Sick & Tired of Wiggers! I Want a Regular White Girl!

as in snow bunnies? :shock:

 

Nah, just the "bunny" part. I remember you had issues with the term "snowbunny".

 

I call wiggers "fake gangstas" or "suburban gangstas" because it's usually a person from the suburbs with the fake gangsta mentality. Plus, wigger just sounds hella corny to me.

 

aww daddy thanks for membering.....

 

Depends on who's saying it--a "wigger" or a "normal girl". :wink:

 

Appreciaitng different cultures does not necessarily make one a "wigger". I love black history, as there are so many untold stories that the text books have chosen not to print. My Masters' thesis is on lynching in Hartford CT during the Depression. That is a piece of history that has not been told. I love Jamaican food and reggae music. Love jazz and R&B. I also like classic rock and other music that is more assoicated with white culture, does that make me a "wigger"?

 

You might be better off with a Z100 type of girl than one who listens to Hot 97. Most if not all the White Women I've dated are more Trance, Alternative, &, Pop types which may be difficult for you seeing that they are not into the Hip Hop Culture. They'll listen to it but, not the type that would make it their business to go to lil Wayne (I hope I spelt his name correctly) concert. However wouldn’t hesitate to go to Ultrafest or possibly a Sara Bareilles concert.

Both parties need to be on the same wavelength from a mental standpoint and, that seems to be the problem you are having with the girls you are pursuing. While both of you may be physically attracted, mentally, the limitation is there based different lifestyles.

I’m going to quote something you said in your first post;

You may still present yourself as “the typical black guy” in their eyes and, only when they get to know you realize you are different. Seeing that girls love to show off their boyfriends they want someone to look the part attire wise.

While there is nothing wrong hanging out with a lot of girls, it does prevent you from meeting potential girlfriends. And it seems none of your lady friends (Whether ex-girlfriend or ones who like you only as a friend) are introducing you to their single friends so, you are heading nowhere. If you are not the type guy that can meet girls solo, you need a “wing man.” Someone that will help you meet a more Z100 girl.

I don’t think you are ready for that Emma Watson type of girl as of yet. You seem to be at the crossroads at the moment.

This why I said you are still at the crossroads for, what you are looking for and what you are willing to settle for are polar opposites. If you are sure on what you want you won’t make such a big compromise.

That really has nothing to do with you. The end result was Kristen’s doing. There are plenty of people that let their family and friends run their lives when they become of age. The most you can do is just move on.

That is a very interesting relationship. I’ll tip my hat to you mate for, I wouldn’t be in such a situation. You are obviously a bigger man than I.

Just bare in mind, that she is using your love to her advantage. Personally, I would cut all bad ties, and meet new people. It may not be the noblest thing to do, but, as far as I’m concerned it doesn’t make sense being good semaraton when, you are being hurt in the end.

Cheers!

 

Nah, that just makes you a down-assed woman that's cool to hang-out with. :wink:

 

Playboy look inside and ask yourself what do you really want. From your pics and from what you told us. It looks like your having fun being single.
Are you ready for a commited relationship?

Where are you meeting the wigga girls at? to me real relationships are never perfect because we are human and not perfect. The chick that has a boyfriend and is cheating with you I dont know that might be a bad way to start off if you ever become her boyfriend.

You been living that player lifestyle for a while , might hard to break away from.

 

No. Just an open minded person. Wish there were more like that

 

This guy is spot on.

Playboy -- are you still putting off a certain vibe that still attracts these wiggers?

For example wiggers are put off by me almost immediately. First by my attire, completely non- hip hop, clean cut and put together with clothes that actually fit my muscular build. Then if they are still not for certain they are especially put off once they talk to me for a few minutes.

To sum it up --- you're still putting of a vibe either by your behavior and/or subtly in your attire thats appealing to wiggers and while the type of white girl you're looking for may still find you cool to talk to as the "entertaining typical black guy" they do not see you as a proper male counterpart.

 

there are alot of wigger girls in atlanta, where i live.

 

I know exactly what you are talking about.Best thing to do,is just ignore those type of femles.Personally i find them extremly annoying.

 

wiggers & thugs

When I began going out socializing in the clubs, I would be approached by many different types,however, If a man approached me talking "thug",I would politely inform them I was a white girl,to please talk so I could understand, even if I understood, they would be passed over, intelligence and self respect in a man is what attracts me,not the "bling or the cheese or talk" You attract what you put out there. The differences in our cultures make it rich,not pretending I'm something I'm not Do we laugh over some differences? Yes,that is part of our richness!

 

wiggers & thugs

When I began going out socializing in the clubs, I would be approached by many different types,however, If a man approached me talking "thug",I would politely inform them I was a white girl,to please talk so I could understand, even if I understood, they would be passed over, intelligence and self respect in a man is what attracts me,not the "bling or the cheese or talk" You attract what you put out there. The differences in our cultures make it rich,not pretending I'm something I'm not Do we laugh over some differences? Yes,that is part of our richness!

 

Re: wiggers & thugs

Man, clubbing... it's been years for me! we used to get approached by dark-skinned African guys who would say "I want to know you" with a heavy accent.