We went beyond talking, he was here a week and a half ago. On the site where we met, he was listed as single, and never once indicated that he wasn't. In fact he talked about having me to his place (which is in the woods) for a weekend.
I sent him an email. I was quite nice about it, told him I don't play with married men, and reminded him what he was going to be missing out on (we'd discussed some interesting erm...activities). I know he doesn't check his email often, so I don't know if he got it yet, but I haven't heard from him.
Damned shame, I *liked* him as a person, and the sex was mind bogglingly good, definitely one of the top ten experiences I've ever had. . But I don't play with married men, I don't need the drama, and it's not in my character to do that. If I'd known he was married, I'd never have slept with him. I detest being lied to, even by omission. It's probably the single worst mistake any man can make with me. NEVER lie to me - I'll cut you off so fast your head will spin.
I don't understand what's to gain in going after a woman who clearly states she doesn't want married men, why not just pick someone who is ok with that?