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Guys who say they don't need emotional attachments are the first ones crying like a bitch when their girl dumps them.lol

Besides sex dolls are gonna be expensive, more than the average guy is willing to spend.

Look, dealing with women ain't easy, but a chill female is better than a 1000 great pornos, sexually speaking.
And at least when a (non-prostitute)woman says she LOVES you, she means it.:)
 
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andreboba said:
Guys who say they don't need emotional attachments are the first ones crying lick a bitch when their girl dumps them.lol

Besides sex dolls are gonna be expensive, more than the average guy is willing to spend.

Look, dealing with women ain't easy, but a chill female is better than a 1000 great pornos, sexually speaking.
And at least when a (non-prostitute)woman says she LOVES you, she means it.:)
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Bruh, we're talking about a the same generation of men/boys who would rather sit infront of a TV screen and play video games than actually go outside and play as kids.

And, they're no so expensive when you factor in how much these guys spend on stuff in general. How much are the latest Jordans these days? How about an iPhone or S8 when they first come out? $2500 for guaranteed pussy that you can call your very own, for as long as you want it, is a deal to some of these cats coming up.

See, you're thinking like a well reasoned adult with some life experience under his belt. The Next generation coming up? I'm telling you, we're about to see a whole new paradigm in dating. .. lol
 
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samson1701 said:
Man will always build a better mouse trap.

I'm starting to think women should actually be a bit worried. I thought guys were just bullshiting around with this sex doll stuff. But, they are serious and they're young. I remember when meeting someone through an online personal was for losers who couldn't meet potential romantic partners the "regular" way. Now, it's as normal as sunshine and rain. I truly believe that fucking sex dolls will be common place in a few years and it will be totally acceptable for guys because it will make practical sense for them. And, because men won't be so worried about women's opinions (they know they can easily get safe, no-hassle, sex at home)it won't be embarrassing to them in the least.

To some extent, and I'm going to sound like a dick here, but women think they have more to offer than they actually do for many, many men.

Most men don't really want emotional attachments. All most guys nesd is work, a few long time friends, his hobbies, sex and that's about it. They don't care about emotional attachments. Don't need them, Don't want them.

But, they end up having them as a consequence of needing sex. The more time you spend with a woman sexually, if you're reasonably compatible, you're going to develop feellings for that woman. Well, remove the motivation to get sex and you remove the need for a relationship for a lot of men.

Hopefully, I'm wrong. But, I don't think I am.
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Nope sounds perfectly logical and this is coming from two men who have openly expressed being in good relationships.
I recognize that my situation is good but I don't apply my personal good fortune to the lives of everyone. Its like saying because I have a home and food homelessness isn't a problem.
I recently starting doing research into dating websites because I have a concept me and other investors are interesred in. I haven't looked at these things in over three years and its rough out there in my opinion. If online dating is the primary way to meet people especially in a climate where someone who you find unattractive talking to you is harassment then good luck. We went through at least 1000 profiles in the tri state area ranging from women and men 18 to 45 and my assessment is either people are completely apathetic or put far too much hope into this. There are so many women looking for marriage on these things. How the hell do you look for marriage?
Then there's a bunch of guys who can barely slap 3 coherent words together. They zero communication skills. Then there's the self absorbed/obsessed people who put their IG link in the profile looking to gain more followers. In my opinion if this is a solid litmus romance is plain dead in this country. Sure there are exceptions but if this is the main way to interact especially since in person interaction is now considered hostile I don't see where this can go but down.
I honestly believe we made need a few years apart, time to heal.
 
andreboba said:
Guys who say they don't need emotional attachments are the first ones crying lick a bitch when their girl dumps them.lol

Besides sex dolls are gonna be expensive, more than the average guy is willing to spend.

Look, dealing with women ain't easy, but a chill female is better than a 1000 great pornos, sexually speaking.
And at least when a (non-prostitute)woman says she LOVES you, she means it.:)
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You're speaking from a position of success fam. When its a bunch of rejection followed possible harassment charges men are better off taking a step back. I think the need for family is ever present and men will want to reproduce but I think legal arrangements will be made. The romantic era is coming to a close and its better for everyone that it is.
 
samson1701 said:
Most men don't really want emotional attachments. All most guys nesd is work, a few long time friends, his hobbies, sex and that's about it. They don't care about emotional attachments. Don't need them, Don't want them.
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I've found that this really changes as they age though (I'm talking after 50). It's almost like it switches and the men want/need companionship and get concerned about if someone will be around to take care of them and really be there for them, more than women do. But of course, I'm also talking about a generation of men who have been dependent upon women to take care of them throughout their lives. And many of the women have been there done that and would rather just have a FF.

