Have you ever stayed home with little ones? Mothers often can't even use the bathroom or take a shower in peace, much less work out. Even when kids nap, we use that time to get stuff done we can't when they're awake. I know being a stay-at-home mom looks like a cakewalk to someone who has never done it but as any mom who has will tell you, its not.
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Have you ever stayed home with little ones? Mothers often can't even use the bathroom or take a shower in peace, much less work out. Even when kids nap, we use that time to get stuff done we can't when they're awake. I know being a stay-at-home mom looks like a cakewalk to someone who has never done it but as any mom who has will tell you, its not.
APPIAH
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Newsflash, 'no snitching' isn't a Black thing. That's insulting to Blacks.
Yes, I know there are phones and police in Ghana - I don't know any African country that doesn't have both, sheesh, but you missed my point which was Ghana is a Black country and I doubt they would claim what you said which is 'it's a thing "only Blacks understand".
Do thugs glorify it in rap? Yeah. Do certain sections of a community where crime is rampant keep silent, sadly yes. But as a whole, Black people DO report crimes, and DON'T understand the stop snitching mentality. How can you? If a 3yr-old is shot and you see it, are you going to stay silent? Not in the Black community where I live. I guess in Ghana then, the inclination is to stay silent. I stand corrected.
I used the Mafia example to show you its not a 'color' thing - it's across al racial/cultural boards, it's nothing new and it's abhorrent and it's SHAMEFUL.
In fact, what race is this?
I guess since you're Black Appiah, you "understood" why no-one snitched on a child rapist at Penn State? Or why a Cardinal didn't snitch on a Pedophile priest?
Bottom line, it's NOT 'SNITCHING' to report a crime you see. Only idiots get tricked into thinking it is, or "understand" it, but last time I checked, Black people aren't idiots.
And pertaining it to members here who report as you did, if they do, so what. That's their prerogative. I personally don't engage in it because nothing much exchanged here truly offends me (to be frank I like to insult back just as much as I get it). But not all people think like me, and you have to respect their reactions. Again, Webbie has final discretion on what's offensive - not us.
Lastly...my sarcastic "ouch, is this schooling you? Sorry" was again mocking your earlier obstinacy that no-one (female?) can ever "teach' you anything.
IDK, your responses thus far have me thinking you suffer from "literal syndrome" where you can't detect sarcasm or mocking. (I just made that name up - please don't take it literally). So I'll stop....maybe. :smt061
I am not say any woman cant teach me anything i meant YOU in particular. Somehow rooting for marines who pee on corpses informed my decision about your inability to school me or anyone for that matter. Dont make this a gender thing. Got it "maite"? Another neg rep on my way i guess, keep it coming guys.
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Bliss
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No one can 'school" you because you CAN'T read. Rooting for? Show me or shush it. I don't think what they did was CRIMINAL, got it? Again, as I said, what they did was classless/in poor taste, but if you want to me feel sorry for the Taliban and call for our Marine's heads like you have....uh, no!
Bliss
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LOL @ DK thinking mom's have way more time through out the day to look good.
I guess he probably this is how every mom-to-be should look like, too...
Wonder if all Moms and M2B's get an assistant, too. (and hairdresser, stylist, make-up artist...etc...)
APPIAH
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There is nothing worse than a fat person blaming childbirth or any other thing with the exception of one on medical grounds as reason for gaining weight waay after childbirth. The are ordinary women who have shed their baby weight after childbirth by working hard to stay in shape and not being lazy and eating late and not doing any exercise at all. Those who have been fat from birth i might understand but those who were skinny and have let themselves go have no excuse except medical. If you want to stay fat stay fat but dont come up with some cock and bull story about age or childbirth being the factor. Its just lame.
Bliss
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The Dark King
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Um where did I say stay at home mom? I said stay at home wife. Big difference. And to further elaborate a lot of these women who require a man with money usually get a nanny and a cleaning lady who comes by two to three times a week. So why can't they spend hours at the gym daily?
And to answer Ches yes I've stayed home with little ones. When I was 15 my aunt hired me for an entire summer to take care of my cousin and that shit was tough to be honest taking her to the park and playing with her kept me incredibly active even more so when her sister came along two years later. Small kids are tiring as fuck and that's when I was a teenager but around age four to five you can pop in a barney tape and they usually sit still for a couple of hours.
And to answer Ches yes I've stayed home with little ones. When I was 15 my aunt hired me for an entire summer to take care of my cousin and that shit was tough to be honest taking her to the park and playing with her kept me incredibly active even more so when her sister came along two years later. Small kids are tiring as fuck and that's when I was a teenager but around age four to five you can pop in a barney tape and they usually sit still for a couple of hours.
You're right -now my bad.
True about the Barney tape, but not ideal for the child. My son wasn't content with that for too long. Hated the playpen too.
I am really thankful that I had the opportunity to be a SAH mom for 8 years. I was the most content with myself and what I was doing then. I was alot more creative and I truy enjoyed all the domestic tasks. Being married to the guy I married wasn't what I had hoped it would be, but being a mom and homemaker was.
The Dark King
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Your last paragraph sums it all up for me. I don't get how Elin gets to lord being a mom over his head when she got the greatest gift period. Time to bond with the kids. Him working made that possible and I don't think its fair to be able to throw that in someones face later.
orejon4
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That supposedly 'plus-sized' model is not that big. Kirstie Alley is what I would consider an attractive plus-sized woman. And Amber Rose's body approximates perfection. The only way skinny is hot to me is if it's from fitness, endurance sports, etc. I am NOT a fan of concentration camp/heroin junkie chic.
The Dark King
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Who is lol
ewww
Kirstie Alley and the word "attractive" should never be used in the same sentence.
She kept going after DWTS weight loss. This was her a few months ago. You may have to find a new plus size woman to use as example.
orejon4
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She kept going after DWTS weight loss. This was her a few months ago. You may have to find a new plus size woman to use as example.
Iggy, you might want to look at JordanC's post above before you issue such a sweeping statement, lol.ewww
Kirstie Alley and the word "attractive" should never be used in the same sentence.
JordanC, I had no idea. Oops, I stand corrected.
Well, that makes two of us.
The Dark King
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Lol it's not physics its biology which is true but here's one thing to be greatful for. Women can just eat less or just eat better and walk 5 times a week and get away with being thin to satisfy their attraction requirements. A man has to do all that and be muscular as well and that shit ain't remotely easy.
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The Dark King
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That's because you need to workout more often
Lol true
But be real to have that sculpted body women drool over it takes a lot more than three days a week on the eliptical lol
We drool over it but I bet if you asked the average woman if she requires that in a man, she would say no.
The Dark King
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Well I don't require a girl who looks like a cover model but damn it if I wouldn't be happy as hell if I had a girl who looked like that. Besides girls around my age kind of do. You keep forgetting women in your age group are of an entirely different mindset.
Even when I was your age and younger, I didn't require it. Most of the guys I dated were soccer players (coincidence), so they were fit but none of them spent time in a weight room. My ex came home from AOCS all buff and it was nice, but he didn't keep himself that way and I didn't care. Imo, I think alot of people are drawn to fit and/or athletic rather than what we see in the threads on here. Yes? No?