Mechad Brooks & Serinda Swan

[The Dark King]

What part of NY are you from again?
and no one even came remotely close to saying Trixie wasn't cute or that all the women on here need to be 22 year old bombshells. All that was pointed out was a certain consistancy in thinking and behavior. For the most part as far as this site goes the American women open to dating/settling down with a bm are far removed from their prime and/or already have kids. Where as many of the under 30 crowd who frequent this site who are on point and in shape are either European Austrailian or Canadian.
Not criticizing just observing and before anyone cares to comment. Keep in mind if I said all the women were beautiful and intelligent there wouldn't be a peep even though some have proven not be. Just saying...

I'm surprised guys feel this way. I can't speak for the European women here, but I think in regards to America it could even be the other way around sometimes.

If I lived in a racist town where everyone would look down on me for dating a black man, I'd probably have come to this site a lot sooner just for an outlet, to find someone who could understand my preferences.

But I lived in an area where interracial dating was largely seen as acceptable (not that I haven't been insulted before, just a lot less than I hear others have to endure), and I had plenty of friends to talk to about my experiences with dating black men. My friends were all eager to listen, and I was eager to tell my stories. So I didn't really need to look online for resources because my social circle was so accepting of my preferences.

Now that I've moved to a new city, I don't have that consistent group of friends to chat/gossip about sex and romance with. At least, we can't get together every single day or week. I'm making new friends here pretty fast, but if I had never moved I never would have come to this site.

Also, I think TreePixie is very beautiful, and I must assume you guys have some sort of unrealistic standard set for what you want here. It's like you're expecting the women here to all be 22 year old blondes just drooling over black penises, or something. This is real life, guys. We come in all shapes, sizes, and ages, and our needs are a bit more complex than that.

I hope I look as good as Pixie as I age. Combined with her confidence and self worth, I think any man she meets is lucky to have her.

 

[bodhesatva]

And for the record I think that PLENTY of young, hot WW in 2011-12 consider black men just another viable race of man that they can date. If a brother carries himself well and acts accomplished, the world is his oyster. If he wants to act like a no-good thug, high-quality women will shun him.

We can't let the microcosm of one message board or the Internet dictate how we perceive things to be.

Exactly! And most of these girls aren't coming to sites like "white women black men .com," because for them it's not a fetish or a weird thing that needs to be discussed under the table, just something that happens.

I have several friends that fit that description. Even I fit that description until I moved away and had fewer people to talk to. I think more American women are willing to date black men than you realize, it's just that we often don't make a big deal of it, go on dating websites looking only for black men, etc.

If you're looking to be treated as just another guy -- not better or worse because you happen to be black -- then I think lots of American women are available to you. If you're looking for women who exclusively date black men or think of black men as superior, then yes, I think the pool of women who feel that way is pretty small.

 

[The Dark King]

I know, I almost didnt write anything because I didn't want to insult her. It's not something any of us like to talk about, but you guys dug the knife in pretty deep here.

I think Pixie looks 10-15 years younger than she actually is. I hope, at any age from now until the end of my life, I can fit that description.

What knife? Please prefer to a specific text where someone insulted this woman. Go ahead i'll wait.

 

[The Dark King]

Well said and very accurate post.

Exactly! And most of these girls aren't coming to sites like "white women black men .com," because for them it's not a fetish or a weird thing that needs to be discussed under the table, just something that happens.

I have several friends that fit that description. Even I fit that description until I moved away and had fewer people to talk to. I think more American women are willing to date black men than you realize, it's just that we often don't make a big deal of it, go on dating websites looking only for black men, etc.

If you're looking to be treated as just another guy -- not better or worse because you happen to be black -- then I think lots of American women are available to you. If you're looking for women who exclusively date black men or think of black men as superior, then yes, I think the pool of women who feel that way is pretty small.

 

[bodhesatva]

Decided not to post this.

 

[bodhesatva]

What knife? Please prefer to a specific text where someone insulted this woman. Go ahead i'll wait.

This is the one that got my blood boiling:

Most do and you are grandma age boo. Sorry.