Honestly, I just said the other day I'm so glad I am older. I can't imagine having to be a young person with the social climate and how people are relating (and not) to each other. I kindof feel bad for my kids. Things are so different. I'm noticing that my kids aren't really interested in having children, and that's the same with many of my friend's kids. They are kindof mixed as to if they are really wanting long term/lifelong relationships or not too. Of course, there are those out there who still getting married and having kids. I'm around a lot of 30/40somethings with young kids and their relationships and expectations are very different. To the point where I really do understand what some of the guys on here talk about. I wouldn't want to be with many of these women either!

We just saw something on the news a couple of weeks ago where they are having parties for women in their early 30s to show them their fertility options. Basically so they can freeze their eggs now to do IVF later. There are plenty of people out there who are doing the single parenting thing by choice and design.

IDK though - seems to be a bit of dangerous territory when human beings get into the belief that they are able to control everything. I know many think it's about making things easier, but I have to wonder if they are really making things more difficult and complicated.
 
The Dark King said:
I think the need for family is ever present and men will want to reproduce but I think legal arrangements will be made.
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this already exists. Plenty of people are doing the single parent thing by choice. Some are creating co-parenting situations and never being together. It's just about having and raising the child(ren). Then of course there are those who don't want to deal with the other party at all so they do single adoption, get pregnant, etc.
 
K said:
this already exists. Plenty of people are doing the single parent thing by choice. Some are creating co-parenting situations and never being together. It's just about having and raising the child(ren). Then of course there are those who don't want to deal with the other party at all so they do single adoption, get pregnant, etc.
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Makes sense to me. It seems like interaction is something a lot of us do for survival sake. I adore my family and friends at this point in my life I'm good for 3 hours top of socializing unless we're doing something like hunting or working out. The minute AI companions are an option people will become even more disconnected or all interaction will happen virtually. It makes sense and its beneficial to everyone. Crime would plummet like almost no crime in a matter of years
 
The Dark King said:
You're speaking from a position of success fam. When its a bunch of rejection followed possible harassment charges men are better off taking a step back. I think the need for family is ever present and men will want to reproduce but I think legal arrangements will be made. The romantic era is coming to a close and its better for everyone that it is.
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No, the romantic era will never come to a close. And contractual arrangements are pretty old as in arranged marriages. Still alive and well in many parts of the world. I think they are making a comeback in the Western world in the form of match making agencies/websites. Maybe that's a good option for people who are fed up with dating. Arranged marriage and love isn't mutually exclusive either, just that the process of getting to know someone is organized differently.
I can't take this sex robot thing seriously at all because I don't believe all men want out of sex is a place to deposit their sperm. At least the ones who are normal upstairs.
 
Lol. Imagine a world where you can meet android chicks at a bar offering to buy you a drink.

IA robot chicks financed by the government. So all you need is good looks or some game......lol
 
Madeleine said:
No, the romantic era will never come to a close. And contractual arrangements are pretty old as in arranged marriages. Still alive and well in many parts of the world. I think they are making a comeback in the Western world in the form of match making agencies/websites. Maybe that's a good option for people who are fed up with dating. Arranged marriage and love isn't mutually exclusive either, just that the process of getting to know someone is organized differently.
I can't take this sex robot thing seriously at all because I don't believe all men want out of sex is a place to deposit their sperm. At least the ones who are normal upstairs.
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And that's you speaking from a place of privilege. You think its "normal" for a man to agree to share resources with a stranger to prove hes good enough to spend time with her. Its a great deal for women sucks for men.
You also misunderstand what romance is for a guy. Its peacocking to show you're a good potential mate. Its filled with unsustainable promises and unrealistic standards. Again great for women since youre the one being pursued. Nothing sucks more for a guy than sacrificing a bunch of money (don't care if its only 24.99) and then to be told you aren't what they want. Dating is an uneven practice that benefits women more.
That's not including all the premature bonding that a lot of men hate. Women are generally dying to find a best friend they have sex with when they couple. Men want a woman they can be with but not all the time.
 
