glad somebody said this! as i have gotten older, i have learned looking the part. if he was going for the casual look, which is cool, some decent fitting jeans and tee would have worked. and that blazer
but dude lack confidence from the word go. she smelled it a mile away. if she has dated black men, i reckon they were hard around the edges.
to be fair, i think dude could have bounced back from this one if he had more confidence in himself. he needs to have a few of these dates to get it. if he carried himself like he knew he something to offer, he could have gotten different body language from her. for example, she would've still enjoyed the date - even if she was not interested in him, if this makes sense.
i understand why he asked her "does she date brothas?" (though, it doesn't matter if and when an ir couple hits it off) even that seemed forced by him. nothing wrong with asking, just keep it organic: "black men" instead of "brothas"
it could be said that she may not be used to brothers being good/kind to her. how she handled it was classless, though. she will get the benefit of the doubt because she was young. when many are that young doing and saying stupid shit is a regular thing. and, a lot of younger girls get much attention (a lot of it embellished) from dudes and they tend to get arrogant about it.
i hope since then they have gotten their shit together.