Online Dating????

[The Dark King]

Thanks but it's mostly just jumping through bullshit hoops, appeasing ass-wipe motherfuckers insecure ass egos and spending ridiculous amounts of money. I remember sitting down looking at my degree and thinking I exchanged all that money, frustration and time for pieces of paper with some fancy lettering in ink and an embossment. Fucking sham.

And get this, I don't work in any of the fields I have degrees in. I'm mostly self taught in the IT security field lol. I should have stayed in the aircraft maintenance game, got into IT and called it a day.

I told my son don't be like your old man, fuck college! Ain't no real exchange and challenge of ideas being discussed there. I told him that he needs to get a damn vocation; HVAC, plumbing, carpentry, etc... learn that shit, get a backpack and go to Europe or Asia or Africa and meet people and explore cultures while he is young. With a vocation you have a means to exchange real talent for money.

But noooooooo...he wants to go to college. Go figure.

Rant off lol

Church is a big pimp game - you check out the biggest pimp house, The Vatican and they got all the pimp shit:

- pimp clothes
- pimp cars
- pimp hats
- pimp goblets
- pimp stick

I disagree if it weren't for college I wouldn't be in my field you need degrees to get the certifications. Some degrees are bs like my political science one but if you're going into things like nursing engineering comp science you do ok.

 

[BrianJ]

I kind of agree with this. Don't get me wrong, I'm glad that I went to college but that was back in the late 90s-early 2000s before tuition costs really began to skyrocket. For kids coming out of high school these days, I can't say that I would recommend it unless they have a wealthy family willing to pay all of the costs or a full ride scholarship.

Indeed. If you can get a scholarship, I recommend doing it. 100% Still, learn a skill. You can take HVAC skills anywhere on the planet and get work. Bypass the "matriculation" of college and all the ig'nant ass motherfuckers who think they are smart simply because they have a degree.

 

[lippy]

Meet me is completely free for everyone. People who you match with always shows. Now you do have the option of paying for a membership fee to view people who said yes to you but you haven't matched.


How is simply selecting yes or no if you find a guy attractive a pain in the ass? Are you saying yes to all 200 guys, if that's the case then maybe you are just desperate as they are or your just talking for the sake of talking because you don't know what your talking about.

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Never used the feature...never paid...over 200 meets and not interested in even looking...sounds like the chicks that took that option were the desperate ones...if a man can't write a message then he isn't worth my time

now it sounds like your girl wasn't giving you enough attention and you got desperate and needed some women to fawn over you...hence the reason you resorted to POF

TOUCHE'

 

[BrianJ]

I disagree if it weren't for college I wouldn't be in my field you need degrees to get the certifications. Some degrees are bs like my political science one but if you're going into things like nursing engineering comp science you do ok.

True. For the fields like medicine, engineering and such yes I agree a degree is needed but the way shit is set up, college is a sham for what you get. That's all I'm saying.

it should be free and real work should be done. You know how much plagiarism is going on up in that bitch? lol

 

[Mikey]

"I like pussy, the only problem is the cunt that comes with it."

The only type of men who are going to get any attention on POF and the rest are either Millionaires or your typical bad boy with a ripped body and sleeve tattoos. If you do not fall into one of these groups then you are going to find these sites very hard work unless you are prepared to date women who are at least 2 points below you looks wise.

On these sites, men outnumber the women 10 to 1 so these women are going to get inundated with messages. Even women who are 4 or 5s in real life and who never get hit on are going to get so many messages that they are seriously only going to talk to you if you are an 8.

Also, the list of criteria these women have is absolutely ridiculous. These are divorced, over weight women with 3 kids and a shit job who tell you not to bother messaging them unless you have your own house, are over 6ft tall and are good looking and ripped and are prepared to treat her like a princess.

It's the same old crap : Woman looking for a relationship but doesn’t need a man. Has 2 – 3 kids 100% and they come first but will make time if the right man comes along.

Women nowadays are shallow, narcissistic freaks, and are nearly always neurotic to some degree.

Another story for you:

Hi all, Finally told her to get the F&$^ out of my life. Merry xmas to me too. It all went down 12/18. (2015) Coming up on a month alone now. Extremely raw and hurting.

I admire your entertainment here. Want to hear more of your posts!

