There are a lot of relationships where there this occurs.
and i mean the white person says nigger and mean nigger. no this semantically confused play on the word but the meaning directly connected with slavery and Jim Crow etc. Yet these people still remain friendly.
Time, politics, economics and tolerance has lead to a sort of watered down acceptance of the words usage by white people. I hear white people and black people make the comment about the usage in rap music and that is no excuse for any white person to contort their lips to form that word. But they often do and that the way it is.
I've learned that it does matter what someone says or does its what you are doing that matters.
All of the sudden we have all these latter day "black leaders" and "social champions" swarming out of the wood work because some inept actor attempting comedy can't take the heat as it were. I mean we got problems with education, employment, and on and on but Jesse Jackson is going to have this fool on trying to scramble to save what little career he has left.
add this one instance to the million of instances when this has and still is occurring in this country,Latin America, the Middle East, Europe, Asia and yes AFRICA.
I'm not saying we should go out to prove the whole world wrong about black people, no. We should be living to prove to ourselves and our community that we can maintain and sustain the health, wealth and happiness of our people.
and if you ain't down with making sure we as a community progress grow and become strong then what are you down for?