Beasty said:
Lol. Imagine a world where you can meet android chicks at a bar offering to buy you a drink.

IA robot chicks financed by the government. So all you need is good looks or some game......lol
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A generation from now they'll look no different than ordinary women. Everyone will be so much happier. Stress will be almost gone
 
The Dark King said:
And that's you speaking from a place of privilege. You think its "normal" for a man to agree to share resources with a stranger to prove hes good enough to spend time with her. Its a great deal for women sucks for men.
You also misunderstand what romance is for a guy. Its peacocking to show you're a good potential mate. Its filled with unsustainable promises and unrealistic standards. Again great for women since youre the one being pursued. Nothing sucks more for a guy than sacrificing a bunch of money (don't care if its only 24.99) and then to be told you aren't what they want. Dating is an uneven practice that benefits women more.
That's not including all the premature bonding that a lot of men hate. Women are generally dying to find a best friend they have sex with when they couple. Men want a woman they can be with but not all the time.
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Didn't I share further up in this thread about going Dutch or taking turns picking up the bills and so on? I thought we agreed that money shouldn't play a big role when getting to know someone. As for being pursued I live in the wrong country for that. German men don't have clue what it means to flirt or pursue a woman. To find someone to even compliment or talk to you without reason is hard. Talkless of getting invited for random dates. American women regularly complain bitterly about German men on toytown.com (an expat forum) and their perceived lack of effort and enthusiasm. If not for the fact you said you found your woman I think based on your posts you might really enjoy our pragmatic, a little cool approach to life;-) (of Germans, I mean).
Everything has its pros and cons. Either women are not independent enough/expect too much in terms of resources or they are too independent. Either men are too aggressive or not proactive enough. I think in every country people have complaints about the opposite sex.
 
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I think we in our current western society are living in a bubble of fucked up sexual interactions.

Men and women have been making shit work for thousands of years. I'm confident that bro-culture, feminism, misandry, and misogyny, aren't going to derail our species in the long run. Even a thousand years from now you're still going to have boy meets girl, boy and girl fall in love, boy and girl have baby, rinse and repeat.
 
ColiBreh1 said:
The #MeToo/Time's Up movement just finessed Mark Wahlberg out of a million dollar check: https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/amp/news/mark-wahlberg-donates-his-fee-all-money-reshoots-1074565
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The Time's Up movement got Tracee Ellis Ross wanting to sit out of episodes of "Black-ish" until she is paid the same as Anthony Anderson. Even though AA is an Executive Producer for "Black-ish" & the spin-off "Grown-ish". AA also helped pitched the show to ABC & is the Narrator on the show: http://www.hollywood.com/general/tr...-black-ish-co-star-anthony-anderson-60711252/


This got me thinking that Mark Whalberg does deserve to get paid more than Michelle Willams. Mark Whalberg is a way bigger hollywood star & figure, so he can definitely demand more pay.
 
The Dark King said:
That's not including all the premature bonding that a lot of men hate. Women are generally dying to find a best friend they have sex with when they couple. Men want a woman they can be with but not all the time.
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I think there's some truth to this. In talking to women, they seem to have a really twisted view of what they expect from men. That whole "be my everything" mentality. I don't want anyone to be my everything. There are different reasons/purposes for different relationships in my life.
 
ColiBreh1 said:
The Time's Up movement got Tracee Ellis Ross wanting to sit out of episodes of "Black-ish" until she is paid the same as Anthony Anderson. Even though AA is an Executive Producer for "Black-ish" & the spin-off "Grown-ish". AA also helped pitched the show to ABC & is the Narrator on the show: http://www.hollywood.com/general/tr...-black-ish-co-star-anthony-anderson-60711252/


This got me thinking that Mark Whalberg does deserve to get paid more than Michelle Willams. Mark Whalberg is a way bigger hollywood star & figure, so he can definitely demand more pay.
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I don't have a problem with Walberg getting paid more. At least based on the story I heard, which was that he was already committed to another project at the time they were wanting to do the reshoots. She agreed to do it for nothing. There can be and are all sorts of different reasons for different amounts. This is part of what we've discussed on here before - it's really difficult in many situations to compare jobs that are exactly the same. I get it in govt positions or industries where things are very standard. I've worked in very few situations where people had equal jobs. And there have been plenty of times when I made more than supposed male couterparts.
 
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