I think that's pretty mean spirited, Fantastic. I think it's best if we just put this discussion behind us.

If we all agree that there are American white women out there willing to date black men -- millions of them! -- but also agree that racism still exists -- it definitely does, more so in particular areas of the country -- then let's just move on.

 

[The Dark King]

This is the one that got my blood boiling:



I think that's pretty mean spirited, Fantastic. I think it's best if we just put this discussion behind us.

If we all agree that there are American white women out there willing to date black men -- millions of them! -- but also agree that racism still exists -- it definitely does, more so in particular areas of the country -- then let's just move on.

Done and done

 

[Frederick]

I'm surprised guys feel this way. I can't speak for the European women here, but I think in regards to America it could even be the other way around sometimes.

If I lived in a racist town where everyone would look down on me for dating a black man, I'd probably have come to this site a lot sooner just for an outlet, to find someone who could understand my preferences.

But I lived in an area where interracial dating was largely seen as acceptable (not that I haven't been insulted before, just a lot less than I hear others have to endure), and I had plenty of friends to talk to about my experiences with dating black men. My friends were all eager to listen, and I was eager to tell my stories. So I didn't really need to look online for resources because my social circle was so accepting of my preferences.

Now that I've moved to a new city, I don't have that consistent group of friends to chat/gossip about sex and romance with. At least, we can't get together every single day or week. I'm making new friends here pretty fast, but if I had never moved I never would have come to this site.

Also, I think TreePixie is very beautiful, and I must assume you guys have some sort of unrealistic standard set for what you want here. It's like you're expecting the women here to all be 22 year old blondes just drooling over black penises, or something. This is real life, guys. We come in all shapes, sizes, and ages, and our needs are a bit more complex than that.

I hope I look as good as Pixie as I age. Combined with her confidence and self worth, I think any man she meets is lucky to have her.

Unrealistic standard? This is the type of shit that I'm talking about. Y'all act like it's completely insane for a young, decent looking and fit brother who's in his prime to want to date a WW that is his equal. Any time a young brother talks about slim pickings in his age group here, he gets accused of only wanted to date super models. It's like we got to settle for broads 10-20 years older and/or 50+ pounds overweight.

And who the fuck said anything about black dicks? But since you brought it up, I do see plenty of broads chasing after a BM with a "big bulge," but they're usually middle-aged or older and looking to spice things up after their marriage (to a non-BM) has ended.

 

[orejon4]

Great-looking couple!:smt109

 

[TreePixie]

I know, I almost didnt write anything because I didn't want to insult her. It's not something any of us like to talk about, but you guys dug the knife in pretty deep here.

I think Pixie looks 10-15 years younger than she actually is. I hope, at any age from now until the end of my life, I can fit that description.

Bless your heart, hon. That's a lovely thing to say.

 

[TreePixie]

Just like bm who have a hard time finding a job in this economic climate. The problem isn't with the overall outlook of black people as a whole just the way we carry ourselves. I don't think there's an eye roll big enough for your post Trix. I'll remember that next time a hear a woman complain about not getting paid fairly.

I'm specifically speaking romance here, MrF. Not social justice.

 

[TreePixie]

I'm surprised guys feel this way. I can't speak for the European women here, but I think in regards to America it could even be the other way around sometimes.

If I lived in a racist town where everyone would look down on me for dating a black man, I'd probably have come to this site a lot sooner just for an outlet, to find someone who could understand my preferences.

But I lived in an area where interracial dating was largely seen as acceptable (not that I haven't been insulted before, just a lot less than I hear others have to endure), and I had plenty of friends to talk to about my experiences with dating black men. My friends were all eager to listen, and I was eager to tell my stories. So I didn't really need to look online for resources because my social circle was so accepting of my preferences.

Now that I've moved to a new city, I don't have that consistent group of friends to chat/gossip about sex and romance with. At least, we can't get together every single day or week. I'm making new friends here pretty fast, but if I had never moved I never would have come to this site.

