MISS IRELAND dating A NIGERIAN -racists pissed!

lipstick said:
after reading the article this union makes a bit more sense...he moved to ireland with his parents 8 years ago...he and his brother were the only black kids...not alot of black men in ireland?? big fish little pond syndrome...i bet his brother is also dating a beautiful white woman...

it really makes alot of sense when you see women come here from countries that do not have a significant population of black men...black men are in greater demand in places outside of the usa...

location...location...location...

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In that case I need to move to the Caribbean STAT lol.
 
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karmacoma. said:
The reason Seal and Heidi get love from BW is because

a) He's not American
b) She's not American
c) BW on average never found Seal attractive

Compare that to Taye and Idina. Taye went from the black Tom Cruise to a punchline once his relationship with Idina came out. Or Reggie Bush. Or Wesley Snipes. On and on.

Look closer.
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This may be a little off the topic, but I wonder, really wonder why BW would not find Seal attractive. I happen to think he's really beautiful, scars on his face and everything. Of course the accent helps a lot, plus he's tall and has a great body, and seems sweet/romantic. I'd marry him.
Wonder why Heidi thought he was attractive? She could have dated anyone she wanted, and definitely knows beauty being in the model industry...

Again, WHY would BW not think he was attractive - I really want to know.
 
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MrFantastic said:
They'd gobble your ass up in Jamaica
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That's what I've been told lol - I might not ever be heard from again. So it would behoove me to move to the country where the wealthiest black men live, - where would that be?

And I'm not talking rap artists or athletes, so don't say America.
 
Simon Cowell (of Jewish descent) flies into America and cleans out like a bandit in the entertainment industry. Nail Ferguson (of Scottish decedent) flies into
America takes on the lecture circuit with his historical take on economics, and he is also cleaning out. He has been dating an African intellectual, i the controversial Ayaan Hirsi Ali, in-between sorting out his marriage woes.

Simon and Niall can't be questioned as matter of social acceptance.They are in popular culture. But when a black kid, a Nigerian kid moves to Ireland, not even America, all sorts of coded language, even among black people, start emerging, black immigrant, African immigrant, Nigerian immigrant.

And the pop culture conception of the quality of genetic aesthetics start coming into play, and evaluated. Maybe people try to respond to some psychological discomfort, who knows?

Unfortunately, the Irish girl has made her choice. I think that is why most support really, in my opinion. The human decency in most like to respect other people's choices. I used to think that was also an American trait.

APPIAH said:
And some African American brothers too from the look of things so don't blame it on the white man only
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You know many girls, I mean Nigerian girls like darker skinned guys. There is this sense weird sense of feminine quality that most think comes with lighter skinned black men. I know that is different in America. I guess the reality is geography, location does affect her skin (colour ) assets are priced.

saintaugusta said:
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This may be a little off the topic, but I wonder, really wonder why BW would not find Seal attractive. I happen to think he's really beautiful, scars on his face and everything. Of course the accent helps a lot, plus he's tall and has a great body, and seems sweet/romantic. I'd marry him.
Wonder why Heidi thought he was attractive? She could have dated anyone she wanted, and definitely knows beauty being in the model industry...

Again, WHY would BW not think he was attractive - I really want to know.
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So are you saying it's American BW that do not think Seal is attractive because he is too dark and that Nigerians would think he was just great BECAUSE he is dark?

It's weird - I could be wrong, but I always thought a woman would want her man to be darker than her. But to me, darker skin is beautiful anyway so what do I know.
 
Not exactly saying that. That seems too specific. lipstick talked about location, and here I am buttressing her argument that indeed, location, in another sense geography plays a role in what people value. I used Nigeria and America for illustrative purposes and in a general sense.

In a predominantly white community where folks have no racist genes and are liberal people might find a dark skinned man attractive.

saintaugusta said:
So are you saying it's American BW that do not think Seal is attractive because he is too dark and that Nigerians would think he was just great BECAUSE he is dark?

It's weird - I could be wrong, but I always thought a woman would want her man to be darker than her. But to me, darker skin is beautiful anyway so what do I know.
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saintaugusta said:
That's what I've been told lol - I might not ever be heard from again. So it would behoove me to move to the country where the wealthiest black men live, - where would that be?

