Sexual Harassment/Assault Scandals

Beasty said:
I only want to see clean vagina that I'm attracted to and not as a job.
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Ok, then that's the wrong job for you. If you have your own practice you get to see healthy patients for annual check-up but at the hospital you see only vagina with one problem or another.
 
Madeleine said:
Man are more visual than women that's why they have always made sure they had places to go where they'd satisfy that interest. However there used to be a stark contrast between women who worked in such establishments and the rest of womankind. Nowadays dressing like a stripper/half-naked/extremely provocative or sexualized is being presented as the thing to do even in mainstream society. In my grandmas time if you run around half-naked you will never find a husband. It wasn't encouraged at all.
And honestly, I think we can also choose as women how we want to present ourselves and what message we send to men. I think a lot of those 16 y/o girls who walk around in hotpants and crop top don't get that yet. I'm not saying men have the right to touch what they were not invited to touch just because a woman wears a miniskirt, of course not. I just think that we shouldn't play ignorant. If our dress is very sexy, revealing, sexualised...that's the response we get from men. If we dress ladylike, we get that response from men. There are some idiots who don't get the message but overall it works pretty well. I just don't like it when women doll up and walk around in little bits of nothing on their body and then feel offended when men confuse them with strippers and behave that way with them.
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I remember a story that happened over thirty years ago. A woman wearing a short skirt and high heels was raped. She reported the rape to the police and her rapist was arrested. In the trial, the outfit the woman wore was on display. When the rapist took the stand, he said that what they woman wore aroused him and he couldn't control himself. The rapist was sent to jail but the trial wasn't over because the judge weighed in on the victim , stating that because of what she wore that day, she was "asking to be raped."

I am all for women who enjoy being women. It is their right to explore their femininity and be comfortable in themselves. How they dress is equally as important to me as how they carry themselves everyday.

As a man, I don't expect every woman to be dressed in a nun's habit. I don't want them to look slutty because it is a turn-off to me.
But I don't want any harm to come to them if they do because they would know better.
 
Gorath said:
I remember a story that happened over thirty years ago. A woman wearing a short skirt and high heels was raped. She reported the rape to the police and her rapist was arrested. In the trial, the outfit the woman wore was on display. When the rapist took the stand, he said that what they woman wore aroused him and he couldn't control himself. The rapist was sent to jail but the trial wasn't over because the judge weighed in on the victim , stating that because of what she wore that day, she was "asking to be raped."

I am all for women who enjoy being women. It is their right to explore their femininity and be comfortable in themselves. How they dress is equally as important to me as how they carry themselves everyday.

As a man, I don't expect every woman to be dressed in a nun's habit. I don't want them to look slutty because it is a turn-off to me.
But I don't want any harm to come to them if they do because they would know better.
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Yeah I knew this "asking to be raped issue" was bound to come up. That's why I specifically said that of course regardless of what she is wearing a man has no right to take anything that wasn't offered to him in clear terms. Of course mini skirt can't be a justification for rape. Typical Muslim/Arab thinking that the woman is responsible for getting raped cos she wasn't wearing the right thing and even if she wears a burqa, still her fault because she was outside without her "male guardian", as they call it. I don't think we want that type of thinking.
 
Thump said:
Medical equipment manager and maintenance. My knowledge of the grossness comes from cleaning equipment after appointments.
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Madeleine said:
Lol...someone has to do it though. It's a very important job so thank God some people like Thump have a strong stomach.
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I can deal with dead bodies, blood, and more (I'm an Iraq war vet), but people who don't take care of themselves and or wash themselves properly always gross me out. Obviously that isn't the only problem that happens down there, but that is a common occurence for many of the ob gyn horror stories I've heard.
 
I stayed in a hospital for the first time when I was 15. I had scoliosis and needed an operation. During my stay, I had many nurses look in on me. They were pretty young white women who were also student nurses(the hospital was on the campus of the University of Florida and it was not unusual to have students and interns working along with regular hospital staff). I had only one male nurse. I didn't get to know him as well as the other nurses because I was feeling terrible after the surgery. My mom liked him, though. He was animated and eager to help. He would wake me up and introduce himself, ask me a few questions, ask me to roll to one side to help him change my sheets and other things. One nurse and I were having a discussion and three more nurses came to my bedside. I felt like I was the luckiest kid in the world. But later, I was surprised by one of the nurses. She talked like she was "one of the guys." I guessed she had hung around guys a lot because she was comfortable in talking about Guy things.

When I was rolled into the casting room(I called it the Mummification Room), I was wearing nothing but a body stocking that barely covered my crotch. A Latina technician came in and looked me over for a bit. She remained silent. When she saw the flap covering my crotch she lifted the flap and saw my penis. She looked at me, smiled and left the room. I was surprised and confused. The casting technician came and adjusted the flap and said, "We can't have too many women hanging around here." The casting technicians were male and were funny guys.
 
