Question of mines past due

Had any bad experiences travelling through Southern Africa?

 

Hello guys ,

this is a very interesting topic , i live in hatfield in pretoria , south-africa , and i saw one post where a south-african black male was looking for a white woman ... i am on the same shoes , looking for a white lover (what i mean by lover is a person that i share a romantic life with) .

On my experience getting a white female for sex is not a very big problem as i met a lot of white females (blonde , brunette , red head ) , they mostly do it in a no-string attached thing but it is difficult for me to find a lover maybe that was due to the area i was living (i used to live in an area pre-predominated by black guys )... One month ago (beginning of January 2008 ) i moved to the hatfied area (this area has a majority of whites and mostly are university students) , and the girls (afrikanners that some will call "boers" ) here are "EXTREMELY GORGEOUS" i cant resist them. i rarely find IR couples of students but most of them are from other african countries (non south-africans i mean ) , but IR is not very popular thing in here.

Once i spoke to one of the girls i had a non-string thing , she stated that most of whites here say that "you cannot mix a horse with a zebra"

On my case , i did not yet find a true white lover and i have decided to leave this country by next year to a europeen country more opened to IR or canada...

In short they still a ot of seggregation among people of difference race , that is due to the past political agenda of this country that i have now to pay the price ( the price of not getting or freely getting the most beautifull females on earth in my opinion - i mean white females )

 

Are these prostitutes? Or do you mean white women who secretly like black men, but dont want to commit to a serious realtionship?

Come to Europe, you not gonna get anywhere with Afrikaner women.

 

Not more than can be expected. For instance the only ones who have robbed me were Zimbabwean policemen. (I had intentions of staying in Zimbabwe, but quickly realized I should only travel through, or I wouldn't have money left to go home )

I generally like the neighbouring countries to SA better than SA itself, cause it's quite obvious that a lot of black people in SA aren't particularly fond of white people (I don't blame them though). So as soon as I get out of SA I find that people generally are much more friendlier, and I relax more.

That being said, there's a lot of good people in SA too, and I've never really had any bad experiences there either. (The only time I have ever actually been afraid was in Soweto, all though all I got was angry looks...) People will usually lighten up as soon as they realize I'm ok...

I think it's interesting that you said so, cause that's my impression as well. At least when it comes to ww-bm relationships in SA. A wm-bm couple might both be South-African, but so far I haven't met a singe ww-bm couple where both are. Usually the woman will not be South-African, but if she is then the man is not. What do you think, have I gotten the right impression?

 

Getting robbed by police! You sure they were not imposters? Difficult to believe a country can be that corrupt!

 

Well, It wasn't like they threathened me with guns or anything..

I was sitting on the train.. At the boarder between Zim and SA they came on the train to check everyone's papers and they took all my rand, since "they are not legal in Zimbabwe". In the middle of the country they came on once more to check everyone's papers and they took all my USD, cause "any foreign currency is illegal in Zimbabwe".

At this time I've started considering if I should just head straight for Mozambique, but I wanted some cash and I wanted to give the place a chance. The train stopped for a few hours in some town anyway, so I decided to go withdraw some money and buy some food and water. I already had a little bit of ZWDs, which the staff at the train station took most of, cause apparently you have to pay to leave a train in Zimbabwe (even if you have already paid to get on the train). I found an ATM, bought some food and water, and decided to leave the country before I was totally broke. At the boarder to Mosambique the police took the rest of my money, since "ZMD are not allowed to leave Zimbabwe"...

I can't say how frustrated I was at the time. Several years later it's just a really funny story though. I'll probably try going back when the country has stabilized a little

 

Yeah, they obviously knew you were not Zimbabwean and took full advantage. Those border police/guards are notoriously bad though. Next time befriend a local on the train. At least that way you know when you being ripped off.

 

Well, I already knew of course. Just didn't want to argue with them.

It might have been a better idea to take one of those little buses in stead. Cause if you're on those, you will get to know people whether you like to or not I was just trying to travel a bit more comfortably for once.

I've never had anyone so obviously ripping me of anywhere else though. Not even at the boarders.

 

Hey swaziking ,

it is the white women that love black male (sexually ) but are affraid to be seen with us , i have mostly find them in the website called "gumtree.com on the johannesburg/pretoria section".