And I'm not talking rap artists or athletes, so don't say America.
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Were you joking or is there a reason you would want to seek out the wealthiest Black men, as apposed to where the men are most non-judgmental, sincere, caring, family oriented or other qualities important to a relationship?
 
saintaugusta said:
That's what I've been told lol - I might not ever be heard from again. So it would behoove me to move to the country where the wealthiest black men live, - where would that be?

And I'm not talking rap artists or athletes, so don't say America.
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I wasn't. I was referring to doctors and engineers maybe lawyers and bankers too. You ever date ir hang out with bm before?
 
swirlman07 said:
Were you joking or is there a reason you would want to seek out the wealthiest Black men, as apposed to where the men are most non-judgmental, sincere, caring, family oriented or other qualities important to a relationship?
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Haha - mostly kidding of course. I am no gold digger - if you could see where I am sitting right now you definitely would know that. However, if I knew there was a place where a lot of men would find me attractive, were also moderately successful, then I could start with the personality, kindness, sincerity, family-oriented, spiritual stuff and weed them out from there.

I honestly haven't met too many wealthy guys because I hang around my artist friends, musicians, the like. From what I have seen, a lot of wealthy guys do not endear themselves to me with qualities I admire (gentleness, sincerity, survivor mentality, character, spirituality), but then again I haven't been able to travel as much as I would have liked to, to meet men outside of Kentucky (as an adult - being Canadian, I am a little outside of the norm here).

Did not mean to come off as shallow.
 
MrFantastic said:
I wasn't. I was referring to doctors and engineers maybe lawyers and bankers too. You ever date ir hang out with bm before?
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I thought about that after I said "rappers and athletes", but you honestly don't see that too much here in Louisville (black doctors, engineers, lawyers, bankers). At least not in my circles, which I've said are mainly artistic. I'm either not looking in the right places, or need to move to somewhere like Chicago. It's sounding better and better all of the time.
 
naija4real said:
Simon Cowell (of Jewish descent) flies into America and cleans out like a bandit in the entertainment industry. Nail Ferguson (of Scottish decedent) flies into
America takes on the lecture circuit with his historical take on economics, and he is also cleaning out. He has been dating an African intellectual, i the controversial Ayaan Hirsi Ali, in-between sorting out his marriage woes.

Simon and Niall can't be questioned as matter of social acceptance.They are in popular culture. But when a black kid, a Nigerian kid moves to Ireland, not even America, all sorts of coded language, even among black people, start emerging, black immigrant, African immigrant, Nigerian immigrant.

And the pop culture conception of the quality of genetic aesthetics start coming into play, and evaluated. Maybe people try to respond to some psychological discomfort, who knows?

Unfortunately, the Irish girl has made her choice. I think that is why most support really, in my opinion. The human decency in most like to respect other people's choices. I used to think that was also an American trait.
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My brother i have come to know that black Americans say the most vicious and snidest things about Africans waay more than the white people yet they are the first to throw the race card when a white man says something remotely racist so don't be surprised about this African immigrant stuff being said here.:smt025
 
saintaugusta said:
I thought about that after I said "rappers and athletes", but you honestly don't see that too much here in Louisville (black doctors, engineers, lawyers, bankers). At least not in my circles, which I've said are mainly artistic. I'm either not looking in the right places, or need to move to somewhere like Chicago. It's sounding better and better all of the time.
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Or grow up and support yourself
 
MrFantastic said:
Or grow up and support yourself
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That's the plan - I've been divorced for 10 years and on my own for that length of time. I can't expect you to notice but the economy is rough, especially for those in the arts. I have a plan for that as well. That being said, I'm not going to saddle myself with someone who can't pull his own weight.

And I would never marry for less than love, which is why I am still single after leaving my husband 10 years ago. I also got two degrees in the arts, at two different times - I may not have been practical, but I followed my passions. The same holds true for men. It's also true that there are more single 30-somethings in larger cities.
 
APPIAH said:
My brother i have come to know that black Americans say the most vicious and snidest things about Africans waay more than the white people yet they are the first to throw the race card when a white man says something remotely racist so don't be surprised about this African immigrant stuff being said here.:smt025
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LoL, a Nigerian professor of mine told me once "You blk Americans are no different than white ppl, you are the mirror image of white folks", lol.
 
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