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No do not easily assume so..

christine dubois said:
you are extremely fixed on race/nationality. Would you just take this out of your mind and think about men and women....
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No do not easily assume so christine-I am however Fixed on reality.

We live in a Real world and although you ask me not to be fixed on race/nationality (which I am not I assure you) others are.

Your words need to echo in their minds because people out there Do Not always tend to see men and women as you and I do but some do tend to still see.

Black and White.

A reality than none of us can ever dismiss.:smt109
 
Sin Mari said:
You do realise that you're posting this thread on a site that is for people who are either in interracial relationships or want to be, don't you? I mean...this topic may make sense on a different site, but to post this on this site is ridiculous. If we'd sworn off black men, we wouldn't be anywhere near this forum.
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Close thread.
 
ILoveYouWhiteWomen said:
No do not easily assume so christine-I am however Fixed on reality.

We live in a Real world and although you ask me not to be fixed on race/nationality (which I am not I assure you) others are.

Your words need to echo in their minds because people out there Do Not always tend to see men and women as you and I do but some do tend to still see.

Black and White.

A reality than none of us can ever dismiss.:smt109
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All the people on this forum know that, be aware of it. We all have to fight our own small wars, we are all busy with our jobs of convincing. But believe me

-to generalize people
-to mention differences
-to separate people in nationalities

isn't the solution.

Find similarities, accept people with their mistakes and try to be an example for others.


ohhh.. and stop to act like a teacher, we are all adults
 
ILoveYouWhiteWomen said:

That's is exactly the kind of opinion I want to hear


You need to apply your comments about what is "ridiculous" to the white woman who has given up on Black men because of a previous encounter and believe me they are out there.

So...

Posting this topic is meant for them to think differently that regardless of the past they can find another Black man again and not just give up on a whole race.:smt084
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They are not on this forum. That's the whole point. You're addressing a group of people who do not exist on this forum.
I mean, geezuz, this is like giving a talk to a group of die-hard vegetarians about why they should stop eating meat. :smt095
 
I am not a teacher...

christine dubois said:
All the people on this forum know that, be aware of it. We all have to fight our own small wars, we are all busy with our jobs of convincing. But believe me

-to generalize people
-to mention differences
-to separate people in nationalities

isn't the solution.

Find similarities, accept people with their mistakes and try to be an example for others.


ohhh.. and stop to act like a teacher, we are all adults
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I am not a teacher...I am a helper

I am not a fighter...I am a lover

I am not a generalizer...I am a specifier

I am not mentioning differences...I am mentioning real life experiences.

I am not here to highlight a problem...I am here to say that a solution has already been found for the problem.

And that solution is to not give up on others just because of the wrongs of the one.

And by the way...people on this forum may know about what I speak but guess what....

There are more people outside of the forum than on it and they must hear from others how sensible they think in comparison to how they might think instead and I am glad for the good opinions and thoughts that we have that are so far here.:smt023
 
Actually...

Sin Mari said:
They are not on this forum. That's the whole point. You're addressing a group of people who do not exist on this forum.
I mean, geezuz, this is like giving a talk to a group of die-hard vegetarians about why they should stop eating meat. :smt095
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True you have a point but did you know that this topic is already being seen on the internet and nonmembers can actually view its contents.

As said I like the good opinions of others. Thank you for them.

Actually some feel this is a "battle" when I never said so. How they came to that conclusion is beyond my understanding but as the saying goes-to each his own. Nevertheless, I was simply asking a question to find out how others think. How others perceive and interpret my question is up to them but in the whole scenario of events it was only just a question.

P.S. I am not vegetarian. I consider myself to be an omnivore instead.:smt023
 
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ILoveYouWhiteWomen said:
True you have a point but did you know that this topic is already being seen on the internet and nonmembers can actually view its contents.

As said I like the good opinions of others. Thank you for them.

Actually some feel this is a "battle" when I never said so. How they came to that conclusion is beyond my understanding but as the saying goes-to each his own. Nevertheless, I was simply asking a question to find out how others think. How others perceive and interpret my question is up to them but in the whole scenario of events it was only just a question.

P.S. I am not vegetarian. I consider myself to be an omnivore instead.:smt023
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I didn't say you were a vegetarian, it was an analogy. FFS. :|
 
Oh good god. With the bolding, the underlining, the large fonting... and the uber-naive emoting... I may just have found someone more annoying than Dark Knight. :smt081

This is like a little pea-penny penguin preaching to the big black gospel choir.

Dude, your "expressiveness" makes my eyeballs ache.

*goes back to blackbull's crazy threads*
 
saintaugusta said:
Oh good god. With the bolding, the underlining, the large fonting... and the uber-naive emoting... I may just have found someone more annoying than Dark Knight. :smt081

This is like a little pea-penny penguin preaching to the big black gospel choir.

Dude, your "expressiveness" makes my eyeballs ache.

*goes back to blackbull's crazy threads*
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lol...exactly the vision I have...:smt043
 
saintaugusta said:
Oh good god. With the bolding, the underlining, the large fonting... and the uber-naive emoting... I may just have found someone more annoying than Dark Knight. :smt081

This is like a little pea-penny penguin preaching to the big black gospel choir.

Dude, your "expressiveness" makes my eyeballs ache.

*goes back to blackbull's crazy threads*
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What does this have to do with any choir anyway I wonder?

pea-penny penguin? Say what? Who told you penguins can preach? LOL

Sorry your eyeballs hurt.

Mines don't.

No Matter the font has already been changed.
 
TheHuntress said:
I KNOW!!! I hate it! My students used to say that shit and it pissed me of constantly.
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I can understand children saying it, but some of the so-called educated guys on this board insist on using the term or are completely oblivious (I'm not sure which is worse)... it's like, how could you grow up, get some sort of an education, have a decent job, and never learn that "mines" is not a word?

Someone says it, and I immediately picture them as a 6 year old.
 
I am glad however though that the ladies on this forum have the maturity to still keep on liking Black men.

I think you all deserve an applause for that.
 
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