Oh, ok, I get it. Replacing black straight men with gay dudes is a way to replace us, while simultaneously pushing us to not be able to say anything about it, otherwise we are homophobic. Interesting take on it. I looked at it differently. Considering how gay black men kowtow to the black matriarchy, I thought it was there to provide faux diversity, and to appease black women. But, it seems there is a third agenda (probably more).
If that is the case, I would agree with you that not only is that annoying and erasure (something the black matriarchy swears up and down is only happening to black women), but I think it only further alienates those who normally don’t give a shit.
That being said, as I believe one of the never-ending aspects of mankind to be “people be fucking”, I am not bothered by the drug addict gay/bi dude. I also wasn’t bothered by the lesbian/bi politician that was fucking interns. But, I can easily be bothered by the current agenda, while simultaneously not being bothered by what someone who is gay or bit or whatever does right or wrong (so long as it doesn’t affect me).
As far as the wife goes, she probably knew or had some idea, but the brother had a potentially bright future with money and power, and hypergamy stops for no one. All I feel bad for, in this situation, are the offspring that will have to hear about this as they get older.
Come to think of it, this reminds me of when the black lives crowd made their 12 matriarchal principles and left out black men, but kept black women and transgendered people. Even though we (black men) speak for around 96% of those affected. One brotha brought it up, and some gay brotha called him transphobic for mentioning it. He didn’t say anything mean about transgenders or call them names or anything. So, yeah, I get your point.