well lets ask this why BM love WW

rdubya86 said:
I like that the white women I come across actually welcome me. Sure there is a physical component of me liking white women but its the same for all women, I just like women. I love the shape of women, their obsession with good smelling fragrances and I love it when they are happy and smile- thats the best =). I'm not the whats up goto the club player type, I'm the whats up check out my new microcontroller nerd type. I don't run any type of games, I just: say compliments, strike up conversations, check physical cues and flirt. 5/10 of the women that respond back positively are usually white women. What I find from a lot nationalities of women but see and hear from the majority of black women I run into is that I'm not really black. Even though I was raised on james brown, chitlins and peach cobbler like most of us- when I open up my mouth they are quick to dismiss me because I'm not a walking stereotype.
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Well said!
 
She brought me dinner from this awesome Ukranian spot in the East Village. I just had a lamb burger with feta cheese. Now that's good eating. She's taking a nap while we wait for Game of Thrones.

Thoughtful sexy girls are awesome.
 
The Dark Knight said:
She brought me dinner from this awesome Ukranian spot in the East Village. I just had a lamb burger with feta cheese. Now that's good eating. She's taking a nap while we wait for Game of Thrones.

Thoughtful sexy girls are awesome.
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see, thoughtful and caring actions make you feel good and appreciated.
 
I actually like all types of women racially, yet white women do top my list...for much of what is mentioned...easygoing, sexy, open minded, color attraction, etc....and European or Aussie girls are tip top for me...I get weak for them..I luv the accents and the cultures of foreign(non American) white women best...
 
blacklexus said:
I actually like all types of women racially, yet white women do top my list...for much of what is mentioned...easygoing, sexy, open minded, color attraction, etc....and European or Aussie girls are tip top for me...I get weak for them..I luv the accents and the cultures of foreign(non American) white women best...
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hmm Europe it is a big place :mrgreen:
i dont think you will like all
 
I like that white women I come across recieve me.

rdubya86 said:
I like that the white women I come across actually welcome me. Sure there is a physical component of me liking white women but its the same for all women, I just like women. I love the shape of women, their obsession with good smelling fragrances and I love it when they are happy and smile- thats the best =). I'm not the whats up goto the club player type, I'm the whats up check out my new microcontroller nerd type. I don't run any type of games, I just: say compliments, strike up conversations, check physical cues and flirt. 5/10 of the women that respond back positively are usually white women. What I find from a lot nationalities of women but see and hear from the majority of black women I run into is that I'm not really black. Even though I was raised on james brown, chitlins and peach cobbler like most of us- when I open up my mouth they are quick to dismiss me because I'm not a walking stereotype.
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What's truly hilarious (and sad) about this is that you have some black women who always cry about how they can't find a "good" black man but when they actually meet a "good" black man, they don't know it because too often, they expect (and seem to actually want) some negative, stereotypical idea of a black man, as you pointed out. If a brother speaks well, uses english and not indecipherable street slang, he is, again as you point out, deemed not "black" enough for them. However, the women who think this way are quite probably not the type of women that any smart, cultured, sophisticated brother would likely have anything to do with anyway and I honestly do not mean to sound smarmy or snide in saying any of this. If she's attractive, he may consider rolling around in the hay with her but that's it; no dinner theatre, museums, art galleries, operas, equestrian events, etc. And that's what makes this so sad, that so many black women have come to believe, and accept, that the only type of black guy they'll ever entertain, and who will be singularly drawn to them is some guy off the streets, thus illustrating how low their own level of self-esteem, sense of self-worth, intellect and social standing is. However, even taking into account what a smart, cultured brother may be interested in, if some of these attitude-challenged black women would truly attempt to open up and let their built-in guards down for a bit, perhaps a "good" black man would be willing to take them under his wing and culture 'em up a bit.
 
very easy to approach and talk to, fun, very open minded, less constrained by old customs/traditional norms. When it is over there are no strings attached, no drama during breakup.
The way white women dress is sometimes more appealing and attractive.
 
LuvVanillaIC said:
What's truly hilarious (and sad) about this is that you have some black women who always cry about how they can't find a "good" black man but when they actually meet a "good" black man, they don't know it because too often, they expect (and seem to actually want) some negative, stereotypical idea of a black man, as you pointed out. If a brother speaks well, uses english and not indecipherable street slang, he is, again as you point out, deemed not "black" enough for them. However, the women who think this way are quite probably not the type of women that any smart, cultured, sophisticated brother would likely have anything to do with anyway and I honestly do not mean to sound smarmy or snide in saying any of this. If she's attractive, he may consider rolling around in the hay with her but that's it; no dinner theatre, museums, art galleries, operas, equestrian events, etc. And that's what makes this so sad, that so many black women have come to believe, and accept, that the only type of black guy they'll ever entertain, and who will be singularly drawn to them is some guy off the streets, thus illustrating how low their own level of self-esteem, sense of self-worth, intellect and social standing is. However, even taking into account what a smart, cultured brother may be interested in, if some of these attitude-challenged black women would truly attempt to open up and let their built-in guards down for a bit, perhaps a "good" black man would be willing to take them under his wing and culture 'em up a bit.
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In my experience, I've found a great deal of the women who think like this are in their 20s. Younger women typically don't know what the heck they want. When dating women 5 or more years my senior, the chemistry is usually off the charts. At that point in their life I imagine they're not looking for Mr. R&B Thug Jr. to woo them, as they've either got it out of their system or were never interested to begin with.
 
Kvetchup said:
In my experience, I've found a great deal of the women who think like this are in their 20s. Younger women typically don't know what the heck they want. When dating women 5 or more years my senior, the chemistry is usually off the charts. At that point in their life I imagine they're not looking for Mr. R&B Thug Jr. to woo them, as they've either got it out of their system or were never interested to begin with.
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lol
 
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