Sexual Frustration and Violence

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by satyr, May 24, 2014.

  1. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    the main point was that he found someone was a good fit....being a model didnt make em a good fit.

    also, i told you how to handle rejection......
     
  2. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    He wasn't a model he's a cartoonist. His job made him more interesting.
     
  3. Gorath

    Gorath Well-Known Member

    If one creates something, don't you think it will make anyone interesting? I think so.
     
  4. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    got damn it...we went over the job title shit before...yes womens panties wet if you have a nice sound job.

    the game the dude was kicking was about ...yes he dated models but he wasnt fulfilled...he found someone he was compatible with (the rite one).

    please note one more fucking time, a good job and nice body will get you the attention....mouth piece gets them in the bed and the relationship you want.

    dress properly, approach properly and give them instructions...dont ask.
     
  5. andreboba

    andreboba Well-Known Member

    Huh??

    The guy is or was an artist/cartoonist and for much of his adult working life he wasn't making big coin but was still dating.

    What's privileged about him?? Why is he a dickbag??

    It's not like he's some cat born with a $30 million trust fund that kicked in at age 21.

    He was an average dude albeit with a special talent who grinded in his personal life and didn't let resentments and cynicism fuck up his game.

    You think dating is hard in NYC?? Try L.A., THE superficial capital of the USA.

    I thought most of his points were spot on...to meet women you NEED women friends since many people date people through their network of friends. It's really all about connections, not money.

    Up your game; get in shape, dress better, take care of yourself and know what it is women are looking for and adjust where you can.

    Stay positive and improve your social convo with females.


    I made the mistake way, way back in middle school of talking to a female at lunch about COMIC BOOKS and lesson has always stuck with me. She said, verbatim, "(andreboba), not to be rude but WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT???"lol

    You've got to know the woman you're going after and adjust your approach accordingly.

    Rich or poor, every man has to work on some level to get females. Every guy at some point gets rejected. It's how you come back from defeat that improves the quality of your own personal life.

    Stop acting like cartoonists get mad pussy. Cartoonists in general are introverted uber-geeks. Being a cartoonist is not an easy access to women.:smt043
     
  6. Stizzy

    Stizzy Well-Known Member

    I agree......
     
  7. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    again what the hell is this mouth piece you speak of? You mean saying a string of bs words will get a woman to sleep with you. Are you speaking about manipulation? I personally don't need to manipulate anyone to want to have sex with me so sorry I don't follow
     
  8. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    My point was that he was privileged because he wasn't a grinding when he met models and actresses he was already note worthy and you missed the key word when he was being introduced by female friends "a good with a GOOD JOB" that shit matters. Its not simply just your attitude. And I agree with you LA is more superficial than NYC, depending on what circles you run in I guess, but for the most part yes.
    I also agree we all deal rejection and you have to learn from it but I disagree with adapting yourself to certain women because like he said you can easily find yourself around someone you don't even like just because they are hot.
     
  9. Stizzy

    Stizzy Well-Known Member

    Mouth piece- To speak in a convincing and persuading manner, usually to make a person do something they wouldn't normally do. A person who is or has a mouthpiece is usually attributed to as a playa or a lawyer.(urban dictionary)
     
  10. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Thank you lol
    I knew what he was getting at but its such an outdated way of male/female interaction. I don't need "game" to get a woman. Women are a lot more strong willed these days, they know if they want to fuck with you all you have to do is not mess it up.
     
  11. orejon4

    orejon4 Well-Known Member

    I'm not a fan of the "game" concept. That being said, an average person without the accoutrements of looks, fame or money needs to be brilliant, witty, funny and a magnificent person to offset this deficit. A person w/o the extras can get away with being a monster b/c they're socially desirable and we are primates who are moved by interpersonal and group dynamics. We're not controlled by them the way the other apes are, but they are present and they are instinctual.
     
  12. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    i posted what it means earlier and what game was. im not posting it again.

    you just see what you want to see with anger.

    boba just told you too
     
  13. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    dude, outdated? lol. does nt matter.....the term. its the principle.
    you expect to just say any old damn thang to a woman and expect them to drop the draws for you.
    hell, you missed what the article was saying on a basic level. how in the hell you understand what stizzy, andre, and i are saying.

    mofo acting like he knew....tdk is on some immature shit. your ass talking bout how to get pass rejection and bros are telling then you want get ignorant.
     
    Last edited: Jun 2, 2014
  14. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    knowing game doesnt mean you are evil it means knowing how to aviod the pitfalls of dating and be successful.
    fine example (2 of them)...
    steve mcnair broke the rules of the game. 1) he cheated on his wife and 2) he had ongoing side piece.
    thats why he got popped. never ever cheat.period. if you cheat on your wife (which is dumb as hell to do and immoral) dont have an ongoing relationship. thats why he is dead.

    next example, stizzy stated it . if she is not the one drop her. being willing to be by yourself. you have to qualify a woman upfront and ongoing.
     
    Last edited: Jun 2, 2014
  15. orejon4

    orejon4 Well-Known Member

    Point taken. I was thinking of "game" as the whole pimp-ology stuff, i.e. getting inside of a woman's head, etc. I say that b/c I don't want to be inside anyone's head and I don't want them inside mine. But basic rules about how to get along with a significant other are needed by both genders.
     
  16. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    i gotcha.....
    well getting in someones head is not a bad thing if you doing it for the rite reasons.
    1. want to get to know her so u can make her happy
    2. get to know her to make sure she will not play you/hurt you.

    u know yourself ...you know the enemy u will win everytime. dont know yourself dont know the enemy you will lose everytime- sun tzu the art of war
     
  17. RicardoCooper

    RicardoCooper Well-Known Member

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