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scott1618 said:
I thought the same thing at first but after close examination of her post I do in fact honestly believe she is a white woman genuiely attracted to us walking dildos. Very admirable lady.
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That wouldn't include you Scotty, afterall you are a superior being, God's gift to women, you don't walk, you float the earth. So no my dear, you in your supernatural beauty, and being the perfect traditional gentleman that you are by allowing poor damsels in distress to chase that magic wand between your legs, cannot be categorized as a walking dildo. You are a god, an Adonis...oh hypocrite errr, penis king, maybe thou should walk around in disguise so as not to be constantly chased and perhaps kidnapped by some lucky woman.

. :rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:
 
Maroon said:
It came to me as a huge surprise to see that it wasn't really the BW who were at the bottom of the US social ladder, but in fact the BM.
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I am not at the bottom of anyone's social ladder, thank you. Not productive to generalize like this.

Maroon said:
Yea, the extent of the BW bashing is disturbing, but you have to delve deeper into why it's happening (it's a result of deeper structural problems in the black community). Supposedly the women bash the men too.
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Again, sweeping generalizations and mischaracterizing. The black community is quite close knit in America. Speaking of myself and most BM I know who dated or even married WM, we/they enjoyed the pleasure of attractive women of many shapes and colors. When a BM dates a WW don't assume that he hates BW.
 
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Sir Nose said:
I am not at the bottom of anyone's social ladder, thank you. Not productive to generalize like this.



Again, sweeping generalizations and mischaracterizing. The black community is quite close knit in America. Speaking of myself and most BM I know who dated or even married WM, we/they enjoyed the pleasure of attractive women of many shapes and colors. When a BM dates a WM don't assume that he hates BW.
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I'm sure you mean WW and not WM. ;-)
 
Maroon said:
No idea how to break it down. It came to me as a huge surprise to see that it wasn't really the BW who were at the bottom of the US social ladder, but in fact the BM. So it's kinda understandable where the dissatisfaction is coming from on each part.



Is it not PC? Then how come I keep hearing it from men all the time.
And how is "women complaining about men" a billion dollar industry - that's certainly new to me. (Or do you mean the Tyra show and the Essence magazine?)
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Sadly many think if they isolate and completely destroy BW it will somehow raise their own profile but I know it's quite the opposite.
 
YogaGirl said:
That wouldn't include you Scotty, afterall you are a superior being, God's gift to women, you don't walk, you float the earth. So no my dear, you in your supernatural beauty, and being the perfect traditional gentleman that you are by allowing poor damsels in distress to chase that magic wand between your legs, cannot be categorized as a walking dildo. You are a god, an Adonis...oh hypocrite errr, penis king, maybe thou should walk around in disguise so as not to be constantly chased and perhaps kidnapped by some lucky woman.
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See now YogaGirl... you ran the boy off the board.:lol:
 
Sir Nose said:
I am not at the bottom of anyone's social ladder, thank you. Not productive to generalize like this.
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Not you, of course! Ok, it was a generalisation but it's evident that there is an education/employment gap between the bw and bm. More bw get an education than bm and more bw are given preference at the workplace, this is what I found unusual and this is what I meant by "structural problems".

Sir Nose said:
Again, sweeping generalizations and mischaracterizing. The black community is quite close knit in America. Speaking of myself and most BM I know who dated or even married WM, we/they enjoyed the pleasure of attractive women of many shapes and colors. When a BM dates a WW don't assume that he hates BW.
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Never did I say or even assume that. That'd be like saying that a ww is interested in bm because she hates wm which is hardly the case.
 
YogaGirl said:
That wouldn't include you Scotty, afterall you are a superior being, God's gift to women, you don't walk, you float the earth. So no my dear, you in your supernatural beauty, and being the perfect traditional gentleman that you are by allowing poor damsels in distress to chase that magic wand between your legs, cannot be categorized as a walking dildo. You are a god, an Adonis...oh hypocrite errr, penis king, maybe thou should walk around in disguise so as not to be constantly chased and perhaps kidnapped by some lucky woman.

. :rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:
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I missed this!

I'll take this immature diatribe as a clear white flag.
 
scott1618 said:
I hear where you're comming from completely. Personally I am not attracted to the majority of Black Women I come across physically and especially not in other ways, but I definately dont have an Issue with black women as a whole. Some black men do and are constantly venting a bunch of negativism and no one wants to be around that.

A turn off for me is white women that approach me trying to act "ghetto" or urban especially since i'm not like that myself. Sorry I dont speak ebonics and I dont like a white women that does either. These types of women usually just see black men and hip hop culture as a fascination and 9 times out of 10 they are rejected by self respecting white men. Another turn off is women that come on too strong and think every black man wants them. This is usually the same group as the former. I really cant blame them for being so confident though since ebonics and acting overwhelmingly slutty probably worked like kryptonite on a thousand ray-rays. Either way they'll get one in their loss column when they approach me.

Other than that I dont really have many out of the norm turn offs, I try not to be too picky.
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I was exactly going to mention the same thing...it has been my experience that alot of white women seems to be super confident when they have approached me...like they are saying "I am white and you are black, I know you can't deny me...All I have to do is mention that I have the slightest amount of interest and you are mine" this is related to my initial post on here...as soon as I hear a white women say "I only date black men b/c...they are black kings of the earth....they are fly...they can dance...they can sex...they move well...they like me more...they are more caring...they are more anything" a periscope goes up and my interest in them has taken a serious blow...

you are right on target with that post, because I lived the same circumstances...I am not ghetto/urban/stereotypically black in the way I present myself, now I am from the hood and extremely black in my core...but as a confident black man I present myself how I like because I am not concerned with "looking black"...those people that know me would sincerity...but for some reason they think I am interested in smoking weed, going to rap concerts, riding big cars, like big booties (i do like nice ones, so they are sort of corrct with that one), interested in blinging...maybe they are correct in assumptions b/c alot of the young folks are doing that...but if you are approaching an intelligent, educated, confident black man you might want to check up your approach...to be fair these lines of thought are seen in black women so I guess cant pin it all with being white...but definitely the first paragraph is a white dilemma
 
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