Man Hits Woman - Was he Right ? Or Wrong ?

medullaslashin said:
Lots of people in this thread have repeatedly pointed out that it's not okay for anyone to hit anyone -- & they've also pointed out that that is not the issue here.

They've also pointed out that Mixon could've handled it in many more productive ways, including having her arrested. (Would having her arrested mean that her hitting him is "okay" or no?)

Gotta argue real points, bro. What are they? You look disingenuous when you argue false points, put words in to others mouths, etc.

Anyway, at least we're getting to the crux of it. It's not about "self defense" & it's not about some epidemic of women out there assaulting men -- it's really about her having "privilege" as a woman, and for that, his full wrath was righteous in the minds of the guys backing him.

That is what it's really about. heh - I think this thread should be merged with the one about women having unfair advantage in the dating game. :D

Wonder where the OP from that discussion would be on this issue...? o_O (and why?)
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Who the fuck said there was an epidemic of women hitting men even though half of all domestic abuse situations women are the perps
Every single one of my posts were based on this situation.
Like I said we can agree to disagree. I don't want anyone putting their hands on me period the end. People seem to be far more civilized when they understand they can get it too.
 
RaiderLL said:
I don't expect you to trust the system in any case, major or minor, that's the point that some of you are too hard headed to get.
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So basically just take any and everything white people dish out because there are no fair trials we're guilty always.
You're making a compelling case to just leave
 
The Dark King said:
So basically just take any and everything white people dish out because there are no fair trials we're guilty always.
You're making a compelling case to just leave
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Before this thread started some days ago, did you think fair trials existed here for bm?? Did you not recognize that the cards would be stacked against you in amerikkka, if you were involved in a disturbance call?? I know you're smarter than that so stop playing stupid. This country is not fair, it's not just and we're not all treated as equals. Those facts are proven to us each and every day so why you would choose your actions as if you lived in a perfect world is beyond me. You're hurting no one but yourself by living in a false reality.
 
RaiderLL said:
I fully support a white supremecist system. I'm so glad you get me.
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They know good and well that if Mixon were a white dude we'd all have the same positions as now.

Now, if mixon were a white cop and the chick had been black, some positions might change. Mine would stay the same: the reaction was excessive.

I think Mixon has his head straight too, now that he's seeing what this could cost him... which is why he injected the dubious line about the gay guy calling him "nigger" with their black friend sitting right next to them. :rolleyes: (Has the friend said anything about that?) He also says something to the effect that "it felt like a guy hitting him". :oops: Looks like he knows what he did was excessive and even unjustified, so he's adding those gender & racial elements to explain his over-reaction.
 
The Dark King said:
I brought race into it because Loki and Raider kept reminding me the rules are different for black men and we just gotta take it
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Not quite what I was trying to get across TDK, my message is not for BM to just take abuse and feel powerless, but to respond in the intelligent way by using the legal system in their favor rather than using physical violence in a non-lethal altercation with a woman. The woman in the video had been arrested before, there are certainly some women (and men) out there that would intentionally instigate and provoke a physical fight in the hopes of securing a pay-day in civil court, perhaps she knew exactly what she was doing when she first shoved him. So why give them exactly what they are looking for?

BM can fight back by using the law, rather than placing themselves at potential legal risk by retaliating with violence as we are seeing with Mixon. Just read that his coach has now come out and said that he regrets only suspending him for a year, and if he had it to do over he would have kicked him off the team all together. Now think about how many NFL gm's heard that comment from a well respected college coach (Stoops), think that will affect his draft status? All because he let his emotions get the better of him.
 
medullaslashin said:
They know good and well that if Mixon were a white dude we'd all have the same positions as now.

Now, if mixon were a white cop and the chick had been black, some positions might change. Mine would stay the same: the reaction was excessive.

I think Mixon has his head straight too, now that he's seeing what this could cost him... which is why he injected the dubious line about the gay guy calling him "nigger" with their black friend sitting right next to them. :rolleyes: (Has the friend said anything about that?) He also says something to the effect that "it felt like a guy hitting him". :oops: Looks like he knows what he did was excessive and even unjustified, so he's adding those gender & racial elements to explain his over-reaction.
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Very well said.
 
medullaslashin said:
They know good and well that if Mixon were a white dude we'd all have the same positions as now.
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LMAFAO, not quite

This white boy was never charged:



And look at this, the man was spat on by this women, he slapped her back, and rightfully so, she got arrested instead. Now was he wrong for slapping her back, even though she only spat on him?

 
MightyLighty said:
LMAFAO, not quite

This white boy was never charged:



And look at this, the man was spat on by this women, he slapped her back, and rightfully so, she got arrested instead. Now was he wrong for slapping her back, even though she only spat on him?

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In the first video I was not able to find any updates, if the girl did not bring charges against him, it's not likely the state would pursue charges with a reluctant plaintiff.

In the second video it would seem that the state of South Carolina was satisfied that a slap was a reasonable response to the assault and battery of the spitting (yes spitting on someone is in fact battery). The crazy lady did not seem to have any serious or long lasting injuries from the slap (which is taken into account when determining if a response is excessive). This result further illustrates my earlier points about different jurisdictions having different standards and interpretations. Laws are NOT uniform state by state, sometimes it could be in your favor and sometimes not given various situations.
 
Loki said:
In the first video I was not able to find any updates, if the girl did not bring charges against him, it's not likely the state would pursue charges with a reluctant plaintiff.

In the second video it would seem that the state of South Carolina was satisfied that a slap was a reasonable response to the assault and battery of the spitting (yes spitting on someone is in fact battery). The crazy lady did not seem to have any serious or long lasting injuries from the slap (which is taken into account when determining if a response is excessive). This result further illustrates my earlier points about different jurisdictions having different standards and interpretations. Laws are NOT uniform state by state, sometimes it could be in your favor and sometimes not given various situations.
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But on what grounds could she brings charges? Do you see anything wrong that he did in that video?
 
Hey raider, do you think this is cool:


Look the boyfriend is clearly the 'smaller' person in the situation, wears the sympathy for him raider, huh?
 
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MightyLighty said:
But on what grounds could she brings charges? Do you see anything wrong that he did in that video?
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Speaking strictly about procedure, She could make a case for excessive force, it would be up to the prosecutor if they felt like they had enough to go on based on the video.
 
Beasty said:
How so? I laugh at all stupid people. I'm laughing at you right now so how am I a hypocrite? Lol
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That kid has been laughed out of this conversation more times than I can count yet he keeps coming back lol. Can't even feel sorry for that kind of individual o_O
 
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