Me, I'm African, so I really don't share in African-American culture and really can't understand this fascination. I repeat: Nothing wrong with an interracial coupling developing naturally. Everything is wrong when people seek it out.

 

That's different though. Most people say that BECAUSE of their upbringing. If I was an arab living in the middle east I'd probably prefer to marry another arab when it came time to marry because that would be who I'd feel most comfortable. Same thing in the US. SOME white women are considerably open to black men because of a similar reason--they grew up around them or had them as friends etc. Same thing with many black men/whitewomen. Or some people are just naturally open-minded. It's the ones who seek out interracial relationships because of some perverted racial fetish that freak me out.

 

I have no problem with anything stated in this post.

 

Hmmm again by that twisted logic, how do you get to be all black? seeing as it is such an awful thing, your momma and daddy were idiots who didnt know it was wrong to marry another black person because that was wrong. many many black people say, black is beautiful and black women and men both say positive pro black things about each other, so why is it wrong for IR people to have pride and interest in dating and marrying and loving only those of the opposite race or of different racial backgrounds.

if your parents had a right to love only black and others have a right to date and marry all white, then it is our choice and RIGHT to love and date and marry people we find attractive to us.

gay people like you choose to love people of the same sex, which i might find ridiculous and disgusting but I am not attacking you for it. so keep your gay love to yourself and we will keep our IR love to ourselves and on our website for IRs

there are plenty of all black sites Bill--you should check out www.blackplanet.com or www.blacknet.com where they are anti-IR and they are pro black. so if they can have their love choices so can we,

go away troll

time for troll alert

 

Please try reading my posts again, tucker.

 

I read it and the post you just gave, which tried to defend your racist first comments. If you dont think we have the right to pick strickly opposite race people for mates, perhaps you should first go talk to your segregated all black people or segregated whites and tell them first before you make comments about our lifestyle--especially someone who practices a different lifestyle than the norm

again this website is for white women and black men, not black men and black women or black men and white men

 

tucker, I was totally kidding about the gaying out thing.

Tucker, you should learn how to pick up on sarcasm and how to read.

I don't think white women like men who can't read, tucker.

Or do they?

I sure as hell wouldn't know. Fill me in, tucker.

 

nah sure you can get filled in somewhere else.

think you should reread your response to what others were saying, and no where did you make it sarcastic--so no one would know.

and since you cant tell the difference between the rights of IR people to love whatever race they find attractive, while touting your all black race, then it seems you're the only non reader, or poorly public school educated all black in the room

 

tucker, I'm going to end this line of conversation as it is getting unpleasant.

 

dont come in attacking our people and we will be totally cool bro! we dont come into pro black sites talking that racial supremacy crap and we dont tolerate it here

this is white women black men .com

 

tucker, you have wildly misunderstood me. I pointed out my Africanness just as a way of introduction. I don't think that shit matters in the slightest.

 

#1"It's the ones who seek out interracial relationships because of some perverted racial fetish that freak me out"

#2"Everything is wrong when people seek it out."


I am trying to understand what bill is trying to convey, if you read the first quote he has No problem with IR, it is only when people do it for fetish type reasons
(blackbull, cuckolding, or whatever demeaning things people make up).OK!
Now with the second quote, I do not agree with bill. Because I am attracted to, and prefer black men, I do seek out black men. Not like a stakeout per say, but I rarely notice white men when I am out and about.
So bill, do you find it wrong that I "seek out" black men in that manner? How does something develop naturally, unless you don't first seek it out and find it?
Please explain.....

 

Bill, whether you're kidding about your dating nothing but guys or not, you can't escape the logic you presented with that "chasing amy" example. If you want to put that example out there, logically you should be dating both guys and girls, otherwise you're being "closed minded", and "limiting your options", which is what you criticize us for...

Be careful of self-righteousness & "mushy thinking"...

 

I want to add one thing to this conversation .... Bill, sarcasm is hard to see in written word. It takes inflection you can hear in written words. Written words are taken at face value. Therefore if you jest is saying you are gay .... we don't see it.
Say it like it is.
Oh and by the way tuck ... I rather like black planet and have my own page there as well.
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totally all, thanks. Bill was either not explaining himself very well or he was here just winding us up.

again, all I say is, it is none of Bill's business nor anyone elses for that matter who YOU or I or anyone dates, marries and for whatever reason.

if someone wants to date paraplegics in wheelchairs because they find that sexy, well? as long at it isnt some sick control or immorally gross thing, I am totally cool with it.

if bill is into guys, hey, as long as he doesnt try to push that sin on me, i am ok

 

says it all here.

 

Wow, you just put us in our place, didn't you? :roll: I guess we all should stop posting on this site, and the webmaster should just shut it down, since it's dedicated to white women and black men. Real ingenius by the way, Bill. Oh, you really got us, didn't you? And, thanks for taking the time to sign up any way.

 

I find it extremely hysterical that people who have issues against bm/ww dating actually signed up here.