what do white women love about black men?

[Formyfriends]

This is definitely it for me.

I think I could summarize it this way: I like a man who knows what he wants, is not afraid to say it, and I especially like it when what he wants is me.

I'm not saying there aren't any white men like that at all, but so far in my life black men do all of that better for me. They tend to be more confident and forthright. And yes, I personally do like hair pulling. A lot. You have to do it right, though.

Thank you for your response! That is what I like in a woman. It's not that I prefer only WW not at all, it's just I found that many WW look past things that prevent a connection. They are willing to allow me the freedom to just be me without all the bull shit. Most of the time I am the one that makes our racial differences an issue. Nearly every WW I have ever date was about how good we can feel with each other then what we could do for each other. As far as hair pulling, slow, firm and authoritative without too much pain. While a small amount of pain can be sexy fun too much takes away from the feeling. :smt112

 

[ItalianLady]

I understand because I've heard women discuss that about being dominated and feeling the force and strength of a man and not being in control. Very primal indeed but I love intense sexual expression like that when I'm with someone. Last girl I was with enjoyed that and I loved every minute of it. I'm not into the whole tying and degrading, just sexual aggression.

Oh Yessssssssss!!!!!! I do find black men to be the best lovers!!!! No other race of man can compare....lovemaking soooooooooooo damn intense!!!!!!!! MMMMMMMMMmmmmmmmmmmm I LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Formyfriends]

Oh Yessssssssss!!!!!! I do find black men to be the best lovers!!!! No other race of man can compare....lovemaking soooooooooooo damn intense!!!!!!!! MMMMMMMMMmmmmmmmmmmm I LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

And we love you too! I think that is why the attraction between WW and BM is so strong. The taboo, the fun things we do to be together, all the exciting stuff that you want to do and never had the chance to do BM are willing to do them with you. Oh, and we can hold a good conversation too. Get the lotion and lets all play! :smt024

 

[LittleBird]

And we love you too! I think that is why the attraction between WW and BM is so strong. The taboo, the fun things we do to be together, all the exciting stuff that you want to do and never had the chance to do BM are willing to do them with you. Oh, and we can hold a good conversation too. Get the lotion and lets all play! :smt024

Love it!

 

[Bhayes]

i think the question should be what type of white women like which type black man?

i really don't like these types of questions because they're too general.

so lets go thru the type of black men there are. i'm going pretty much based on looks, class, personality & fashion type. and i'm strictly talking about african-americans. there are all kinds of black men. but lets focus on the brothas

1. The Urkell Type

2.Bryant Gumble / Tiger Woods type "high society brotha"

3. The Hip Hop Rapper / Actor - 50 Cent LL Cool J Type

4. Famous Black Actor / Media Personality Type

5. Arrogant / Egotisitcal Bodybuilder typer

6. the derek jeter/ vin diesel "bi racial" type

7. the mandingo type

and there are more types that i haven't even got into.

and then there are the looser or middle class undesirables. so not all "black men" fit into the same category.

 

[julie4blackmen]

Wy Black men

Strong, confident, sweet.

I went to school with a lot of black guys, I was born in Louisiana. Some were scary, some were really sweet to me.

The black girls could really be nasty.

 

[Bhayes]

white women.

1.rosanne bar type

2.attractive soccer mom "june cleaver" type

3.super models / actors / porno star type

4. average nice girl

5. aggressive businesswoman type

6. attractive older lady type

7. grandma's

8. rich i don't need a man - but i can't find a man type

and there are more types. more than i can actually name.

so the question is what type of white women like which type of black man and why.

 

[Bhayes]

Strong, confident, sweet.

I went to school with a lot of black guys, I was born in Louisiana. Some were scary, some were really sweet to me.

The black girls could really be nasty.

hey i believe you. its important to be brutally honest sometimes.

 

[julie4blackmen]

I hope I

hey i believe you. its important to be brutally honest sometimes.

I hope i wasnt out of line saying that.

 

[Tamstrong]

I get so tired of the stereotypical doo-doo floating around up in here. :smt011

 

[Bhayes]

I hope i wasnt out of line saying that.

no. i mean. its all good. if you were around an element of women that really disgusted you, then its crucial that you be honest with yourself about it.

as far as IR couples and what the attraction is, there are a wide range of reasons.

me personally the one thing i know to be consistent is when a bm gets with an attractive white woman, white men get angry because they feel entitled. the undesirables don't matter but the plus 10 women are reserved for white men. and when somebody crosses that there is drama.

so im just glad that i have a passport.

 

[Bhayes]

I get so tired of the stereotypical doo-doo floating around up in here. :smt011

really?

 

[stiletoes]

I get so tired of the stereotypical doo-doo floating around up in here. :smt011

co-sign and stupid airheads keep adding to it. . Bets on how long this one will last?

 

[Tamstrong]

co-sign and stupid airheads keep adding to it. . Bets on how long this one will last?

I don't know how long she'll last, but I'm afraid we're stuck with a few of the airheads (female & male) though.

 

[swirlman07]

I get so tired of the stereotypical doo-doo floating around up in here. :smt011

As usual, I couldn't agree with you more Tam, it's simply amazing. Then, just when you thought it couldn't get any worse, you have someone trying to categorize men and women. It wrong-minded on so many levels. These fictitious categories are plainly not representative of reality and people are seldom one dimensional. These are caricatures at best.

 

[TreePixie]

As usual, I couldn't agree with you more Tam, it's simply amazing. Then, just when you thought it couldn't get any worse, you have someone trying to categorize men and women. It wrong-minded on so many levels. These fictitious categories are plainly not representative of reality and people are seldom one dimensional. These are caricatures at best.

