Question? Why do ww women like black men when they get older

Los Angeles said:
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I'm not going to say anything about this.
 
Trey1540 said:
Why are you bringing up old shit? That happen that other day in a completely different thread which has absolutely nothing to do what's going on right now. Don't make excuses why you're not doing your job. I have no problem with you telling me about myself. You're right, I might be responsible for the reception I'm getting from these people. However, does that mean the rules no longer apply to them because you feel they're justified? You're being bias right now Espy. I'm man enough to will admit that I was wrong with how I came off. But are you woman enough to admit that you're being biased? You're a mod and it's your job to keep order around here. That's all I'm asking you for is fairness.

Now I have told you that I'm here because I love white women. That's all I wish to talk about with you all. I don't want to feud with the ladies here. To be honest I don't want to beef with the brothers here. So lets just forget about the negative things I said and lets start all over. I promise I'll be nice.
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If you don't like the way someone responds to you, please use the report a post feature. The Mods and webmaster don't patrol threads willy nilly looking for people to ban, however reported posts are reviewed. This is a forum, not a dictatorship, people are allowed to speak their mind. However, I would direct you to the Site Guidelines which clearly state that if you feel someone is personally attacking you, don't respond, just report the post.
 
Flyingeek said:
wow! Underhanded, but still an appology. deal.

I didnt attack you, I questioned your statement about "getto men" I made a pretty neutral statement. You came at me, and after that - its pretty much free season as far as I am concerned.

and if you payed attention, you used real offensive put-downs and swearwords, I never did.

I didnt bait you, I dont work like that - Did you really expect me to take your shit laying down??? Of course I will respond, that is not baiting, that is called - not being your bitch.

Anywhoo - that was big of you to appologize although I didnt need one, thank you and yes - peace.
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Thanks for accepting my apology and from now on I'll be nice. It just when people come at me I feel the need to disrespect and humiliate them. However, I wasn't trying to disrespect you. I usually don't disrespect the ladies. But that's how you took it and I'm make sure I watch the way I talk to people here from now on.
 
Espy said:
If you don't like the way someone responds to you, please use the report a post feature. The Mods and webmaster don't patrol threads willy nilly looking for people to ban, however reported posts are reviewed. This is a forum, not a dictatorship, people are allowed to speak their mind. However, I would direct you to the Site Guidelines which clearly state that if you feel someone is personally attacking you, don't respond, just report the post.
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That's what I'll do from now on. I'm not even going to argue with anyone here anymore. If I have a problem with somebody I'm just report them. Thank you for taking it easy on me.
 
Trey1540 said:
I don't want to feud with the ladies here. To be honest I don't want to beef with the brothers here. So lets just forget about the negative things I said and lets start all over. I promise I'll be nice.
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Trey1540 said:
Thanks for accepting my apology and from now on I'll be nice. It just when people come at me I feel the need to disrespect and humiliate them. However, I wasn't trying to disrespect you. I usually don't disrespect the ladies. But that's how you took it and I'm make sure I watch the way I talk to people here from now on.
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Trey1540 said:
That's what I'll do from now on. I'm not even going to argue with anyone here anymore. If I have a problem with somebody I'm just report them. Thank you for taking it easy on me.
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Rocket said:
This one has always puzzled me. Why do I always hear of stories of ww suddenly liking black men when they get older, have been married with kids, etc.
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I'm sure the reasons vary from person to person but I believe it's mainly due to a superiority complex. These women naturally assume that a young and handsome black man will want them just because they're white. I think that they view it as an alternative to dating old, dried up white men.

Despite the belief that men are the ones who judge women most harshly when it comes to looks, women judge themselves even more harshly. I've noticed that bigger women tend to have lower self esteem, but if these same big women lost weight their confidence/arrogance would skyrocket. In men, I don't see this correlation, or at least not to the extent that I see it in women.
 
In my case I had never met any black men until the kids were grown up and I could afford to travel.THEN I met some and was blown away by the charm,love and zest for living and their manners
 
All of us have fewer filters as we mature. You simply become more openly candid about many things, including those to whom you are attracted and what you find appealing sexually.
 
Older people are less inclined to be concerned with what others think about their personal lives and loves. Also some women gain confidence in their sexuality as they age. I am starting to see some WW that actually look better now then they did 10 or 15 yrs. ago.