Also, I think TreePixie is very beautiful, and I must assume you guys have some sort of unrealistic standard set for what you want here. It's like you're expecting the women here to all be 22 year old blondes just drooling over black penises, or something. This is real life, guys. We come in all shapes, sizes, and ages, and our needs are a bit more complex than that.

I hope I look as good as Pixie as I age. Combined with her confidence and self worth, I think any man she meets is lucky to have her.

You're making me blush. Thank you. It is tough for a woman over 40 in our society to get any respect.

 

[TreePixie]

And who the fuck said anything about black dicks? But since you brought it up, I do see plenty of broads chasing after a BM with a "big bulge," but they're usually middle-aged or older and looking to spice things up after their marriage (to a non-BM) has ended.

On online porn sites, maybe. Reality? By the time a woman is 40, she's usually well aware that penises come in all sizes, shapes and colors. Unless she's an idiot. And if you're hanging around with idiots....I just don't know what to tell you, dear.

 

[The Dark King]

I'm specifically speaking romance here, MrF. Not social justice.

And to believe the two aren't linked shows how out of touch you truly are my friend. To put it in simple terms we all grow up wanting our Cinderellas and prince charmings it's hard to see Tyrone that way if he's never depicted that and when he is depicted he either has a ball in his hand or looks like a guy just as likely to rob a liquor store as he is to write a rap album.
How you're socially thought of shapes how you're thought of romantically. I can't recall one Muslim heart throb and I'm sure there's a lot of good looking Middle Easterners out there.

 

[TreePixie]

And to believe the two are linked shows how out of touch you truly are my friend. To put it in simple terms we all grow up wanting our Cinderellas and prince charmings it's hard to see Turone that way if hrs never depicted that and when he is depicted he either has a ball in his hand or looks like a guy just as likely to rob a liquor store as he is to write a rap album.
How you're socially thought of shapes how you're thought of romantically. I can't recall one Muslim heart throb and I'm sure there's a lot of good looking Middle Easterners out there.

Ahem. Omar Sharif ring a bell, MrF?? Most women are intelligent enough not to judge the people they meet by media portrayals of stereotypes.

 

[The Dark King]

You're making me blush. Thank you. It is tough for a woman over 40 in our society to get any respect.

Really? Another huge eye roll moment. Youth period gets more attention it's not just women who feel it. You're no where near as persecuted as you pretend to be at least not for being a woman.

 

[TreePixie]

Really? Another huge eye roll moment. Youth period gets more attention it's not just women who feel it. You're no where near as persecuted as you pretend to be at least not for being a woman.

Men over 40 are portrayed in our world as powerful exciting and sexy. With rate exceptions, that's not true of women. It's getting a bit more true, until the woman turns 50, then she's "a grandma"

 

[The Dark King]

Ahem. Omar Sharif ring a bell, MrF?? Most women are intelligent enough not to judge the people they meet by media portrayals of stereotypes.

No they're not. Someone get her cymbal crash because she's telling great jokes over here lol.

If I had a nickel for everytime a ww clutched her purse or locked her car door when me and my friends walked by I'd be able to fly you out to NY so you could do your routine at Caroline's. Omg I'm actually tearing up.

 

[The Dark King]

Men over 40 are portrayed in our world as powerful exciting and sexy. With rate exceptions, that's not true of women. It's getting a bit more true, until the woman turns 50, then she's "a grandma"

That's only if a man has money. Truthfully from what I've seen after 35 a mans desirability is proportionate to his success. It's even harder to find a woman if your money isn't straight. A six pack and big dick just don't cut it unless your young. So please stop pretending women are the only ones who have to deal with age. Smh

 

[TreePixie]

That's only if a man has money. Truthfully from what I've seen after 35 a mans desirability is proportionate to his success. It's even harder to find a woman if your money isn't straight. A six pack and big dick just don't cut it unless your young. So please stop pretending women are the only ones who have to deal with age. Smh

I did not pretend that women are the only ones who have to deal with age. I said "women" because I cannot speak to the experience of being a man. Media portrayals of women, however, are a lot more age-specific as to what is acceptable.

It's hard to find a man if your money isn't straight, either. Most men aren't going to want to take on an unemployed, debt ridden partner either.