 

[Ches]

Meet me is completely free for everyone. People who you match with always shows. Now you do have the option of paying for a membership fee to view people who said yes to you but you haven't matched.


How is simply selecting yes or no if you find a guy attractive a pain in the ass? Are you saying yes to all 200 guys, if that's the case then maybe you are just desperate as they are or your just talking for the sake of talking because you don't know what your talking about.
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The meet me is free to use but to get the full alert that someone wants to meet you, you now have to pay. It simply says "Someone wants to meet you." but the name and photo are grayed out.

 

[RaiderLL]

The meet me is free to use but to get the full alert that someone wants to meet you, you now have to pay. It simply says "Someone wants to meet you." but the name and photo are grayed out.

That feature sounds like the lazy persons way of reaching as many people as possible with the least amount of effort. You could be one of a hundred clicks that guy did that afternoon. I know I'm going to sound like a princess here but I want a little more effort than that lol. I'd put in more so I'd expect more from him!

 

[K]

The meet me is free to use but to get the full alert that someone wants to meet you, you now have to pay. It simply says "Someone wants to meet you." but the name and photo are grayed out.

There's a way around that if you want to find out. If you have it set to email you when people do that...it will still show you the nickname of the person who clicked "yes" on the "meet me" in your email box and you can do a username search to find them. I find those who can't seem to handle sending you a message to show some interest aren't worth bothering with.

 

[4north1side2]

Never used the feature...never paid...over 200 meets and not interested in even looking...sounds like the chicks that took that option were the desperate ones...if a man can't write a message then he isn't worth my time

now it sounds like your girl wasn't giving you enough attention and you got desperate and needed some women to fawn over you...hence the reason you resorted to POF

TOUCHE'

Thanks for admitting you didn't have the slightest clue what you your talking about and just wanted to jump in the conversation because you felt left out. You have a pattern of doing that like say something like women create eggs during they period or something... You should practice some restraint.

Just more speculation on your part. *Shrugs*

The meet me is free to use but to get the full alert that someone wants to meet you, you now have to pay. It simply says "Someone wants to meet you." but the name and photo are grayed out.

I covered that already. Again, if you two match, you are free to converse with each other.

Meet me is completely free for everyone. People who you match with always shows. Now you do have the option of paying for a membership fee to view people who said yes to you but you haven't matched.

That feature sounds like the lazy persons way of reaching as many people as possible with the least amount of effort. You could be one of a hundred clicks that guy did that afternoon. I know I'm going to sound like a princess here but I want a little more effort than that lol. I'd put in more so I'd expect more from him!

Weren't you telling people on the forums last year to try out Tinder because all of your friends were having great success with it? The meet me feature plays exactly like Tinder.

For a man, it's nothing lazy at all, it's actually the smart way of online dating minimizing wasting his precious time and effort on women who have no interest in him. You don't have the slightest clue as many men told you on these forums how aggravating it becomes when you take the time out custom tailoring a message to a female who doesn't even respond back. You feel like a complete idiotic fool.

Majority of women are not messaging men so men still put in effort after you guys match up. To me, meet me, Tinder, or whatever other matching app/game is the equivalent of a woman winking or giving you a serene smile to proceed to talk to her.

 

[RaiderLL]

Thanks for admitting you didn't have the slightest clue what you your talking about and just wanted to jump in the conversation because you felt left out. You have a pattern of doing that like say something like women create eggs during they period or something... You should practice some restraint.

Just more speculation on your part. *Shrugs*



I covered that already. Again, if you two match, you are free to converse with each other.






Weren't you telling people on the forums last year to try out Tinder because all of your friends were having great success with it? The meet me feature plays exactly like Tinder.

For a man, it's nothing lazy at all, it's actually the smart way of online dating minimizing wasting his precious time and effort on women who have no interest in him. You don't have the slightest clue as many men told you on these forums how aggravating it becomes when you take the time out custom tailoring a message to a female who doesn't even respond online.

Majority of women are not messaging men so men still put in effort after you guys match up. To me, meet me, Tinder, or whatever other matching app/game is the equivalent of a woman winking or giving you a serene smile to proceed to talk to her.

