You ladies should check out soulswipe, it's the black version of Tinder. It's a goldmine of black bachelor's on there. If you fellas still find black women attractive, it's a slew of attractive ladies on there too. The white women are a small minority on there if that's your aim.
Tinder seems to have a lot of flaky people. One day they talk to you, the other day they all of a sudden stop. You can get some dates, and a bit more than that (Netflix and chill) with continuous effort.
Well, a lot of people are on dating sites for attention and validation. They never really have any intention on meeting up with people. It's just an extension of Instagram/twitter/facebook to get messages, likes and comments. Everything is an ego boost nowadays.
