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[nobledruali]

Well, ppl have the feeling that if they do that elsewhere, they are not judged as hard or looked at the way they would be if they did it here...plus you have the vacation factor, the freedom feeling, the beach, the erotic environment...
And really, what does it mean to give BM in America a chance?? hopefully BM in America are not asking for that kind of "chance"...to sleep with some older frustrated WW ???

No problem with older frustrated WW or the BM who sleep with them...I did it once in my crazy years, and actually found it fun...but it isn`t something any young BM should forward to!! :roll:

If it's not something that a young black American should look forward to, then neither is it something that a young black Jamaican should look forward to. I'm sure Jamaican men have just as high standards of women as American men do.

But hey, I'm not just talking about older women, Jreminator. Even though the particular article in question is mostly talking about older women, there are many younger women doing the same things down there. They probably don't have to pay for it, though.

What I'm talking about is the much larger picture. The much larger picture has less to do with the prostitution with an old woman scenario. Why should someone have to travel that far to avoid "being judged?" I'm a black man in America; we are always being judged here. But I feel no need to travel to Amsterdam just to hide from ignorance in America. If I like white women (or any other women), I will do it in Atlanta and I will do it in Paris, too. I'm not saying that people shouldn't enjoy their vacations nor am I saying that they shouldn't have sex while on vacation, but I do think it's hypocritical to want to party with the blacks in Jamaica and then come back to America harboring the same racist attitudes and fears towards blacks that you had when you left.

Hope that clears things up for you.

Peace.
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"The recipe for perpetual ignorance is: Be satisfied with your opinions and content with your knowledge.” - Elbert Hubbard

I know that's real and let's not be fooled because just because you have a "thing" or preferences FOR men or women of another race/ethnicity doesn't mean that you don't or can't still have racial prejudices as well! I say that about all races and genders.

 

[Boll Onin]

Some of the most prejudiced people I've met are those who are dating outside of their ethnic groups.

and I've Asian female/white male who said the most vile things about every Latinos and blacks.

White man/black woman where he simply just went off on black people and she just nodded and I've seen it with black men/ white women where the man who is dating a white woman would just talk about white folks like she wasn't even in the room. I've met a white woman like that as well.

When i asked the black guy why he would say the things he said being that he was with a white woman he just said that it was different.

She wasn't like other white people or fill in the ethnic origin. People make excuses for their ignorance and selfishness all of the time.

It's like those missionaries that run half a world a way to help the unfortunate but will step right over the same unfortunate if they were a block away from their home.

 

[LaydeezmanCris]

I've always being a firm believer in the idea that your partner has not much say in your inherent racial tolerance.

 

[Moskvichka]

Some of the most prejudiced people I've met are those who are dating outside of their ethnic groups.

and I've Asian female/white male who said the most vile things about every Latinos and blacks.

White man/black woman where he simply just went off on black people and she just nodded and I've seen it with black men/ white women where the man who is dating a white woman would just talk about white folks like she wasn't even in the room. I've met a white woman like that as well.

When i asked the black guy why he would say the things he said being that he was with a white woman he just said that it was different.

She wasn't like other white people or fill in the ethnic origin. People make excuses for their ignorance and selfishness all of the time.

It's like those missionaries that run half a world a way to help the unfortunate but will step right over the same unfortunate if they were a block away from their home.

Boll Onin I'm so so glad you're posting again... You are such a fascinating person and I picture you as someone older, library goer type... or maybe I'm wrong??? Your posts are very deep and enlightening.

 

[nobledruali]

:arrow: Hey mosiah...love the Dexter Gordon siggy. :wink: Wasn't he married to a white lady :?: I know Charles Mingus & Bird were. :wink:

 

[Boll Onin]

Thanks Moskvichka,

this site is like a drug, every time you think you can step away something is posted that pulls you back in.

 

[SardonicGenie]

Another thing that's hypocritical about the world in general, is the people who talk about 'practicing safe sex' and 'knowing their partner well' here in the states, but doing the exact opposite when they travel overseas.

 

[LaydeezmanCris]

Another thing that's hypocritical about the world in general, is the people who talk about 'practicing safe sex' and 'knowing their partner well' here in the states, but doing the exact opposite when they travel overseas.

Right on the money.