Having said that, I am not sure that they like us more when they get older. If a WW gets a divorce and she was married to a WM from age 20 to age 32 and now at 34 she gets asked out by a Black man that does not mean she just got into Black Men; she was married. She may have seen BM she thought were attractive before but, as a married woman she likely would not act upon it. Now she can date any man she wants.

I have known way too many White girls that were into to BM in high school, middle school, White girls first started kissing me elementary. I see young WW with BM more than older WW where I live.
 
botoan said:
Older people are less inclined to be concerned with what others think about their personal lives and loves. Also some women gain confidence in their sexuality as they age. I am starting to see some WW that actually look better now then they did 10 or 15 yrs. ago.

Having said that, I am not sure that they like us more when they get older. If a WW gets a divorce and she was married to a WM from age 20 to age 32 and now at 34 she gets asked out by a Black man that does not mean she just got into Black Men; she was married. She may have seen BM she thought were attractive before but, as a married woman she likely would not act upon it. Now she can date any man she wants.

I have known way too many White girls that were into to BM in high school, middle school, White girls first started kissing me elementary. I see young WW with BM more than older WW where I live.
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Great post!
 
Trey1540 said:
Now let me get back to the discussion at hand. Rocket you've brought up some very valid points that I wish to discuss in further detail. You have a lot of white women out here that feel like they're a prize to you even if they're not a prize anyone else. You have to ask yourself why do they feel this way? Is it because these white women feel that they're superior to you? I don't think so bruh. The answer to that is quite simply cuz. A lot of these women got niggas hitting on them left and right. I'm not just talking about the worthless ass niggas. I'm talking about the black men that's on top of their shit. You got white women getting hit on by the most attractive, financially stable, and educated black men. These are the type of black men that they got chasing them down. So that's one of the contributing factors to why you have a lot of white women see no value in a black man no matter how many great qualities he might have.

I want all the black men here to identify where I'm coming from so want to put a few things on your mind. Lets say you running through different women every other day minimal effort. How much are you going to value women? To you, women come a dime a dozen, so basically they have no value because you can get one whenever you feel like it. Now lets flip the script for just second. Lets say you got a fat girl that doesn't get hit on that much. She knows that she's not that desirable so any man that wants to talk to her she's going to be open to him and appreciate him. She knows that her options are limited so she's going to take whatever she can get. It has nothing to do with her really loving the man. She just wants a man and it doesn't matter who is or what his race might be. Do you see where I'm going with this fellas?

When a person's self esteem is high and they have a lot of options they don't have to be kind or respectful to you. They got people lining up to replace you so they don't have to value you. White women in certain areas of the country do this a lot no matter who attractive or well off you are. The reason being because they can have the best we have to offer even if they're not the best the white female gender has to offer. A person with a low self esteem usual overlook a lot of flaws they might see in a person due the fact that they see a lot flaws within themselves. Most of the time when women get into their late thirties and early forties their looks and diminished and they're not feeling as confident in themselves. So now they have dropped they've standards and they're open to dating men they wouldn't have looked at in the past.

The question is why do old white women all of sudden date black men? The reason they date black men is because they can. They believe that black men love white women no matter who she is or what she looks like. When black men accept these type of women you're not only devaluing yourselves. You're devaluing the whole black male gender. So I suggest niggas do is stop hitting on everything that you come across. I want all my brothers to keep your standards high. If you're 10 do not date a 5. If you're a 5 don't date a 1. You know what I'm sayin?
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Alot of truth in this.
 
Trey1540 said:
Now let me get back to the discussion at hand. Rocket you've brought up some very valid points that I wish to discuss in further detail. You have a lot of white women out here that feel like they're a prize to you even if they're not a prize anyone else. You have to ask yourself why do they feel this way? Is it because these white women feel that they're superior to you? I don't think so bruh. The answer to that is quite simply cuz. A lot of these women got niggas hitting on them left and right. I'm not just talking about the worthless ass niggas. I'm talking about the black men that's on top of their shit. You got white women getting hit on by the most attractive, financially stable, and educated black men. These are the type of black men that they got chasing them down. So that's one of the contributing factors to why you have a lot of white women see no value in a black man no matter how many great qualities he might have.