Co sign

 

[Bhayes]

As usual, I couldn't agree with you more Tam, it's simply amazing. Then, just when you thought it couldn't get any worse, you have someone trying to categorize men and women. It wrong-minded on so many levels. These fictitious categories are plainly not representative of reality and people are seldom one dimensional. These are caricatures at best.

are you trying to say that these types of people don't exist?. if you are saying that, then you live in a vaccum and you don't see what's going on. I don't know about you, but there are many more "types" than i can name. those are just a few. i agree that people are seldom one dimensional but - we cannot deny that the traits or mixture of traits - whether they be fashion, personality, looks.) with some people certain traits are more dominant.

but a nerd is a nerd. a rapper is rapper. a gumble is a gumble. a snob is a snob. a ho is a ho.

have you ever heard the expression "she/he is not my type" im sure you have. however, do believe it is possible for a person to grow and change too.

but that doesn't change the fact that 50 cent and Nicki Minaj will never party with Barack and Michelle. right people. why because they are different TYPES OF PEOPLE.

but they're celebrities and politicians. but the same could be said about next door neighbors. or people that feel more comfortable at one type of night club but can't even get in the same door of a different club that caters to people who look a certain way.

i hate the fact that in today's world we can't be brutally honest and hardcore. we have to be "politically correct" so that we don't "hurt feelings" - we can't be REAL.

some black men are caught up on myths about white women and some white women are caught up on myths about black men. but there are always those few that see a woman and not a white woman. there are alwyas those few that see man and not a black man.

then there are those that reinforce the the ficticious characters that you say don't exist. LOL.

co-sign and stupid airheads keep adding to it. . Bets on how long this one will last?

who you calling an airhead? MissWacy? She is a really sharp.

 

[Tamstrong]

As usual, I couldn't agree with you more Tam, it's simply amazing. Then, just when you thought it couldn't get any worse, you have someone trying to categorize men and women. It wrong-minded on so many levels. These fictitious categories are plainly not representative of reality and people are seldom one dimensional. These are caricatures at best.

Thanks, Swirl. I'm not surprised you agree since you're someone who actually has sense & knows the difference between reality & fiction. Unfortunately, the ridiculous typecasting seems to happen too often around here. It's interesting to note how the folks with that mentality talk like they have people figured out (usually with nonsense articles & internet links as "proof" to back it up), are typically the folks who have the least understanding about people, relationships, or life. It's sad.

 

[swirlman07]

are you trying to say that these types of people don't exist?. if you are saying that, then you live in a vaccum and you don't see what's going on. I don't know about you, but there are many more "types" than i can name. those are just a few. i agree that people are seldom one dimensional but - we cannot deny that the traits or mixture of traits - whether they be fashion, personality, looks.) with some people certain traits are more dominant.

but a nerd is a nerd. a rapper is rapper. a gumble is a gumble. a snob is a snob. a ho is a ho.

have you ever heard the expression "she/he is not my type" im sure you have. however, do believe it is possible for a person to grow and change too.

but that doesn't change the fact that 50 cent and Nicki Minaj will never party with Barack and Michelle. right people. why because they are different TYPES OF PEOPLE.

but they're celebrities and politicians. but the same could be said about next door neighbors. or people that feel more comfortable at one type of night club but can't even get in the same door of a different club that caters to people who look a certain way.

i hate the fact that in today's world we can't be brutally honest and hardcore. we have to be "politically correct" so that we don't "hurt feelings" - we can't be REAL.

some black men are caught up on myths about white women and some white women are caught up on myths about black men. but there are always those few that see a woman and not a white woman. there are alwyas those few that see man and not a black man.

then there are those that reinforce the the ficticious characters that you say don't exist. LOL.

who you calling an airhead? MissWacy? She is a really sharp.

I'm against labels of any sort that purport to define the person. In many of the examples that you used, I don't think they are accurate at all, but rather only your view of them.

What truly is an Urkell, someone who's a nerd? What's a nerd though, someone who's well read, or is it someone who's socially inept, or is it someone who enjoys Star Trek? There's no definition that's agreed upon, so what's the point.

In the same way, I regard Tiger Woods first and foremost as an athlete, a pro golfer. Then, he's a highly regarded business man. Those are his dominant aspects.

An arrogant bodybuilder is no more a type than a arrogant whatever. It certainly isn't a dominant trait of a bodybuilder. Based on my experience most bodybuilders are athletes who enjoy competing, and most aren't arrogant.

I classify Bryant Gumbel as an intellectual type, and then a journalist.

I could go on and comment on other of your supposed types as well, but I don't see the value as I have attempted to explain why these labels have no value in viewing people because people are multi-dimensional.

In case you don't agree, I can point out any error in your comments regarding the mixing of "different types". If you recall Common, the RAPPER, who's also a poet was invited to the White House. So, it seems that rappers and presidents can mix together.

By the way, perhaps you should read, The Invisible Man, as I don't understand your comment about not wanting to be seen as a Black Man. I ALWAYS want to be seen as a Black man. My Blackness is part of my identity, history and partly responsible for my sensibilities as a person. I don't want anyone to deny me that part of myself. What is most important for me is that I'm not JUDGED because I'm Black. But, that's just my opinion.

 

[swirlman07]

Thanks, Swirl. I'm not surprised you agree since you're someone who actually has sense & knows the difference between reality & fiction. Unfortunately, the ridiculous typecasting seems to happen too often around here. It's interesting to note how the folks with that mentality talk like they have people figured out (usually with nonsense articles & internet links as "proof" to back it up), are typically the folks who have the least understanding about people, relationships, or life. It's sad.

Well said as always...