What U like About BM or WW Than Same Race

Thank you your kind words. As I've stated on this board several times, I've always felt like I was mixed (Black and White). I can fit into both worlds in a sense, but yet, I'm not White enough for the "White" world and I'm not "Black" enough for the Black world. I walk the thin rail.


Y'know, I am of the same opinion as you...

Mind you, having a Black Dad & White Mum *does* add fuel to the fire of my fervor...

Though in these present times....I prefer to think of myself as a Citizen Of World...and if there are any weinerheads that think otherwise, it's in *them*, it ain't on *me!*


It all bolis down to what I think we *all* should be called...

A six-letter word:

PERSON.





'Nuff Said!!!!
















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That quote is the truth! I love it...lol

Thank you your kind words. As I've stated on this board several times, I've always felt like I was mixed (Black and White). I can fit into both worlds in a sense, but yet, I'm not White enough for the "White" world and I'm not "Black" enough for the Black world. I walk the thin rail.

I think my upbringing helped mold me into who I've become. I used to have problems with my family, but they've outgrown their prejudices and expanded their minds as well. I'd hope I was a catalyst for them and also to see who I've become, because of where and how I was raised and by whom.

I stand by my statement made a good while back that you are one of the most beautiful people here inside and out. :)
 
Yes, I have done an article on black women with white men before and found that many black women are indeed attracted to nonblack men along with black men, other black women like myself are only attracted nonblack men and a few black women are with nonblack men because they are angry with black men and think they are getting revenge. I have also spoken with white men who are with (or dating) black women. Many of the white men with black women are with them because they love and are attracted these black women but there are some white men who only have a sexual fetish for black women. So I am curious if some of these situations apply to black men and white women relationships.

If you are only attracted to nonblack men.........why are you here? Why do you care what black men do or think if you don't want them.
 
Y'know, I am of the same opinion as you...

Mind you, having a Black Dad & White Mum *does* add fule to the fire of my fervor...

Though in these present times....I prefer to think of myself as a Citizen Of World...and if there are any weinerheads that think otherwise, it's ion *them*, it ain't on *me!*


It all bolis down to what I think we *all* should be called...

A six-letter word:

PERSON.




'Nuff Said!!!!





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I love it! If only everyone thought like you. We'd be a much happier world and a we'd live in a more peaceful place.

Although I'm ethnically mixed, I can relate to you a lot.

I stand by my statement made a good while back that you are one of the most beautiful people here inside and out. :)

Jordan, you just made my day, my year, my life....

I think that is one of the nicest things someone has ever said to me.

Please know the feeling is definitely mutual.

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Since you answered me, I'll answer you.

I grew up with a lot of Black kids, especially Black girls. I always felt a natural bond with Black folks. I felt comfortable around them. Not that I don't feel comfortable with others, but it just feels different and more like that "at home" feeling. With that said, when boys started entering the picture, I gravitated towards Black boys. One could say cause that's who my friends liked, but again, I felt a natural attraction to them. It's an unsaid thing. If I see a WM, I can say, he's cute, but there's that extra umpphhh I get when I see a BM I'm attracted to. I'm attracted to "Black" features. It can be argued, but my old best friend who was African said that I like Black American features. I agree with her, but to some others, that can be disputed. I liked BM way before I became sexually active so any of those bullshit myths or their sexual prowess crap, I despise. They're more than just a dick to me. I admire their inner strength and their tenacity. They also are very confident. They're a "mans man". I admire their brains and when they love, they really do love you. They're the fucking shit! I love Black men and thank God for creating them...


Thanks, I could feel your sincerity when talking about your attraction to black men. I can understand you growing up around black people and feeling comfortable. I always believed that you don't have to be black to like and be apart of the African American culture. I hate that B.S. to, about black men's size and sexual prowess because that depends on the individual and not his race. I feel those stereotypes really demeans black men in general.
 
Thanks, I could feel your sincerity when talking about your attraction to black men. I can understand you growing up around black people and feeling comfortable. I always believed that you don't have to be black to like and be apart of the African American culture. I hate that B.S. to, about black men's size and sexual prowess because that depends on the individual and not his race. I feel those stereotypes really demeans black men in general.

Thank you.

I've always had "soul" or been "down". Well, you know those things. I think it was innate in me. Like back in the day, I was always known as the "Best White Girl Dancer" in Jr High and HS. I had rhythm naturally. Like I said, it all felt natural for me. I don't try to be "Black", I am who I am. I'm very proud of my heritages, but I'm also proud of my soulfulness or whatever it is you want to call it.

They surely do! I always fight those stereotypes. I hate when any dumbass comes on here talking that sexual racial shit. They need to go fuck a tree.
 
I always fight those stereotypes. I hate when any dumbass comes on here talking that sexual racial shit.


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They need to go fuck a tree.

Don't even think the tree would wanna have 'em...