Madeleine said:
Yeah I knew this "asking to be raped issue" was bound to come up. That's why I specifically said that of course regardless of what she is wearing a man has no right to take anything that wasn't offered to him in clear terms. Of course mini skirt can't be a justification for rape. Typical Muslim/Arab thinking that the woman is responsible for getting raped cos she wasn't wearing the right thing and even if she wears a burqa, still her fault because she was outside without her "male guardian", as they call it. I don't think we want that type of thinking.
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It was a shocking case and I did feel bad for the victim.
 
meowkittenmeow said:
I can deal with dead bodies, blood, and more (I'm an Iraq war vet), but people who don't take care of themselves and or wash themselves properly always gross me out. Obviously that isn't the only problem that happens down there, but that is a common occurence for many of the ob gyn horror stories I've heard.
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Ok...then you certainly have a strong stomach as well. I did an internship in a hospital after grammar school to test if I wanted to study medicine...I was fainting all the time. When they had to do some painful procedure or patients were sick and in pain it always made me feel some type of way in my body and next thing I know is I faint. Even though I can stand pain myself but I don't want to watch others.
Those stories of women who don't wash down there...I have heard about it a few times over the years. Most of the time it's elderly ladies who stay in nursing homes and are not washed thoroughly enough. Those are the real terrible cases. Also the obese ones who don't reach everywhere to wash properly. As for the actual diseases, those are not the issue for gynaecologists. That's just business as usual. And I don't even feel sorry for them since that's what they decided to do. Could have as well become an eye doctor.
 
Gorath said:
I stayed in a hospital for the first time when I was 15. I had scoliosis and needed an operation. During my stay, I had many nurses look in on me. They were pretty young white women who were also student nurses(the hospital was on the campus of the University of Florida and it was not unusual to have students and interns working along with regular hospital staff). I had only one male nurse. I didn't get to know him as well as the other nurses because I was feeling terrible after the surgery. My mom liked him, though. He was animated and eager to help. He would wake me up and introduce himself, ask me a few questions, ask me to roll to one side to help him change my sheets and other things. One nurse and I were having a discussion and three more nurses came to my bedside. I felt like I was the luckiest kid in the world. But later, I was surprised by one of the nurses. She talked like she was "one of the guys." I guessed she had hung around guys a lot because she was comfortable in talking about Guy things.

When I was rolled into the casting room(I called it the Mummification Room), I was wearing nothing but a body stocking that barely covered my crotch. A Latina technician came in and looked me over for a bit. She remained silent. When she saw the flap covering my crotch she lifted the flap and saw my penis. She looked at me, smiled and left the room. I was surprised and confused. The casting technician came and adjusted the flap and said, "We can't have too many women hanging around here." The casting technicians were male and were funny guys.
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Really!!??!!
I guess Latin people are very touchy-feely culture-wise. But that goes too far. Imagine a man doing the same...what will happen!
 
Madeleine said:
Those stories of women who don't wash down there...I have heard about it a few times over the years. Most of the time it's elderly ladies who stay in nursing homes and are not washed thoroughly enough. Those are the real terrible cases. Also the obese ones who don't reach everywhere to wash properly.
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Ohhh Hell No!!! Disgusting!
 
Madeleine said:
Really!!??!!
I guess Latin people are very touchy-feely culture-wise. But that goes too far. Imagine a man doing the same...what will happen!
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Really. I guess she was curious and liked what she saw. Thankfully, a man didn't do what she did.

I remember the day of the operation. One of my doctors happened to be a gay man said to me,"I came here an hour early just for you." I nodded and said, "I believe you did."

He asked if I slept well. I told him that I couldn't sleep and watched a good Humphrey Bogart film on television. He said, animatedly, "Oh, you mean the one where he's on the ship?"
I said,"Yeah."

It was coincidental, but for the moment at that time, it was awkward. lol
 
Gorath said:
Really. I guess she was curious and liked what she saw. Thankfully, a man didn't do what she did.

I remember the day of the operation. One of my doctors happened to be a gay man said to me,"I came here an hour early just for you." I nodded and said, "I believe you did."

He asked if I slept well. I told him that I couldn't sleep and watched a good Humphrey Bogart film on television. He said, animatedly, "Oh, you mean the one where he's on the ship?"
I said,"Yeah."

It was coincidental, but for the moment at that time, it was awkward. lol
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Lol...that doctor...
I actually meant if that Latina nurse was a Latino nurse (male) removing the cover from a female patient and looking...it would be considered outrageous. But the other way round it's supposed to be cute or something.
 
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