I don't think I ever vouched for tinder in someone's attempt to find a relationship. I've known people who hook up from that app but I don't think I know anyone who's found anything meaningful. I think others chimed in that it wasn't an app just for fucking but the couple people I can think of that used it, used it for easy sex. Maybe my brain is failing me in my old age lol

I'm probably just old fashioned when it comes to meeting guys. Out and about, what's meant to be will be

 

[K]

To me, meet me, Tinder, or whatever other matching app/game is the equivalent of a woman winking or giving you a serene smile to proceed to talk to her.

That's a good way to look at it.

 

[goodlove]

No different than getting the fake number or a woman getting you to call but not interested ....she just want the attention (attention whoring)

Thanks for admitting you didn't have the slightest clue what you your talking about and just wanted to jump in the conversation because you felt left out. You have a pattern of doing that like say something like women create eggs during they period or something... You should practice some restraint.

Just more speculation on your part. *Shrugs*



I covered that already. Again, if you two match, you are free to converse with each other.






Weren't you telling people on the forums last year to try out Tinder because all of your friends were having great success with it? The meet me feature plays exactly like Tinder.

For a man, it's nothing lazy at all, it's actually the smart way of online dating minimizing wasting his precious time and effort on women who have no interest in him. You don't have the slightest clue as many men told you on these forums how aggravating it becomes when you take the time out custom tailoring a message to a female who doesn't even respond back. You feel like a complete idiotic fool.

Majority of women are not messaging men so men still put in effort after you guys match up. To me, meet me, Tinder, or whatever other matching app/game is the equivalent of a woman winking or giving you a serene smile to proceed to talk to her.

 

[goodlove]

I don't think I ever vouched for tinder in someone's attempt to find a relationship. I've known people who hook up from that app but I don't think I know anyone who's found anything meaningful. I think others chimed in that it wasn't an app just for fucking but the couple people I can think of that used it, used it for easy sex. Maybe my brain is failing me in my old age lol

I'm probably just old fashioned when it comes to meeting guys. Out and about, what's meant to be will be[/QUOTE]

So am I. I love doing it that way but...online has its advantages. Not much

Like I said "the game hasn't changed"

 

[RaiderLL]

So am I. I love doing it that way but...online has its advantages. Not much

Like I said "the game hasn't changed"

Stop saying game. And Mack lol. I can't take it.

The only advantage to the Internet is volume, I'd imagine. That seems like more hassle than advantage though. I've never understood the issue with doing it the old fashioned way...just seems much easier!

 

[lippy]

Thanks for admitting you didn't have the slightest clue what you your talking about and just wanted to jump in the conversation because you felt left out. You have a pattern of doing that like say something like women create eggs during they period or something... You should practice some restraint.

Just more speculation on your part. *Shrugs*



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if you don't know what you are taking about then you should refrain...

On POF you must be a paying member to retrieve "meets" I know exactly what it is because I tried it...didn't pay and had over 200 meets in my box that I couldn't see...I also never hit the YES/NO button for any man...so the match thing is silly because at some point someone has to message anyway...if he can't write a message then he is LAZY and just looking to play games...example: you playing games

I never feel left out but apparently you do because you always come back for attention with some stupid wild tale that probably isn't even true

 

[The Dark King]

That feature sounds like the lazy persons way of reaching as many people as possible with the least amount of effort. You could be one of a hundred clicks that guy did that afternoon. I know I'm going to sound like a princess here but I want a little more effort than that lol. I'd put in more so I'd expect more from him!

You want more from a stranger? Are you high right now lol
I think meet me is perfect instead of a well crafted message for someone who isn't interested you know if there's interest first.
Oh I get it nothing where you have to make the slightest effort right? Lol

 

[K]

You want more from a stranger? Are you high right now lol
I think meet me is perfect instead of a well crafted message for someone who isn't interested you know if there's interest first.
Oh I get it nothing where you have to make the slightest effort right? Lol

Why would it have to be one extreme or the other? I'm sure you could probably figure out a couple of sentences to write to send someone (something that may actually connect to that persons profile).

 

[The Dark King]

Fellas just go out after work wearing a suit it's like lingerie for men to women lol

 

[The Dark King]

Why would it have to be one extreme or the other? I'm sure you could probably figure out a couple of sentences to write to send someone (something that may actually connect to that persons profile).

You have no idea how many women complain the message isn't long enough they seek more effort

 

[goodlove]

Fellas just go out after work wearing a suit it's like lingerie for men to women lol

Go on with your bad self.