I want all the black men here to identify where I'm coming from so want to put a few things on your mind. Lets say you running through different women every other day minimal effort. How much are you going to value women? To you, women come a dime a dozen, so basically they have no value because you can get one whenever you feel like it. Now lets flip the script for just second. Lets say you got a fat girl that doesn't get hit on that much. She knows that she's not that desirable so any man that wants to talk to her she's going to be open to him and appreciate him. She knows that her options are limited so she's going to take whatever she can get. It has nothing to do with her really loving the man. She just wants a man and it doesn't matter who is or what his race might be. Do you see where I'm going with this fellas?

When a person's self esteem is high and they have a lot of options they don't have to be kind or respectful to you. They got people lining up to replace you so they don't have to value you. White women in certain areas of the country do this a lot no matter who attractive or well off you are. The reason being because they can have the best we have to offer even if they're not the best the white female gender has to offer. A person with a low self esteem usual overlook a lot of flaws they might see in a person due the fact that they see a lot flaws within themselves. Most of the time when women get into their late thirties and early forties their looks and diminished and they're not feeling as confident in themselves. So now they have dropped they've standards and they're open to dating men they wouldn't have looked at in the past.

The question is why do old white women all of sudden date black men? The reason they date black men is because they can. They believe that black men love white women no matter who she is or what she looks like. When black men accept these type of women you're not only devaluing yourselves. You're devaluing the whole black male gender. So I suggest niggas do is stop hitting on everything that you come across. I want all my brothers to keep your standards high. If you're 10 do not date a 5. If you're a 5 don't date a 1. You know what I'm sayin?

I'm going to give y'all some examples of what I will not accept. I will not accept any fat bitches under any circumstances. If you're fat with your titties sagging i'm not looking your way. Come back and holla at me once you lose the weight. I will not accept any women with messed up teeth. If your teeth is gapped or crooked you can holla at me after you get your teeth fixed. I don't want no dirty ass women. I want a woman who washes her ass everyday. I will not accept no woman who has been with a lot of men. I wouldn't care how fine she is or how good of a person she is. If she's been with a lot of men she's not good enough for me.

The going to give y'all a short list of things that I demand that every white woman I deal with must have. She must have be in good shape and have a sexy stomach, perky titties, and a nice ass. She can't be no shorter than 5'0 and no taller than 5'8. She must have straight teeth. I prefer blondes or darkhaired white women but hair color doesn't really mattter. She must keep herself clean at all times. She cannot have been with over 9 men. She can't be no more than 5 years older than me. She must be a freak in the bedroom. She must be very kind, understanding, loving, passionate, and feminine.

I will not compromise on not one of these things. This is why I demand from every single white woman I date. If I can't have a white woman like this then I'll just have to be man whore for the rest of my life. I don't want a woman who can meet 50% of my criteria or even 90%. I want a woman who fits all of my criteria. I will wait for as long as I have to get the type of woman I've described. I will not accept anything less than exactly what I want. If all ir black men did this then you'll see these women start to treat us with more respect.
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Unfortunately, Very true- The bold portion

This post wasn't half bad. Trey sounded like a veteran poster here
 
Raul Sinclair said:
Unfortunately, Very true- The bold portion

This post wasn't half bad. Trey sounded like a veteran poster here
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I think it's less about self esteem in general and more about feeling that you can do better. Pretty much everyone at some stage in their life will dis someone who's interested in them because they don't think they're in the same league as them. Human nature.
 
Even though Trey had a very hamfisted as well as chauvinistic way of getting his post across, his opinions are not completely without merit. White women with the world as their oyster have no interest in dating black men. And alot of brothas DO lower their standards when it comes to white women. These are universal truths.

As for the OP, his observations are mostly correct. I've known older WW who have admitted that they we're never attracted to black men when they we're younger but now over they age of 40 they are. Take of that what you will.:smt102
 
Esoterik Dreadz said:
Even though Trey had a very hamfisted as well as chauvinistic way of getting his post across, his opinions are not completely without merit. White women with the world as their oyster have no interest in dating black men. And alot of brothas DO lower their standards when it comes to white women. These are universal truths.

As for the OP, his observations are mostly correct. I've known older WW who have admitted that they we're never attracted to black men when they we're younger but now over they age of 40 they are. Take of that what you will.:smt102
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And those older women I stray away from because a lot of times it's some fetish shit! That's why I don't fuck with every white woman that expresses interest. Hell I actually ignore the ones I feel aren't in my league.
 
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