I think he means that because women aren’t held accountable or as accountable as men for wrongdoing, some women are stunted. If there are no physical repercussions or prison time to be served due to a high probability of getting a slap on the wrist... many young women 35 and under, aren’t as accountable for their actions and choices. I don’t think he is saying all or most, but many.
Funny how we don't look at 13 going on 30 the same way.
How does that look like for you?
There are generally a whole lot of adults around who got stuck in their early twenties and think it’s cute that way. I’m tired of grown ass people around thirty whining how they are not ready to get serious in a relationship, live together, possibly start a family, make financial plans for the future. Rather they live from day to day, play around like teens, party like they are getting paid for it. Then when it’s too late they go to the doctor for IVF and expect miracles which may never take place.
Because deep down no one wants the fun to stop. Imo the fun only stops because too many relationships are built on the wrong concept. I understand that kids change things, but too many people have boring relationships before the kids....lol. So by the time they have kids there's not much hope.
It’s because people nowadays are too fun oriented and have a very low tolerance to suffering. They are just out for short-term gratification. But many things of value in life cost some suffering to get to the long-term gratification.
True but when two educated people come together how much suffering is there really? That's two people putting their abilities and resources together. Suffering could easily be minimized when its not being caused from inside the relationship.
No I mean generally. Everything has a price.
Oh oK you're just talking about sacrifice. Two educated people should understand that. If two people work hard when they are single, when they come together what's the difference?
It is a common sense thing. First thing I look at in a person is whether or not they create problems for themselves. That will tell you if they have common sense or not.
My main requirements is an active lifestyle and common sense. When someone is physically active it balances them mentally. Keeps their mind clear and positive. Everything else is not much of a big deal, as long as she's my type to begin with. When you regularly go biking or swimming with someone you're less likely to argue. I really like when I'm not the only one coming up with suggestions on activities.
