Online Dating????

Beasty said:
I think he would have gained some true insight, even if only a little, had he came at her differently.

By approaching her the way he did, he brought out some of her defensiveness and emotions thus biasing the interaction.
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Then why engage me at all especially to the point where it wasn't about me but all bm
 
The Dark King said:
So her saying that's why I don't yall because you're classless along with other bs didn't make her racist?
If I think a white chick is being rude is ok for me to dissemination every white person or just her?

Like I keep saying have preferences that's cool we all have them but is it necessary to belittle and look down on others in the process?
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You called her racist from the beginning, so she could have just been playing along just to piss you off for all we know.

Drawing assumptions isn't going to help you learn anything.

Next time approach it as if you were a social scientist, then you can credit your findings.
 
The Dark King said:
So her saying that's why I don't yall because you're classless along with other bs didn't make her racist?
If I think a white chick is being rude is ok for me to dissemination every white person or just her?

Like I keep saying have preferences that's cool we all have them but is it necessary to belittle and look down on others in the process?
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TDK
You're smart guy, just think critically on this
She had preference and wanted the dating world to know, no offense on that, no big deal, u got ur own preference as well. I would agree with u she was kinda rude at the end and mouthed of ugly shit but u gotta admit u pushed her to a corner, and pressed her button and she became defensive......
 
Beasty said:
You called her racist from the beginning, so she could have just been playing along just to piss you off for all we know.

Drawing assumptions isn't going to help you learn anything.

Next time approach it as if you were a social scientist, then you can credit your findings.
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I would post her profile to make a better case if I didn't think some asshole would make this situation into something more so you could see what sparked this but I hear you.
 
z said:
TDK
You're smart guy, just think critically on this
She had preference and wanted the dating world to know, no offense on that, no big deal, u got ur own preference as well. I would agree with u she was kinda rude at the end and mouthed of ugly shit but u gotta admit u pushed her to a corner, and pressed her button and she became defensive......
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Like i said I get her trying to insult me you guys make sense with that but you black people remarks don't make sense that's racist as fuck
 
The Dark King said:
I would post her profile to make a better case if I didn't think some asshole would make this situation into something more so you could see what sparked this but I hear you.
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No need to see her profile. U were wrong. Period. Its a waste of time ti deal with her .

As z said, u got yours so....
 
The Dark King said:
Me: I never said I needed you to care about my opinion. Let's be honest we'll both forget about this interaction in a few hours.
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It's nearly a full day later and your still talking about this rejection


I know who isn't talking about it tho

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Back in the days of AOL chat room chatting, I've chatted with two racists. One was white and the other was Asian. The white man came into the chat room spouting off his racist views. I asked him what his problem with interracial dating and marriage. He kept saying the same thing about how black men should be with black women and stay way from white women. I pressed him a little bit more and he then revealed that his wife had left him for a black man. He blamed the break-up on black men and he was upset about it. I apologized and told him that I wasn't interested in breaking up relationships between husband and wife or boyfriend and girlfriend. He calmed down and it became clear that all his bantering was a call for help , as well as attention. He was looking for someone to talk to.

The Asian man was a little more direct. He kept calling me "black man." He tried to steer me away from my interest in Asian women. He kept saying that they were too materialistic and not interested in black men. Our chat ended. But it was civil.

Chatting with racists is a waste of time because they're not going to change their views even if one shows him or her that they are not the example of what they believe to be true in their views of people.
 
Gorath said:
Back in the days of AOL chat room chatting, I've chatted with two racists. One was white and the other was Asian. The white man came into the chat room spouting off his racist views. I asked him what his problem with interracial dating and marriage. He kept saying the same thing about how black men should be with black women and stay way from white women. I pressed him a little bit more and he then revealed that his wife had left him for a black man. He blamed the break-up on black men and he was upset about it. I apologized and told him that I wasn't interested in breaking up relationships between husband and wife or boyfriend and girlfriend. He calmed down and it became clear that all his bantering was a call for help , as well as attention. He was looking for someone to talk to.

The Asian man was a little more direct. He kept calling me "black man." He tried to steer me away from my interest in Asian women. He kept saying that they were too materialistic and not interested in black men. Our chat ended. But it was civil.

Chatting with racists is a waste of time because they're not going to change their views even if one shows him or her that they are not the example of what they believe to be true in their views of people.
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I don't see anything wrong with being "racist" when it comes to the dating world. It is that persons absolute right to date and disqualify whomever they please for whatever reason.

If dating who you want is racist, then nearly this whole damn website is racist.
 
4north1side2 said:
I don't see anything wrong with being "racist" when it comes to the dating world. It is that persons absolute right to date and disqualify whomever they please for whatever reason.

If dating who you want is racist, then nearly this whole damn website is racist.
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Wow....hate coming in 5....4.....3.....2.....1
 
4north1side2 said:
I don't see anything wrong with being "racist" when it comes to the dating world. It is that persons absolute right to date and disqualify whomever they please for whatever reason.

If dating who you want is racist, then nearly this whole damn website is racist.
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Date who you want but making it point to openly exclude people is just rude and shitty.
You may not date people in wheel chairs but you feel the need to post it?
 
The Dark King said:
Date who you want but making it point to openly exclude people is just rude and shitty.
You may not date people in wheel chairs but you feel the need to post it?
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So you stoop to her level by talking about her teeth? Then expect what? For her to be nice about it?

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The Dark King said:
Date who you want but making it point to openly exclude people is just rude and shitty.
You may not date people in wheel chairs but you feel the need to post it?
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In this instance the woman was actually quite considerate by saving you the time and energy of bothering to get to know her by letting you know from the jump what's she's into. It was you who became rude and shitty about it perpetuating the stereotype that black men are classless that she believes in.




Since you on the market and above disqualifying people for whatever reason

http://www.obesedating.com
 
4north1side2 said:
I don't see anything wrong with being "racist" when it comes to the dating world. It is that persons absolute right to date and disqualify whomever they please for whatever reason.

If dating who you want is racist, then nearly this whole damn website is racist.
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I wouldn't use the word racist. I would say that every soul on earth has a right to their preferences and views. And I had heard that people are racist to a certain degree.
 
4north1side2 said:
In this instance the woman was actually quite considerate by saving you the time and energy of bothering to get to know her by letting you know from the jump what's she's into. It was you who became rude and shitty about it perpetuating the stereotype that black men are classless that she believes in.




Since you on the market and above disqualifying people for whatever reason

http://www.obesedating.com
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Fam if an employer said we are hiring but regardless of ability no Asians. Is that saving Asian people time?
Never mind we can agree to disagree
 
The Dark King said:
Fam if an employer said we are hiring but regardless of ability no Asians. Is that saving Asian people time?
Never mind we can agree to disagree
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Uuhh click click
U stepped on a landmine.
So tell us again on how shes being shitty about having a preference.

As a man u are told to handle ur business. As a business u can hire anyone u want
 
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