Kirstie Alley and her new boyfriend

GirlieGirl74 said:
When you dated her, did you worry about promoting the stereotype or did you not care what other people thought?
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No but I did get a lot of shit for it since it wasn't what I normally did. But I will say this we would have lasted if she didn't lose weight my eyes would have wandered and I wouldn't have been happy.
 
MrFantastic said:
Woman finding that combo is like finding a white tiger in Austrailia.
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I think that combo is in the Miss Ireland thread, if I adopted the way you guys seem to think. I think she could find a better looking BM, but I guess women are less shallow than men.
 
Brittney said:
Well, that's the impression I've always sensed whenever this topic is discussed. It reads like it's all the woman's fault and like "that ugly disgusting white bitch slob is making us black men look bad" heh. And the black man is just an innocent, helpless victim who has no control over who he chooses to be with and it's all the racists' fault for making the black man think he's undeserving and unworthy of what ALL black men and ALL of society agree is beautiful. Like all black men are super duper perfect and only deserve what EVERYONE agrees is the very very best and beyond. I'm not saying BM shouldn't get the best they can have. But it doesn't feel like we're talking about what is individually best for each individual BM. Just that they all deserve the best the world has to offer, no matter what he looks like, or what standard HE is. That's the impression I get. And I don't agree with that.
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Neither do I but you're sounding really insecure right now. If it has nothing to do with you personally why are you worrying about it. A strong woman would be secure enough in herself to know she can get whatever she wants.
 
Brittney said:
I think that combo is in the Miss Ireland thread, if I adopted the way you guys seem to think. I think she could find a better looking BM, but I guess women are less shallow than men.
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Well duh lol. Btw show me three more examples and let's note that happened outside the US
 
Loki said:
Thank you both for the kind words, this is a very complex issue, Tamstrong makes very good points as well. Glad to see differing viewpoints being discussed in a civil and intelligent manner.
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Gotta to agree, Dre and Tam making great points without disrespecting each other. Both have valid points. I am surprised the Newyorker did not resort to name calling in here, lol
 
MrFantastic said:
No but I did get a lot of shit for it since it wasn't what I normally did. But I will say this we would have lasted if she didn't lose weight my eyes would have wandered and I wouldn't have been happy.
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You got to be true to yourself. I was just curious why you would even start something with her if you feel so strongly against it. Sometimes things in life happen, and what we have planned for ourselves doesn't always happen. I've often found that some of the best things in my life didn't come in the package that I thought that it would. I'm just glad that I didn't close my eyes to the possibility. ;)
 
MrFantastic said:
Neither do I but you're sounding really insecure right now. If it has nothing to do with you personally why are you worrying about it. A strong woman would be secure enough in herself to know she can get whatever she wants.
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I'm not really worried about it, I just don't get it, and I don't like not getting things. And I do have a problem with double standards when I see them.
I think it's weird you're asking me if it has nothing to do with me why am I worrying about it, when that's what we're all trying to ask guys who are worrying about who other BM are with.
 
Loki said:
Thank you both for the kind words, this is a very complex issue, Tamstrong makes very good points as well. Glad to see differing viewpoints being discussed in a civil and intelligent manner.
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Thank you, Loki. I appreciate that. I guess it's obvious both of us are passionate about the subject. ;)
 
GirlieGirl74 said:
You got to be true to yourself. I was just curious why you would even start something with her if you feel so strongly against it. Sometimes things in life happen, and what we have planned for ourselves doesn't always happen. I've often found that some of the best things in my life didn't come in the package that I thought that it would. I'm just glad that I didn't close my eyes to the possibility. ;)
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You're right. I actually tried it out because of something Espy said to me once(thanks for the stalker Esp lol) and while we were together I was really happy with her but I looked past the weight I wasn't happy with it and being 100 percent honest as I always am we wouldn't have made it past summer because of it
 
Brittney said:
I'm not really worried about it, I just don't get it, and I don't like not getting things. And I do have a problem with double standards when I see them.
I think it's weird you're asking me if it has nothing to do with me why am I worrying about it, when that's what we're all trying to ask guys who are worrying about who other BM are with.
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I was being sarcastic ma. But it's not a double standard since we're acknowleding that ir game is concerned the women usually have better choices. How's that a jab at you?
 
MrFantastic said:
Well duh lol. Btw show me three more examples and let's note that happened outside the US
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You're asking the wrong person for more examples. I don't even own a TV or follow celebrity gossip and stuff or who everyone else is dating unless I see it on this site. So I wouldn't even know where to begin. But I don't know if celebrity couples should represent all US couples anyway. But if I happen to see any examples, I will remember to post them in here. Just for you! Because I know I'm right, damnit! LoL

I'll give you one twofer. You say that other races don't do it and also here's an example of an ugly ass dude with a beautiful woman. J-Lo and that Marc dude. WTF is goin' on there? LoL
 
Brittney said:
I'm not really worried about it, I just don't get it, and I don't like not getting things. And I do have a problem with double standards when I see them.
I think it's weird you're asking me if it has nothing to do with me why am I worrying about it, when that's what we're all trying to ask guys who are worrying about who other BM are with.
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Exactly! If he can fall in love with a fat white girl, why question why other black men are doing the same thing?:confused:
 
Brittney said:
I'm not really worried about it, I just don't get it, and I don't like not getting things. And I do have a problem with double standards when I see them.
I think it's weird you're asking me if it has nothing to do with me why am I worrying about it, when that's what we're all trying to ask guys who are worrying about who other BM are with.
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Ka-Boom! There it is:-)
 
Brittney said:
I think that combo is in the Miss Ireland thread, if I adopted the way you guys seem to think. I think she could find a better looking BM, but I guess women are less shallow than men.
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To be fair to fellas, me and Karma have said the dude is not handsome at all. Miss Ireland is way out of his league, he is lucky he got her.
 
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Damn 38 pages. I hate coming into threads all late. :(

I'm all for the cougars and of course IR dating, but that's an odd pairing.
 
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