And those that do? Well, in all actuality....that's where that Dutch Elm Disease and Beetle Blight all comes from..:mrgreen:















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Alright just for kicks, and given the infinitesimal chance that you are truly curious and not a troll I will give you an answer. First, the vast majority of men here in my experience with the site are looking for certain qualities, attributes and characteristics in a woman. These qualities, attributes and characteristics know no color, and the majority of men here would happily date a woman who meet these criterion regardless of how much melanin she has in the epidermal layer of her skin. The life experience and sometimes just plain geography (as well as a thousand other reasons) of the men here have led them to be interested in the kind of women found here on this site. In other words they date them for the same reason anybody dates anyone, love and having a lot in common.

The reason you got the initial negative push back to your original post was that you made an insulting ASSUMPTION that the men and women here were not getting something from a certain group women/men and ran to another group of women/men. There was also a subtle attempted shaming tactic behind your words imho as well, not a nice way to introduce yourself, and not original at all, countless trolls have done drive-bys here asking similar if not the same question, all with twisted, sick, bigoted agendas to push.

The bottom line is this, there is only one race, human, the dividing, stereotyping, ect., of human beings into "racial" categories based on appearance that we still see so often across the globe, is a social, not scientific construct that has always been used by those with power (political and wealth) to control the hearts and minds of those two are too stupid or scared to think for themselves.

http://www.pbs.org/race/000_General/000_00-Home.htm

I didn't mean for this thread's title to come out offensive but I can see where my assuming that the bm and ww most have found something in each other that was lacking in the opposite-sex of their same race could be seen as negative.

However I feel my intelligence is being insulted when some people hand me this there is only one race, the human race or I don't see color crap, especially when they say they have a preference to black, white, Asian etc. people or consciously choose people of a specific race to date.
 
Since you answered me, I'll answer you.

I grew up with a lot of Black kids, especially Black girls. I always felt a natural bond with Black folks. I felt comfortable around them. Not that I don't feel comfortable with others, but it just feels different and more like that "at home" feeling. With that said, when boys started entering the picture, I gravitated towards Black boys. One could say cause that's who my friends liked, but again, I felt a natural attraction to them. It's an unsaid thing. If I see a WM, I can say, he's cute, but there's that extra umpphhh I get when I see a BM I'm attracted to. I'm attracted to "Black" features. It can be argued, but my old best friend who was African said that I like Black American features. I agree with her, but to some others, that can be disputed. I liked BM way before I became sexually active so any of those bullshit myths or their sexual prowess crap, I despise. They're more than just a dick to me. I admire their inner strength and their tenacity. They also are very confident. They're a "mans man". I admire their brains and when they love, they really do love you. They're the fucking shit! I love Black men and thank God for creating them...

I'm right there with you, girl. :smt038 :smt038 :smt038
 
.... I feel my intelligence is being insulted when some people hand me this there is only one race, the human race or I don't see color crap, especially when they say they have a preference to black, white, Asian etc. people or consciously choose people of a specific race to date.

And none of us here ever *did*, Pardner....


At least *I've* not....

Still and all, NOBODY should deny any human the right to pursue relationships with whomever it is their God-given right to have said preferences for....no matter what ethnicity/colour/race the love may be..



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Don't even think the tree would wanna have 'em...

And those that do? Well, in all actuality....that's where that Dutch Elm Disease and Beetle Blight all comes from..:mrgreen:















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So true...

Yeah, we'll have you assign them their punishment. I'm sure theres more from where the Dutch and Beetle stuff came from....lol

I don't even want to disrespect Mother Nature and her creation called, the "tree".

I just can't stand racist ass fuckers and people who fetishize people.
 
If you are only attracted to nonblack men.........why are you here? Why do you care what black men do or think if you don't want them.


Hello, like I said earlier I am just curious. I have already spoken with and done a article on white men and black women couples and now I am doing one on (as another poster put it) the other side of the swirl. I care what both black men and white women have to say on this subject.
 
Thank you.

I've always had "soul" or been "down". Well, you know those things. I think it was innate in me. Like back in the day, I was always known as the "Best White Girl Dancer" in Jr High and HS. I had rhythm naturally. Like I said, it all felt natural for me. I don't try to be "Black", I am who I am. I'm very proud of my heritages, but I'm also proud of my soulfulness or whatever it is you want to call it.

They surely do! I always fight those stereotypes. I hate when any dumbass comes on here talking that sexual racial shit. They need to go fuck a tree.


You are welcome. Damn! I must say it sounds like we grew up in similar situations but at the opposite ends of the spectum.:-) . I grew up around black people and white people and feel comfortable around both. Sometimes even more so around white people. In school I had black and white friends but I was still seen as the oreo by the rest of the black kids and some said that I was a wannbe white girl which was totally false. I am proud comming from and being of an African American background, except I don't exactly fit the mold lol.
 
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I grew up around black people and white people and feel comfortable around both. Sometimes even more so around white people. In school I had black and white friend but I was still seen as the oreo by the rest of the black kids and some said that I was a wannbe white girl which was totally false. I am proud comming from and being of an African American background, except I don't exactly fit the mold lol.

Kinda sorta alot like how I grew up in Maywood & Chicago, Illinois.

More on the more outre aspects of those Hot And Heady Days Back When in a future post.

Still and all, there should be NO 'mold' as far as ANY & EVERY free-thinking individual person is concerned.


A producer friend of mine gave me this sage advice years ago: Dare to be different and follow your own star.

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